What is your crossdressing personality?

Last night my wife and I were watching the episode of Boston Legal where Clarence – the otherwise shy unassuming lawyer who enjoys crossdressing in his spare time – enters a singing competition as his alter ego Clarice. We watched the dramatic transformation – his feminine persona shone radiantly with confidence when she set foot on stage. Singing, dancing and shaking her booty with freewheeling abandon. As if crossdressing psychology had dazzled her mind and switched her personality.

After the show my wife asked me a question which got me thinking about my crossdressing personality. Am I more confident and outgoing when dressed as Vanessa? Does my personality change in ways not easily explained by being more feminine?

What Is My Crossdressing Personality?

When I put on my makeup, heels and hose I become more feminine, more outgoing, more confident, more excitable, less contemplative, less uncertain and more open to being vulnerable. When I’m in male mode I’m constantly worried about what people will think of me. I try to be perfect, to not offend anyone, I shape who I am to fit into the person I believe others want me to be.  When the transvestite inside of me comes out I realize that I’ve probably already offended some people. I don’t mold myself to their expectations, but find myself free to be who I am inside.

It’s a strange balance. I find myself less interested in what others think about me and more interested in them. Even a light dusting of makeup and a feminine mindset will find me chatting with cashiers in the checkout line, willing to share a piece of my day and eager to hear a bit more about theirs.

In truth I like who I am when I’m crossdressed. I think that if there was socially acceptable cross dressing more people would feel comfortable expressing a different side of themselves. We may even find that crossdressing psychology is sometimes the best kind of psychology.

What Is Your Crossdressing Personality?

Does your experience mirror mine? Think about what it’s like when you’re the woman of your dreams. Who do you become when you’re dressed?


P.S. When you’re crossdressed be fabulous on the inside and the outside! Learn how to dress and act like a woman!

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Jabooska212
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Jabooska212

I cross dress in stockings and heels and have a fantastic wank, thats all there is to it, I love standing there in stockings, high heels, basque….I do this in the garden, has to be out doors, exposed although not ultimatley risky, the sensation is intense… Im straight as straight can be, my girlfriend doesnt know about it, although funnily enough a few months ago she said she would like to see me in stockings…..its kinda personal though. I have another friend (female) who has actually stated that she wants to fuk me while I wear the stuff so that… Read more »

Jabooska212
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Jabooska212

I cross dress in stockings and heels and have a fantastic wank, thats all there is to it, I love standing there in stockings, high heels, basque….I do this in the garden, has to be out doors, exposed although not ultimatley risky, the sensation is intense… Im straight as straight can be, my girlfriend doesnt know about it, although funnily enough a few months ago she said she would like to see me in stockings…..its kinda personal though. I have another friend (female) who has actually stated that she wants to fuk me while I wear the stuff so that… Read more »

seha
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seha

same with me also

Vanessa Law
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Vanessa Law

Thanks hon – welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! *hugs*

Tailsing
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Tailsing

I think it’s why men crossdress . And call it a crime. It’s why women can dress up in any clothes she wants and get away with it. What I mean is go to any major city or college. Look around for several hours checkout . What men and women wear, I’m guesting this part that half the women wear male style clothes. But if a male dresses in a nice skirt, top and nylons and heels or flats and he looks okay in the outfit. How many will say what is wrong with him or something like it?

Daywalker1966
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Daywalker1966

For me myu alternatie personality has long black hair, nice legs and a very pleasant personality.  She is pretty and liked, and she is things I cannot be a s  a guy.  I can dress her and make her be what I want her to be.  She is an escape from me, from the norm, and from a life of problems.  I dont have to worry about her having issues with things I like or do.  I like her better than me, she is a breath of fresh air.  She is just plain fun to be,.

Alttlbiazz
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Alttlbiazz

I started early with putting on my sisters clothes and underwear. Although I am bisexual I enjoy releasing the girl in me when with a man. I have yet to wear make up or wig but I can see that happening one day.

Vanessa Law
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Vanessa Law

Go at your own pace dear, and do what’s comfortable and right for you 🙂

stevie
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stevie

looking for a g g in okc area that would like to meet an artest type crossdresser !

Diana
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Diana

Would love for someone to get togeather and dress up with in San antonio Tx

Delores
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Delores

Hi Diana,
I am a crossdresser from San Antonio. Maybe if we start some form of communication we could eventually meet and crossdresser together .

Love to hear from you.

Hugs n kisses,
Delores

Nancy
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Nancy

Diana,

Would like to meet sometime. Would like to dress up and go out also. Live on NW side.

ginger morgan
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ginger morgan

looking for help on my first date as a crossdresser with a man ginger

Norma Dolan
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Norma Dolan

I was married to a wonderful woman for 12 years. I have cross dressed since I was 5 but always in the closet. Near the end of my marriage my wife discovered that I cross dressed. That part was a relief to me but devastating to her. I decided to get some transgender therapy. I spent hours with discussions and a series of tests. I begged my wife to attend a couple of these sessions and she did. During this time I was diagnosed as transgendered. It was a joy to me to get this news but the combination of… Read more »

Antome
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Antome

Then there is a bladerunning balance between the respect you owe to the man you date and your need to pass as woman. Does him know? And what are your intention with him, are you only interested in girls, boys or both?

avalana
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avalana

hi i’ve been dressing as a girl since i was 3yrs old i also had boy clothes,which i was told to wear at times,however,the older i got ,the more i prefered the girl clothes..they were (are) way more comfortable ,at least to me! i’ve worn nothing but panties for 30+ yrs,all my jeans are misses sz 5/6,and it be a rare day when i’m not wearing a bra w/forms…90+days now,and nobody has noticed…sweet…i can only hope that white america will become more relaxed in their ideas and their notions as to “whats correct”or “whats right”to wear. i myself am starting… Read more »

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