What Is Your Crossdressing Personality?

Last night my wife and I were watching the episode of Boston Legal where Clarence - the otherwise shy unassuming lawyer who enjoys crossdressing in his spare time - enters a singing competition as his alter ego Clarice. We watched the dramatic transformation - his feminine persona shone radiantly with confidence when she set foot on stage. Singing, dancing and shaking her booty with freewheeling abandon. As if crossdressing psychology had dazzled her mind and switched her personality.

After the show my wife asked me a question which got me thinking about my crossdressing personality. Am I more confident and outgoing when dressed as Vanessa? Does my personality change in ways not easily explained by being more feminine?

What is your crossdressing personality?

What is your crossdressing personality?

What Is My Crossdressing Personality?

When I put on my makeup, heels and hose I become more feminine, more outgoing, more confident, more excitable, less contemplative, less uncertain and more open to being vulnerable. When I'm in male mode I'm constantly worried about what people will think of me. I try to be perfect, to not offend anyone, I shape who I am to fit into the person I believe others want me to be.  When the transvestite inside of me comes out I realize that I've probably already offended some people. I don't mold myself to their expectations, but find myself free to be who I am inside.

It's a strange balance. I find myself less interested in what others think about me and more interested in them. Even a light dusting of makeup and a feminine mindset will find me chatting with cashiers in the checkout line, willing to share a piece of my day and eager to hear a bit more about theirs.

In truth I like who I am when I'm crossdressed. I think that if there was socially acceptable cross dressing more people would feel comfortable expressing a different side of themselves. We may even find that crossdressing psychology is sometimes the best kind of psychology.

What Is Your Crossdressing Personality?

Does your experience mirror mine? Think about what it's like when you're the woman of your dreams. Who do you become when you're dressed?

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P.S. When you're crossdressed be fabulous on the inside and the outside! Learn how to dress and act like a woman!

98 comments

  1. Darlene 7 June, 2014 at 20:34 Reply

    Actually Darlene is mellow and laid back. She loves Gothic stuff and jewelry. She also likes late night walks.

  2. Darlylikeblack01 7 June, 2014 at 20:07 Reply

    I was born and raised in an abusive home and was the outcast in school. Most of my life is painful memories. When I slid on the black dress I could not get enough of turning her loose and erasing me. It has nothing to do with sex, I don’t get turned on seeing myself as her, I simply enjoy the clothing and jewelry she can wear, the night clothes and the nylons. When I am alone I can turn her loose, take walks, and even play my music. I like her much better. I wish I could just toss him and let her live the rest of my time.

  3. Cindy Tavelle 6 April, 2013 at 08:29 Reply

    Hello, I’m a sexy hot cd in Durban South Africa. Ive been placing ads in many websites to find othe cd’s here in Durban. With no luck at all. If there are legit cd’s here in Durban, please find me. Hugz …Cindy.

  4. pri 14 February, 2013 at 15:46 Reply

    hi ladies. my name is bianca I’m from south africa, I’m of indian decent. very new to this but I’m absolutely in love with it… whatsapp me 😉 zero,seven,two,eight,seven,eight,nine,three,five,three;) I’m very very naughty so don’t be shy mwa

  5. Judith 21 June, 2012 at 04:38 Reply

    I dress like a man b/c that’s what society demands of my physical body type. I cross dress when I can because that is what my personality prefers. But I don’t want to abandon the man. I enjoy who I am … All of who I Am.

  6. Tammy 11 April, 2012 at 14:34 Reply

    I dress to satisfy how I feel. I don’t care what anyone elce thinks I know i feel good. They have there own hang up . They are more tense then we are. I don’t try to chase anyone I just want to be myself and share my life stile with my lovely wife that knows me and loves me for who I am. I just wish every one had the chance to do something thay always wanted to do and enjoy it like we do.
    clothes are clothes mens wemons or what ever. They are made to be wore. So I’m waring my clothes my way and it makes me happy. When I bye my clothes nothing is said about what I bye. When my wife bye mens clothes nothing is said to her eather so who cares what we ware as long as we are decent .

  7. avalana 1 February, 2012 at 22:10 Reply

    hi i’ve been dressing as a girl since i was 3yrs old i also had boy clothes,which i was told to wear at times,however,the older i got ,the more i prefered the girl clothes..they were (are) way more comfortable ,at least to me! i’ve worn nothing but panties for 30+ yrs,all my jeans are misses sz 5/6,and it be a rare day when i’m not wearing a bra w/forms…90+days now,and nobody has noticed…sweet…i can only hope that white america will become more relaxed in their ideas and their notions as to “whats correct”or “whats right”to wear. i myself am starting to get weary of the stigma of wearing nought but girl clothes,they fit me better,and feel WAY better than “boy clothes” although that does bring to mind an article in tapestry called “over bra and panties,what” when you consider what gg’s wear, over their bras and panties,it would seem that all is fair game,if you are wearing a bra and panties(and they need not match,mine don’t at the moment) it doesn’t seem to matter what you’re wearing,as along as it fits and feels good..please enjoy your whimsey’s and keep your faith…peace,avalana

    • Antome 6 May, 2012 at 16:52 Reply

      Then there is a bladerunning balance between the respect you owe to the man you date and your need to pass as woman. Does him know? And what are your intention with him, are you only interested in girls, boys or both?

    • Delores 15 January, 2012 at 14:00 Reply

      Hi Diana,
      I am a crossdresser from San Antonio. Maybe if we start some form of communication we could eventually meet and crossdresser together .

      Love to hear from you.

      Hugs n kisses,
      Delores

  8. Alttlbiazz 28 September, 2011 at 17:06 Reply

    I started early with putting on my sisters clothes and underwear. Although I am bisexual I enjoy releasing the girl in me when with a man. I have yet to wear make up or wig but I can see that happening one day.

  9. Daywalker1966 9 July, 2011 at 15:33 Reply

    For me myu alternatie personality has long black hair, nice legs and a very pleasant personality.  She is pretty and liked, and she is things I cannot be a s  a guy.  I can dress her and make her be what I want her to be.  She is an escape from me, from the norm, and from a life of problems.  I dont have to worry about her having issues with things I like or do.  I like her better than me, she is a breath of fresh air.  She is just plain fun to be,.

  10. Daywalker1966 9 July, 2011 at 15:33 Reply

    For me myu alternatie personality has long black hair, nice legs and a very pleasant personality.  She is pretty and liked, and she is things I cannot be a s  a guy.  I can dress her and make her be what I want her to be.  She is an escape from me, from the norm, and from a life of problems.  I dont have to worry about her having issues with things I like or do.  I like her better than me, she is a breath of fresh air.  She is just plain fun to be,.

  11. Tailsing 17 June, 2011 at 12:20 Reply

    I think it’s why men crossdress . And call it a crime. It’s why women can dress up in any clothes she wants and get away with it. What I mean is go to any major city or college. Look around for several hours checkout . What men and women wear, I’m guesting this part that half the women wear male style clothes. But if a male dresses in a nice skirt, top and nylons and heels or flats and he looks okay in the outfit. How many will say what is wrong with him or something like it?

  12. Jabooska212 18 March, 2011 at 15:58 Reply

    I cross dress in stockings and heels and have a fantastic wank, thats all there is to it, I love standing there in stockings, high heels, basque….I do this in the garden, has to be out doors, exposed although not ultimatley risky, the sensation is intense…
    Im straight as straight can be, my girlfriend doesnt know about it, although funnily enough a few months ago she said she would like to see me in stockings…..its kinda personal though. I have another friend (female) who has actually stated that she wants to fuk me while I wear the stuff so that Im going to do, both of us dressed up in lingerie and heels, jeeez cant wait.

  13. Jabooska212 18 March, 2011 at 15:58 Reply

    I cross dress in stockings and heels and have a fantastic wank, thats all there is to it, I love standing there in stockings, high heels, basque….I do this in the garden, has to be out doors, exposed although not ultimatley risky, the sensation is intense…
    Im straight as straight can be, my girlfriend doesnt know about it, although funnily enough a few months ago she said she would like to see me in stockings…..its kinda personal though. I have another friend (female) who has actually stated that she wants to fuk me while I wear the stuff so that Im going to do, both of us dressed up in lingerie and heels, jeeez cant wait.

    • Vikie 12 January, 2012 at 20:44 Reply

      I love wearing high heels and short shorts and bending over on all fours. So sexy wondering if the neighbor is looking

  14. Jabooska212 18 March, 2011 at 22:58 Reply

    I cross dress in stockings and heels and have a fantastic wank, thats all there is to it, I love standing there in stockings, high heels, basque….I do this in the garden, has to be out doors, exposed although not ultimatley risky, the sensation is intense…
    Im straight as straight can be, my girlfriend doesnt know about it, although funnily enough a few months ago she said she would like to see me in stockings…..its kinda personal though. I have another friend (female) who has actually stated that she wants to fuk me while I wear the stuff so that Im going to do, both of us dressed up in lingerie and heels, jeeez cant wait.

  15. Roberta 12 November, 2010 at 23:06 Reply

    Hello, I am a first time poster and I am a closet cross dresser. The first time I cross dressed was when I was very young. I have always enjoyed the feeling of wearing women's feminine silky clothing. I have always loved wearing feminine lingerie. I loved wearing my sister's girdles, her bras and silk panties. I'd get all dressed up in her underwear and then put on my sister's dresses one at a time. I would even wear her high heeled shoes with her different dresses. I would admire my sexy feminine thin body in the mirror while wearing her feminine under wear and outer clothing. I would stuff her bra with TP to make my breasts appear larger underneath a dress or a nice colorful blouse worn with a tight fitting skirt. Of course, that was the beginning for me in my desires to become a full time femme closet crossdresser. I am much older now and I desire to dress as a woman full time! I desire to have a sexual relationship with a man while myself being a woman. I desire to live my life as a woman with an understanding and caring man in a loving sexual relationship.

  16. Nicole 12 November, 2010 at 20:39 Reply

    Okay, I have never told anyone about my cross dressing. I have been doing it since I was 5 yrs old. I am married now and have a family. I thought if I got married I would stop thinking about it, I did for awhile but know it's back. I love it, I have been with two different men before I was married, one on many occasion while going to college. I loved dressing up, it makes me feel sexy, and femmine. I love my wife and love being married, but I long to be with a man. I find myself looking at more pics and videos of cross dressing men. I could never cheat on my wife, but there are days where the emotion of the whole hidden life just explodes. I dress in my wifes clothes. What am I? I am so confused? any thoughts would help

    Nicole

  17. Adrian ( Caroline ) 3 November, 2010 at 06:35 Reply

    Hi, I dress alone too.
    If I had loads of money, ( MILLIONS ) I would move away to where no-one knows me.
    It would be easier to start from scratch, a new area. I would go out dressed as much as I wanted to and I think I would go as far to say, I'd have a sex change.
    I know all my family and friends would disown me, but I would not care, as I am CERTAIN, I want to be a Woman.
    I am 48 and from the UK.
    I just cannot understand why theres so much wrong with wanting to be who you want to be ?
    Caroline.
    hamiltoncaroline22@yahoo.com

  18. Leslee 20 September, 2010 at 07:43 Reply

    When I get dressed up I just feel so sexy inside. I think of myself as a cute yet reserved girl who likes to do all the things girls do.I like to dress very fashionable and I'm not into looking sleezy. My male prsonality is much the same but I feel much more relaxed as a women. If I had my choice I would be female all the time unless I had to work on my car. Its a chore I dont like to do but someone has to do it and I always get so filthy. I just can't think of my femine side with greesy hands and nail polish.

  19. Sandy Martin 18 September, 2010 at 10:42 Reply

    Sandy here , I live and work in a guys world , but at the end of the day and after a nice shower. Sandy step out of the tub, into the person I truly am all shave and soft.
    At work i have to be a guy , it support my ex and me and let me be free.
    As for guys on the job , Dear iam all guy and never looking at them in a sexual way.
    But get Sandy out in the day or at a club at night,I am in the game for guys . Sandy Martin

  20. GASt DYE 16 September, 2010 at 09:01 Reply

    My job requires me to be the MAN. My life growing up in sports I always had to be the MAN. When I slip a dress and some heels on and go out for a drive or a walk I finally feel vulnerable, relaxed, and sexy. My wife loves to help me get dressed and do my make up after I had a full day of HIGH stressed work. She loves that I can be a as ruff and work hard and an hour later be sexy in a dress and like on the weekend we will go out to eat husband and wife and then I will change and go to a drive in movie or a park as girlfriends. I would have to say my female personality a complete 180 from my male. Unfortunately I have to keep my female side hidden from the world except for like 8 others

  21. Britney 15 August, 2010 at 02:07 Reply

    Oh i feel so different. I get this incredible surge of sexual energy. You might say I turn into a bit of a slut. I dream of being fucked like one too hehe. When im male in fairly shy and yet I consider myself as completly straight.. So lol i have no idea im a confused crossdreser just like most of you. I also wanted to say that in native american culture crossdressers were considered very special, they understand both sexes and as such are very powerful spiritually.

    • vikie 12 January, 2012 at 21:24 Reply

      I love wearing sexy mules and lingere and teasing the neighbors. I feel like a slut and fantasize being a sissy slut for my mother in law

  22. Wanda 13 July, 2010 at 07:14 Reply

    Hello everyone, I've been dressing in women's clothes for a long time but I've keeded it completely hidden till just a few years ago I went out in public for the first time and it made me start wanting something more out of my love for dressing like a woman. I've begin to want to be with a guy for sex so I could really feel like I was a woman. Ever since the first time I was out in public dressed up I've gone out a lot more times wishing I'd be seen by some guy that wanted to have sex with me but that hasn't happened yet but it's made me feel wonderful not to have fears of what people think about me now because I just recently made up my mind that I'm ready to come out wearing women's clothes and let people know how much I'd like to be in a sexual relationship with a man and live as a woman all the time.

  23. Jess 3 June, 2010 at 05:26 Reply

    Since I was botn, my mom raised me just likemy 2 sisters, made me play with girls, dresss up. I have always felt much more like a woman than a man. I`m a hetero male and my girlfriend doesnt mind at all. Its noy my fault that I was born this way, love becoming a woman yet my girlfriend always comes first.i love her a lot and resppect her.

    • Anna M Miller 17 June, 2010 at 16:00 Reply

      I am going on 61 years old and have been crossdressing for 57 years My current spouse knew from the beginning I was CDer but since we have been together she really frowns on me crossdressing. She is concerned that her kids and her family will look down on her because I CD. My daughter knows but does not make mention it. Her friends have a pretty good idea what I do.I push the envelope with my wife and she gets real ancey adout it. Even when I am not enfemme I get looks from other guys.Even when I am not dressed as a woman I guess my female personna comes out. My wife is always accusing me of acting like a flamer,(which I do not care for). I am bisexual but ,I have only slept with one man and truly enjoyed it.I would like to be a fulltime lady but,I think I am to old! How I long to be a woman.I would appreciate any advice from all you ladies,I could sure use some encouragement…Anna

      • Norma Dolan 24 October, 2010 at 09:15 Reply

        Depending on their ages you should associate more with your daughter's friends. They are more curious and more understanding. They probably could help you.

    • avalana 26 October, 2010 at 13:05 Reply

      i was raised w/4 sisters and we traded clothes all the time! it was and still is fun playing dress up w/them and on my own. have been doing this for 53 yrs now. still fit into sz6 junior jeans though. peace,avalana

  24. clive 21 May, 2010 at 21:14 Reply

    I have always wanted to wear black shiny patent size 5-6 shoes.
    My problem is how do I do that with size 12 feet,
    I have found that it is impossible to get into even a size 10 shoe.
    Is there a solution ti this dilemma?

  25. Sarah Kuan 15 May, 2010 at 07:53 Reply

    Rob (my male self ) works with a lot of people, so confidence is a must. Also in my line of work, i have to act agrssive . I never asked my self what kind of woman i am, till i read it here. when i let my female self out… i tend to be more relaxed. not agresive at all. heck! i might even say i get maternal……Darn…..I turned into my mom!……LOL

  26. Amanda 12 April, 2010 at 17:57 Reply

    Hello every body first time poster. Just recently came out of the CD closet with wife. She is slowly adjusting but it is still hard for her to face. Just looking for some friendly voices.

    • Ragina 12 April, 2010 at 22:49 Reply

      Hello Amanda. I’m Ragina. Welcome aboard and I’m glad to hear of your coming out. Yes, it’s tough for the wife at first. A shock to the system. Be patient and loving and I feel certain that she’ll come around. Also, go slow for a while to give her a chance to adjust to the new you. Don’t go whole hog into dressing up all the time. It might be hard at first, but the rewards will be worth the wait. Good luck and God bless.

      • Amanda 15 April, 2010 at 17:07 Reply

        Hello Regina,

        Thank you, for your kind words of encouragement and support. I appreciate your advice and look foward to talking with you some more. The road has been hard and bumpy but we have muddled through o.k.. I still have some of My own questions to answer as well as hers. But like I said we’ll muddle through hopefully together. Thanks again for your support.

  27. Abby 14 February, 2010 at 21:08 Reply

    I tend to be a little more spunky kind of like Riku from Final Fantasy X. But my only down fall is that I am in the United States Army right now so I really can’t be Abby unless I am in my room or at my local Gay club called Alias. I just found this out and it is also hard because I can’t find a gay guy to call my own because most of them don’t understand why I do this. it is just me, the real me… I just feel like a girl trapped in a guys body and every day I see the girls walking by in their cute outfits with babydoll t-shirts, flare jeans, and miniskirts of all kinds… except the slutty looking ones, I’m conservative but I also try to be a little sexy with it to.

    • Kandi Gurl 18 January, 2010 at 11:46 Reply

      Hi Baris, Kandi Gurl would love to know more about you. When will you be here in Johannesburg? What do you look like when you are dressed up? Can send you a photo of me. Contact me directly on kevinhumphrey@vodamail.co.za and tell me more about yourself and we can exchange some pics.

  28. Stacy 26 December, 2009 at 06:57 Reply

    I am new here so hello to all. when i dress it is by myself no one has ever known, i feel who i am supose to be when dressed even in the simplest ways i get losed in that time but when my wife comes home i must go back, and it is hard to seem like nothing is wrong but i get though it. would love to talk more. Stacy

    • Kandi Gurl 14 January, 2010 at 21:04 Reply

      Hi would love to chat. Have recently been through an experience with my wife which has been very fulfilling as we now go shopping together. Yesterday she bought me a dress!!!

  29. jose 26 December, 2009 at 01:22 Reply

    i want to know guys who like to dress as girls to show me how to do it i’m a very shy guy but i like to do it my self i want to meet some one to have fun together and some thing else.

  30. You choose please 21 December, 2009 at 05:48 Reply

    Hi,
    I would dearly love to live a life that recognises the female side of my nature; whether or not it involves a transition or acceptance of my true potential.

    I am very open to supportive comments from my new friends. I am also 100% genuine and very chatty. Please contact me if you feel that you and I can help each other.

    Please call me whatever you want as Steve seems quite inappropriate

    • Ragina 21 December, 2009 at 10:58 Reply

      Hello Steve, or may I call you Stephanie. You have picked a wonderful place to be open at. This site is all about supporting all our sisters, wherever you may be in this vast and varried world called transgenderism. Any time you want to chat with me , I am available to listen and share with you or any of our other friends. I have been crossdressing for as long as I can remember, and I love the total person that I’ve become. That’s really the first step in the whole process, Love yourself, no matter where you are on the road to being all that you want to be. Once you are there, the rest is a breeze. Looking foreward to chatting soon, Ragina.

      • Kandi Gurl 21 January, 2010 at 05:10 Reply

        Hi Ragina, just taking a bit of a break to say hi to you. You all the way over there in Georgia. Of course there has been some very romantic songs about Georgia -‘rainly nights in etc… In fact it is pouring down here in Johannesburg right now and has been for two days. I am a 55 year old white person (not that that really means anything and I hate to be categorised). Of course living in Africa it is fantastc especially since this country has changed its horrible racist past (although some still lingers). I have two kids from two different wives (both fantastic kids) and only recently di I realise a buried dream of dressing as a girl. Should have done it when I was young and beautiful but well really better late than never. I am now grappling with several issues about my sexuality. Am attracted to guys that look like girls, straight ordinary beautifual girls (like my beautifual wife) and also it seems to quite straightish men – but very particular about that – it does not come easy. Have not had any physical experiences since I started dressing and look forward to that with the right person. Gee I’m awful chatty here. Must be because I am editing (I do writing, editing and all sorts of media stuff for a living) a rather dry paper on the effects of the internet on marketing architectural services for some academics at our university here. so needed a break from that … so over to you lets get to know each other you sound like a very wise person. Take care

        • Ragina 14 February, 2010 at 22:34 Reply

          Hi again Kandi. Sorry it’s been so long since I last wrote here. It’s been crazy here of late. It actually snowed here last Friday. We got about 5″ I don’t know how that works out in the metric system. It so rarely snows here that it turns into a real event. It didn’t last too long. By late afternoon it was gone. Any way, it was great while it lasted. A good chance to underdress, to stay warm.
          I need to go for now. It’s late, and I need to sleep. Talk again soon.

  31. Krisy 13 September, 2009 at 16:08 Reply

    I feel very relaxed and more myself, im happyer more out going and full of confdince. i hate haveing to go to work dressed as a man but im still working my way out of the closet and working to become more passable.I will not be truly happy untill i am. most of my friends dont know the girl in me and im so scared ill lose them if they knew.

      • Kandi Gurl 28 January, 2010 at 05:05 Reply

        Hi sus, I did reply to you on the direct email, hope you got it. Only noticed this other one when i checked out where you got my email from. As I said in the other email I do like meeitng new people and you do sound interesting. But I need to know more about you. Kandi is not a slut or a hooker or a call girl but a very respectable girl looking for some fun with a nice guy. I am sure you are a nice guy but you need to tell me more about yourself and what you are doing in Joburg etc and what you would like to do with Kandi. About the 7″ hot tool this does sound interesting but you should know that to most girls its not the size that counts but what you can do with it!!! Having said that I am very glad you contacted me, but just remember Kandi will need to see a pic of you and to know more about you and meet and chat a bit and get to know you before any 7″ tools are brought out of their pants. Did send you a photo of me earlier in the other email. Take Care. sorry if I sound a bit strict but its worth it believe me!!
        XXXX
        Kandi

  32. Kelly 25 August, 2009 at 19:23 Reply

    I become very cheerful and relaxed when i dress up as a girl as the fun I have changing into different outfits is just addicting as i love it sooo much. Trying to pick out the outfit I will wear to this years halloween party is a challenge as there are so many combinations I could put together. I also know if i go and look really cute that others might think I am a secret crossdresser as I could care less.

  33. danielle 3 November, 2009 at 02:45 Reply

    hi all.im from Richards bay,South Africa….im a born crossdresser,who only ever wear panties,and crossdress fully when im alone….id like to know if there s any others in my area

  34. Kandi Gurl 15 January, 2010 at 01:08 Reply

    Hi Danielle, I guess it is very hot there in Richards Bay and you have the appropriate clothing. Aren’t summer clothes great. I am very new to this an have a limited supply of good womens wear. But will be rapidly expanding my wardrobe as I am so excited about finally breaking out of a life long straight jacket that I just want to dress up all the time. Today I am in my male clothes but Kandi, like you is underneath my Levis with a very beuatiful black thong pantie with detailing on it that fits snugly – yummy. Take care – – Kandy

  35. Sonis sue 26 July, 2013 at 12:27 Reply

    home and hello i am from richards bay and i m a cd.Only dress at home but would love to meet other cd’s from the rbay area…would love to hear from u…whats app…0834479604 or sms will do…..mwazzz

  36. Kandi Gurl 14 January, 2010 at 21:01 Reply

    Hi, Kandi Gurl loves to dress up. I live in Joburg. Would love to chat more and maybe meet and hang out and dress up and chat and maybe more. Kandi Gurl is a bit horny but can also be a good friend.

  37. Sarah 15 January, 2010 at 01:03 Reply

    Hi Kandi,
    Thanks for the prompt message. I am a white guy 49 and I live in Fourways. I have had this urge to dress for many years and recently it became quite a regular regime for me to dress every day. I had a break from it and gave all my clothes and sexy shoes away but the lure of dressing is becoming strong again. I would love your comments on some of my pics and would love to spend some time dressing in company, posing etc. Please feel free to email me on shiplake@hotmail.co.uk. Good luck with the dress!!!
    Sarah
    XXX

  38. Kandi Gurl 15 January, 2010 at 00:43 Reply

    Hi Sarah, lovely to hear from you so soon! I am a 55 year old white male (when I am not dressed up!) I suppose. Have recently fulfilled my life long suppressed fantasy of dressing up as a woman. It is just sooooo cool I love it!!! I feel liberated, confident, excited and have never had so much fun in all my life in the last few days (yes its that new but there were always suppressed signs – la la la life story – blah blah blah). Along wiht the absolute fun side of it which is awesome and so wondeful also comes wanting to share this with like minded and dressed people and if we become friends do dress ups and shopping and stuff that would be great. Also really look forward to having some sexual adventures with my new persona. Kandi Gurl is a bit horny too (ooh you are awful) but there are so many aspects to this new found level of being that that is not what it is all about! Lets chat more and exchange pics or whatever!! I live in Fairlands in Joburg. Please tell me more about yourself. I just have to rush out to a business meeting now (I am a media consultant). BUT – on the way I am going to exchange a new beautiful dress which is a tad too small – looks good but cant get the zipper all the way up!!! Not that I’m enormous or something its a size 10 – need a twelve – it is gorgeous and blue – amazing fabric – hope they have a bigger size but can always exchange it for something else. Take care now. – Kandi Gurl

  39. Debi34cd 25 September, 2011 at 21:34 Reply

    hi hun  im the same as u i love to dress and given the chance would start out again as a woman.dont worry about what others think.
    just be yourself and enjoy what we do its part of us and i bet u look wondaful dressed hun.

  40. Vanessa Law 26 September, 2011 at 11:55 Reply

    Hey Sweetie,
    I know it can be a hard road, but I would definitely encourage you to live your life true to yourself. Take it slowly, carefully and with good planning. Show love and understanding to others, and let your inner spirit floursih.
    Blessings

  41. Vanessa Law 26 September, 2011 at 11:55 Reply

    Hey Sweetie,
    I know it can be a hard road, but I would definitely encourage you to live your life true to yourself. Take it slowly, carefully and with good planning. Show love and understanding to others, and let your inner spirit floursih.
    Blessings

  42. SHARITA 28 March, 2013 at 05:43 Reply

    Hi I have been a lifelong crossdresser and live in central Durbs. Would love to dress completely as a woman and go some place and be happy. Wear panties every day, just hate those ugly uncomfortable underpants. Love to wear bras everyday and sleep in a nighty. Would love to share experiences.

  43. shane 19 August, 2014 at 22:40 Reply

    Hi I am 26 year old guy frm dbn fairly new 2 crossdressing would like 2 meet other crossdressers plz watsapp me 0740253955

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