What Makes You Feel Sexy?

What makes you feel sexy when crossdressing

We all have times when we want to feel sexy. We want to let our feminine sass penetrate our soul and permeate our body. The sexy crossdresser is not just confident, but playful, friendly and fabulous. Feeling sexy puts an extra shimmy in your walk, a glimmer in your eyes and brings a touch of mystery to your smile. You feel good, and others around you can pick up on your vibe – they know something is different about you even if they can’t quite put their finger on it.

So Crossdressing Girlfriends – What Makes You Feel Sexy?

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  1. womanwannabe 6 years ago

    I mean, honestly, the most feminine I feel is when I’m wearing women’s clothing, with makeup, totally shaved body, and perfume. There’s something so incredibly delightful about walking in front of a mirror and seeing myself for who I really am…

    I hate my real body.

  2. Deana Rose 6 years ago

    all the things mentioned in the poll

  3. Debbie 6 years ago

    everything makes me feel sexy from shaving body hair to wearing a skirt and blouse i just love it all

  4. MELONY 6 years ago

    Ilove the feel of womans lingerie on me, and walking in a silk blouse, or a pretty dress, or skirt, with high heels on, with a good makeup job and a beautiful wig,,, this is what makes me feel sexy… wish i was a girl..

  5. BRENDA 6 years ago

    i feel sexy for all of the above, in addition, i want to have sex with me cross dressed and in the female role, while my wife dresses as a man and makes love to me as if she were the husband.

  6. Eugene/Erlene 6 years ago

    Hello Everyone: I feel my Sexiest when I’m all dressed up and walking down the street and people look, not because I’m passable but because I’m my ULTIMATE SELF. I love feeling and looking my best. I also feel my Sexiest is when I’m out with the other ladies like myself and guys ask me to dance, buy me beverages and ask me to dine with them. These are my Sexiest moments besides the attire and make-up I’m wearing which is also an unexplainable turn on. Thank You…..Eugene/Erlene

  7. Jasie 6 years ago

    I just love my panties and they make me feel so sexy. But all the other things especially heels and make up make me feel so feminine

  8. Terri 6 years ago


    Having a dream of some coming to me and say that I am a beautiful lady, but there is no chance in that even happening, for I cannot even get ut of my house.


  9. Ssrah Rose Lamont 6 years ago

    Getting dressed in sexy underwear and a beautiful dress and going out
    to dinner a nightclub or to Church. Going out in public is always an occasion when I dress up, put on makeup and perfume and heels.
    Makes me feel confident, attractive and sexy.

    Sarah Rose

  10. Sally Conning 6 years ago

    Being at my fav pub dressed in a pair of high heel boots , black tights and the LBD (Little Black Dress) showing plenty of cleavage… and being asked if im on HRT by T/S Girls and G/G’s.. xxx

  11. Carol 6 years ago

    I voted something else….. As RUSKIN said “that intangible something”!

  12. Sharon 6 years ago

    I just love to dress fully as a woman it makes me feel wonderful.
    Even wearing female underwear under my male clothes feels
    wonderful and so natural.

  13. Leslee 6 years ago

    Where do I start? There is really no one thing that is sexier than another as they all make me feel fabulous. I also love to go shopping and finding that special outfit that looks sexy also. What I dislike most is taking everything off at the end of an evening and looking at whats in the mirror. Now that is not sexy!!

  14. Jackie 6 years ago

    Nothing makes me feel more feminine and lovely than panties and lingerie. When I go shopping for bras and panties I get so excited I can hardly speak, especially when I hand the tiny frilly things to a salesgirl. I’ve only dressed fully and gone out once, but I love to dress in lingerie at home and imagine myself as a gorgeous, long-legged woman.

    • Susan 6 years ago

      Hi Jackie, I think we all go through something like that. I know when I was a teenager, I'd walk through the lingerie section of a department store and my heart would beat like a drum!! I'd want so much to stop and just touch…or even better BUY!! Now as I have aged, (36 now) I've become use to going and selecting what I want, take the time to make sure, then walk up and pay, just like any other female. I must tell you though, lingerie still makes the heart beat faster!!


      • Brook 6 years ago

        Kissing my fiance 🙂

  15. Stephenie 6 years ago

    Ok this might sound funny but shaving my underarms and painting my toenails kinda does it for me. By the time I am doing these things I am almost done and I know it 🙂 Also it is not something common to men as well. Anyhow it has always been something feminine to me since I was very young 🙂

    Stephenie 🙂

  16. Jillian 6 years ago

    Actually all of the above contribute to my sexuality, but being absolutly honest, wearing my panties will always be the center of feeling sexy for me. Unfortunately, I must at times wear the hated male attire, but I find if I am wearing panties, I have a strong reminder of my true self thru out the entire day. They make me feel complete as a female, even while wearing male outer wear.

  17. Stephanie 6 years ago

    Simply crossdressing makes feel sexy. Wearing any kind of
    lingerie makes me feel even sexier.

  18. Susan 6 years ago

    Sexy for me, is a warm scented bath, followed by fresh nylon panties and bra, under my very best nightie. Relaxing with my favorite glass of wine in front of my TV. Perhaps not very exciting to some, but very sexy and relaxing for me.


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    Vanessa Law 6 years ago

    Thanks for all your comments ladies – it's wonderful to hear the different things that make you feel feminine and sexy.

    For me nothing can quite compare with wearing perfume, or being "reverse read" as a woman when in male mode.

  20. nickiee 6 years ago

    after my bath I allways wear my high waisted,black tummy control corsetts.its when I am
    brushing my hair, which is very long,down to just above my nipples,and see two nicely formed breasts under my hair, I have been on hormones 16 mths now,and its when I see my own reflection in the mirror,I cant stop feeling so pleased with myself,and spend the
    next hour grinning

  21. sherib 6 years ago

    All the above except for dance and and a longing look from someone. I don't need anyone else to feel sexy.

  22. Connie 6 years ago

    My sexy turn on is lace top nylons with peek toe pumps. Even my wife has to smile when she sees that! All the other dressing is just cake…shoes are the frosting!!

    • Jacie 6 years ago

      mmmm. I agree honey!

  23. Jipat40@aol.com 6 years ago

    There are certainly lot's of comments regarding this subject…so much so, that I'm going to leave another. I would put myself into the class of a very conservative female where dressing is concerned. I adore going the full yard as one would say, and begin with my warm scented bath, do my nails, hair, and make-up, then take my time in selecting lingerie that I feel will go along with what I have chosen for my outer wear. To me, if one is going to truly enjoy her femininity, it is important to have all the correct combinations going with each other. I love women's dress and business suits..with a dark blue suit, I would choose perhaps a cream colored nylon blouse, either white, yellow, or pale blue nylon panties (prefer Vanity Fair nylon full brief style) matching bra, or plan white, more for support and comfort then anything else. Half slip of matching color, or white, stockings with a garter girdle, two inch pumps in either blue or black. When dressed as the above, I feel quite prepared in going out to the mall shopping, of just taking a ride somewhere. My sexuality will become quite enhanced, just knowing that I look very much like a well groomed buiness women.____Jillian

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      Vanessa Law 6 years ago

      Hehe 🙂 Thanks for sharing Jillian!
      The full luxuriating experience can indeed be wonderful!

  24. Alissa 6 years ago

    Just feeling more at home in my body, wearing a skirt with a nice top, the feeling of walking in heels. I feel sexy when I'm able to be the me that stays inside so often. I walked down the sidewalk of a closed strip mall, tights, denim skirt, a red and white top, long hair wig with a nice pair of clip on hoops. Just felt SO sexy and free, I wish it was more often or for life.

  25. wendy 6 years ago

    when i paint my toe nails and wear sexy undies and bra under my normal "guy" clothes

  26. Carolyn Ann 6 years ago

    If that longing look is from the Mrs, fine! (If it's from someone else… Creepy!)

  27. J wilson 6 years ago

    all of the above for me

  28. Warren 6 years ago

    I LOVE putting on my skimpy bike shorts and a sports bra and go out riding on my bike to show off my body. It feels so exciting to be sexually desirable. When I stop at red lights I can feel people checking me out and look at my erection through my spandex hot pants. Wrapping my legs around the bike seat makes me almost come while riding; I wouldn't mind getting raped either.

  29. Jacie 6 years ago

    slipping on a pair of sexy heels!

  30. Ronda 6 years ago

    All the above, just the act of being feminine, makes me fill sexy.

  31. jenny 6 years ago

    attention i get from guys, whistled at, beeped at, hit on, asked out for drinks.

  32. Brandycd56 5 years ago

    The feeling of sliding on a brand new pair of panties and my GF telling me she thinks they are sexy. I spray on just  a bit of perfume and throw on my man cloths and head to work

  33. Carol 5 years ago

    Love wearing sexy heels my fav mules sexy skirt blouse heels smoking a vs120 does it for this girl

  34. Paul /Paula 5 years ago

    ive been crossdressing for many many years im totally hetrosexual i was happily married for 23 years to a very accepting lady my fav article of wear is nylons #1 lace top thigh highs #2nylon stockings and garterbelt #3 only as a last resort phose every day all day i have to be wearing id love to chat with a lady who enjoys nylons as much as i do

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      Vanessa Law 5 years ago

      Hey Paula, I’ve heard many crossdressers mention nylons as their favorite article of woman’s clothing. Perhaps you’ll find a like minded lady at a local support group?

  35. Chloe 5 years ago

    My favourite sexy gear is garter belt and nylons with a slinky pair of undies, something small and satiny or a G string. That makes me feel really sexy, especially if I get to show it off to someone appreciative.

  36. LuciaJustus 5 years ago

    I like wearing pantyhose, bras, panties, skirts, tank tops etc. I feel sexy when i look at myself in the mirror and mostly dance around or fiddle with my hair a bit.

  37. Samantha Silling 5 years ago

    Hi! I keep my toenails painted, and sometimes like to go out in flip-flops or sandals just to see the reactions I get. I also sometimes put on mascara even if I’m otherwise in guy mode.

  38. Valerie 5 years ago

    I am soo sexy when dressed completely….it’s wonderful….I also love to use a Tampon to excite me….

  39. Tammy 5 years ago

    I’ve been dressing all my life. I’m 62 now and I don’t think my looks would turn me on. I’m the ugly duckling. I think the feeling when I dress up is my satisfaction.

  40. dru 5 years ago

    love pantyhose,and i wear them just about all the time.

  41. michell 5 years ago

    hi,i have just started crosdressing at this moment i have all ladies underwear on also a long black dress and wig. my wife is ok with me when i dress up she says i look pretty good for a first timer but i must stay indoors. i would love to walk out in the morning and meet the world hed on,but iam not sure what to doe. why can i not be who i want to be (iam 56 years)

  42. michael dickey 5 years ago

    I just love being feminine in every way. I shave my legs and body–wear panties and bras–wear makeup–paint my nails–use girls soaps and lotions/perfumes–wear girls tops and skirts–I even sit when i pee.I love being a sissy! I mean really–I get on my back and spread my legs for cock–im supposed to be girly!

  43. Pavana bhatal 5 years ago

    I am 21 yr old .today was d frst time put on lipstick nd maskara and wore a bra which wanted to wear.i always want to dress like a girl it makes me feel grt….i am having a short hair as all boys have but i wud lv to have very long hair like model andrej pejic i admire him a lot

  44. Pavana bhatal 5 years ago

    Al i want i makes me a feel like a woman which is so amazing .today was my first time had short hair but wud lv to hv long hair which i olys wntd to hv but cud nt keep them .. My problm is i m nt able to tell my parents…pls suggest something

  45. matthew 5 years ago

    I’m just wanting to get rid of my masculine arm muscles but don’t know how to help

  46. matthew 5 years ago

    But I’m wanting to
    be a woman and its the only thing that’s putting me of

  47. matthew 5 years ago

    Please tell me I’ve been wanting to know

  48. avalana 5 years ago

    dressing in mini-skirt,a cute top(sz 36 b) and have a nice guy ask me to dance,if i want a drink,and then i kiss him without thought..it worked out well,in the end,it took a couple of years,but he ended up to be the one i lost my v-card to…and i must say it was wonderfull..and the girls present,treated me well they were so sweet after i lost my viginity! and it felt so right!and every time since!

  49. diamondgurl36 5 years ago

    wearin my fav pink lacey thongs n matching bra puttin on my tight mini skirt which brings out my nice ass n a nice form fitting top doing my hair n make-up

    • Margaret stewart 5 years ago

      What a femme look, continue on being a gurl, I’m in full gurl, w/ makeup, w/hair , bra, panties w/ sequence, opened blouse to show my 36 cup bra , Victoria secret hose w/ open toe, 4inch heels w/bucle strap around ankle, perfume definetly adds to being femme.

  50. Moddle 5 years ago

    Always, when I am putting on my makeup after a lovely long soapy shower, I feel that tingling of the loins.
    Now, even after a couple of years, i feel quite naked without a little red to the lips, blush to the cheeks, a tiny (if I’m going out !)coloring around the eyes.
    I hope others enjoy.

  51. vmg 5 years ago

    Pretty, good feeling ,when pacing up and down w/heels and stilletos, black on both. 4 inch and victoria secret pantyhose. I normally will apply all Makeup first b4 , dressing. So I completly understand the sensation of hose n heels.

    • Margaret 5 years ago

      Continuing on being femme, ocassionally. Thank you for sharing. “Happy gurling!”

  52. terrie 5 years ago

    Anything really feminine, stylish dress, lacy slip, bra & panties, doing my makeup well and the heels.

    • Margaret stewart 5 years ago

      Very nice terrie, Mornings are very pleasant, in femme. Fortunately my time consist of evenings. As I speak , my girlfriend really enjoys when I transition,” like in AWE. Shes not much of a girly , girl so I’m basically teaching her., she is very gorgeous, I have done her make up and dressed her w/ totally different attire., and WOW! She’s stunning., but rarely wants to be girly.

      • Margaret stewart 5 years ago

        Hey gurls, no reply yet to my post, but very understandable, on another note’. I’m very fortunate to b off several nights, and without a doubt, I’m femme , till early morning hrs. Just saying hi to anyone in same situation, no naughtiness, I just love being a gurl and walking in my heels, and full drag. Our attire will definetly change as summer approaches. Short skirts, highheels , smooth legs, and ruffle ends blouse . Gurly-gurl. Oh! And dash of Marc.jacobs’ eau de parfum!

  53. Margaret stewart 5 years ago

    Another , Femme night for me , very femme! #210 Revlon pink for toes or Opi very pink, enjpy your time in femme.

  54. Moddle 5 years ago

    Part of our lives.
    That’s not fantasy.
    Believe me, the more we make our femme side uppermost, the more it becomes normal.
    Without becoming unenjoyable.I realise my feminine feelings, appreciate them, while still living my ‘hetro’ life.
    No problem

    • Margaret stewart 5 years ago

      Fantasy? Not much just expressing myself in femme, an outlet , for a small feeling of being a woman and not ignoring ur femme side. Enjoy, I’m also hetro, and my girl seems to enjoy the gurl I become temprarily. M.S.

  55. Tammy 5 years ago

    The excitment of dressing in wemons clothing excites the hole body. At first I use to get it all the time . Now I have been dressing for a while that feeling went away. But I still get the feeling to dress when I can. I look at it in this way. I’m not running around my house nude. I’m dressed decent. Not the way most people are expect me to dress but there is no law saying the clothes I ware has to be mens clothes. I feel the church should not inter fear as long as I don’t dress in the wrong way and try to pass as a woman. I’m just a man in wemons clothes.

    • Margaret stewart 5 years ago

      Tammy, thx for reply, I’m m femme as I’m speaking. Hopefully the xtment. Will draw, back if not enjoy any vhance u may get. M.Stewart

  56. Margaret stewart 5 years ago

    Femme,again! M.S.

  57. sally 4 years ago

    how can i be more attractive to my crossdresser husband

  58. sally 4 years ago

    how do i get my cross dressing husband to find me attractive i am 4 foot 11 inches have blue eyes short blond hair size 37 c breast and i am a hetero sexual woman and i need help

  59. travesti 3 years ago

    Al i want i makes me a feel like a woman which is so amazing .today was my first time had short hair but wud lv to hv long hair which i olys wntd to hv but cud nt keep them .. My problm is i m nt able to tell my parents…pls suggest something

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    Jesse Nicole(Smokey) 4 months ago

    Love laying my clothes and lingerie on the bed, that’s starts my mind to begin the process of feeling the warm,tingling sensation of femininity. I light a candle in the bathroom, pour a glass of wine, and ease into a relaxing bubble bath. I relax for a long time, listening to some soft, sexy music. I shave my legs, and rid myself of all unwanted hair. The WAY too long process of makeup and priming is next. The real sexy feelings come when I start putting on the lingerie, it soft satiny fabric against my skin. Ending with slipping on my outfit for the evening, and finally sliding my feet into my matching stilettos for the outfit..NOW I feel sexy!

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    Jenny1323 2 months ago

    I like to start with a nice shower shaving my legs that alone can make me feel sexier after I’m nice and clean removed all unwanted hair. I love matching bra and panties. I lov to wear hipster panties with thong then I do my make up eye liner eye shadow lipstick mascara all that done I pick out one of my dresses love my fit flares right now. Or a nice tight skirt the the wig. And high heels. Patent leather pep toes

  62. Janine 2 months ago

    Hi I’m Janine
    Just about every time I want to feel sexy I get dressed in a short mid thigh green and white skirt then put on a bra that holds prosthetic breasts inside of it then put a while turtle neck long sleeve top with a pair of suntan thigh high queen size stocking and a pair of black 3 inch heels open toe with ankle straps. After I finish doing my makeup and wig I select a pair of hoop earnings with a bracelet and a women’s watch on my left wrist.
    I have a black purse with a shoulder strap that I carry on my right shoulder.
    I’ve worn this outfit out many times and it really looks good and I feel so feminine and sexy when I’m out for the day
    I’ve had quite a few people tell me that I look fabulous and it always makes me feel good when I’m complemented on my attire

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    Samantha Louise Scott 4 weeks ago

    For me, many ways to feel sexy.

    When I passed 50 I started “dressing my age” . Sensible length skirts, dresses. Tan tights etc etc. I enjoyed it but started to want to go back towards my old tarty self. For a while I maintained the demure exterior but I wore some very hot lingerie, and of ,course stockings. That was great and definitely a sexy turn on.

    Eventually though I returned to my old ways and being fairly tall I can still carry off (or so I’m told) topping off my outfit with a nice pair of nylons, a short lycra dress and killer heels.

    Love that and the attention.

  64. Margaret stewart 5 years ago

    Hi, gurls, well not much reply, so I will continue n other subject, in femme now, full makeup- earrings , blouse ,bra, black hose, very stylish though. Vsecrets, heels, and pleated skirt, not to mention dash of burberry. M.S.

  65. manikia 5 years ago

    please don’t mention raped as a turn on….it is not a sexual issue, but one of power over more vulnerable people….if this is a fantasy, you are still in control of it, if it were real, i am sure you would feel different….please consider all the people who have had to undergo such a powerless and unpleasant encounter.

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