What Is Your Crossdressing Personality?

What is your crossdressing personality?

Last night my wife and I were watching the episode of Boston Legal where Clarence – the otherwise shy unassuming lawyer who enjoys crossdressing in his spare time – enters a singing competition as his alter ego Clarice. We watched the dramatic transformation – his feminine persona shone radiantly with confidence when she set foot on stage. Singing, dancing and shaking her booty with freewheeling abandon. As if crossdressing psychology had dazzled her mind and switched her personality.

After the show my wife asked me a question which got me thinking about my crossdressing personality. Am I more confident and outgoing when dressed as Vanessa? Does my personality change in ways not easily explained by being more feminine?

What Is My Crossdressing Personality?

When I put on my makeup, heels and hose I become more feminine, more outgoing, more confident, more excitable, less contemplative, less uncertain and more open to being vulnerable. When I’m in male mode I’m constantly worried about what people will think of me. I try to be perfect, to not offend anyone, I shape who I am to fit into the person I believe others want me to be.  When the transvestite inside of me comes out I realize that I’ve probably already offended some people. I don’t mold myself to their expectations, but find myself free to be who I am inside.

It’s a strange balance. I find myself less interested in what others think about me and more interested in them. Even a light dusting of makeup and a feminine mindset will find me chatting with cashiers in the checkout line, willing to share a piece of my day and eager to hear a bit more about theirs.

In truth I like who I am when I’m crossdressed. I think that if there was socially acceptable cross dressing more people would feel comfortable expressing a different side of themselves. We may even find that crossdressing psychology is sometimes the best kind of psychology.

What Is Your Crossdressing Personality?

Does your experience mirror mine? Think about what it’s like when you’re the woman of your dreams. Who do you become when you’re dressed?

P.S. When you’re crossdressed be fabulous on the inside and the outside! Learn how to dress and act like a woman!

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    nichol 6 months ago

    my life was very much like darlylikeblack01 but the few times I did get found out I was ridiculed shamed and slapped by my own mother . so I have been to guarded to do it for awhile .

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    Allie 6 months ago

    I honestly become very slutty and outgoing

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    JoJo 6 months ago

    I, too, lived in an abusive home. My mother beat me over the head with the first thing she could find.My father was impossible to please, nothing I did was ever right, but my brothers could do no wrong. My whole life I had trouble expressing my emotions because I never felt emotions. Countless concussions have affected the way I express myself . I was an angry man that didn’t know how to control it.After coming out to my lo wife several weeks ago changed that. Since dressing almost full time around the house, I have become a kinder, more understanding, gentler man(or woman). I can finally enjoy what emotions are supposed to feel like. It’s been such a revelation that I break down and cry when I feel emotions. For a rough and gruff 61 year old former factory worker that had anger issues , this has been a very confusing time. I believe that by letting JoJo out, I’ve found my feminine side and I’m loving every minute of it. I find that I need hugs and kisses often throughout the day. I wish I would have had the nerve to come out to my wife years ago. I feel like I’ve missed so much of life’s enjoyment, not to mention ruining much of my wife’s enjoyment. I apologize for the long post. Too many emotions to write about that are clouding my head and heart. Thank you for allowing me to rant, Love you girls, JoJo ( finally feeling the dream) ….

  4. Darlene 2 years ago

    Actually Darlene is mellow and laid back. She loves Gothic stuff and jewelry. She also likes late night walks.

  5. Darlylikeblack01 2 years ago

    I was born and raised in an abusive home and was the outcast in school. Most of my life is painful memories. When I slid on the black dress I could not get enough of turning her loose and erasing me. It has nothing to do with sex, I don’t get turned on seeing myself as her, I simply enjoy the clothing and jewelry she can wear, the night clothes and the nylons. When I am alone I can turn her loose, take walks, and even play my music. I like her much better. I wish I could just toss him and let her live the rest of my time.

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