What Makes You Feel Sexy?

We all have times when we want to feel sexy. We want to let our feminine sass penetrate our soul and permeate our body. The sexy crossdresser is not just confident, but playful, friendly and fabulous. Feeling sexy puts an extra shimmy in your walk, a glimmer in your eyes and brings a touch of mystery to your smile. You feel good, and others around you can pick up on your vibe - they know something is different about you even if they can't quite put their finger on it.

So Crossdressing Girlfriends - What Makes You Feel Sexy?

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  1. travesti 16 October, 2013 at 13:21 Reply

    Al i want i makes me a feel like a woman which is so amazing .today was my first time had short hair but wud lv to hv long hair which i olys wntd to hv but cud nt keep them .. My problm is i m nt able to tell my parents…pls suggest something

  2. sally 16 December, 2012 at 15:05 Reply

    how do i get my cross dressing husband to find me attractive i am 4 foot 11 inches have blue eyes short blond hair size 37 c breast and i am a hetero sexual woman and i need help

  3. Tammy 11 April, 2012 at 13:23 Reply

    The excitment of dressing in wemons clothing excites the hole body. At first I use to get it all the time . Now I have been dressing for a while that feeling went away. But I still get the feeling to dress when I can. I look at it in this way. I’m not running around my house nude. I’m dressed decent. Not the way most people are expect me to dress but there is no law saying the clothes I ware has to be mens clothes. I feel the church should not inter fear as long as I don’t dress in the wrong way and try to pass as a woman. I’m just a man in wemons clothes.

    • Margaret stewart 17 April, 2012 at 21:09 Reply

      Tammy, thx for reply, I’m m femme as I’m speaking. Hopefully the xtment. Will draw, back if not enjoy any vhance u may get. M.Stewart

  4. Moddle 4 April, 2012 at 00:05 Reply

    Part of our lives.
    That’s not fantasy.
    Believe me, the more we make our femme side uppermost, the more it becomes normal.
    Without becoming unenjoyable.I realise my feminine feelings, appreciate them, while still living my ‘hetro’ life.
    No problem

    • Margaret stewart 6 April, 2012 at 16:27 Reply

      Fantasy? Not much just expressing myself in femme, an outlet , for a small feeling of being a woman and not ignoring ur femme side. Enjoy, I’m also hetro, and my girl seems to enjoy the gurl I become temprarily. M.S.

  5. Margaret stewart 3 April, 2012 at 20:13 Reply

    Another , Femme night for me , very femme! #210 Revlon pink for toes or Opi very pink, enjpy your time in femme.

  6. terrie 1 April, 2012 at 07:43 Reply

    Anything really feminine, stylish dress, lacy slip, bra & panties, doing my makeup well and the heels.

    • Margaret stewart 1 April, 2012 at 22:31 Reply

      Very nice terrie, Mornings are very pleasant, in femme. Fortunately my time consist of evenings. As I speak , my girlfriend really enjoys when I transition,” like in AWE. Shes not much of a girly , girl so I’m basically teaching her., she is very gorgeous, I have done her make up and dressed her w/ totally different attire., and WOW! She’s stunning., but rarely wants to be girly.

      • Margaret stewart 2 April, 2012 at 19:54 Reply

        Hey gurls, no reply yet to my post, but very understandable, on another note’. I’m very fortunate to b off several nights, and without a doubt, I’m femme , till early morning hrs. Just saying hi to anyone in same situation, no naughtiness, I just love being a gurl and walking in my heels, and full drag. Our attire will definetly change as summer approaches. Short skirts, highheels , smooth legs, and ruffle ends blouse . Gurly-gurl. Oh! And dash of Marc.jacobs’ eau de parfum!

  7. Moddle 8 March, 2012 at 14:16 Reply

    Always, when I am putting on my makeup after a lovely long soapy shower, I feel that tingling of the loins.
    Now, even after a couple of years, i feel quite naked without a little red to the lips, blush to the cheeks, a tiny (if I’m going out !)coloring around the eyes.
    I hope others enjoy.

  8. barbra 1 March, 2012 at 08:57 Reply

    feeling pantyhose on my cock. Oh! what a feeling! also wearing my 5″ stilettos and walkin around the house in nothing but hose & heels. now thats sexy! i also enjoy donning the rest of the girly garments to get fully dresssed but all i “really” need to feel sexy are those hot pantyhose. any varitey, regular, control top, fishnet, ribbed, designer-u name it! ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can’t wait to get a pari of 6″ fuschia stilettos! :)

    • vmg 29 March, 2012 at 19:02 Reply

      Pretty, good feeling ,when pacing up and down w/heels and stilletos, black on both. 4 inch and victoria secret pantyhose. I normally will apply all Makeup first b4 , dressing. So I completly understand the sensation of hose n heels.

  9. diamondgurl36 22 February, 2012 at 12:35 Reply

    wearin my fav pink lacey thongs n matching bra puttin on my tight mini skirt which brings out my nice ass n a nice form fitting top doing my hair n make-up

    • Margaret stewart 1 April, 2012 at 22:38 Reply

      What a femme look, continue on being a gurl, I’m in full gurl, w/ makeup, w/hair , bra, panties w/ sequence, opened blouse to show my 36 cup bra , Victoria secret hose w/ open toe, 4inch heels w/bucle strap around ankle, perfume definetly adds to being femme.

  10. avalana 1 February, 2012 at 22:32 Reply

    dressing in mini-skirt,a cute top(sz 36 b) and have a nice guy ask me to dance,if i want a drink,and then i kiss him without thought..it worked out well,in the end,it took a couple of years,but he ended up to be the one i lost my v-card to…and i must say it was wonderfull..and the girls present,treated me well they were so sweet after i lost my viginity! and it felt so right!and every time since!

  11. Pavana bhatal 18 January, 2012 at 12:06 Reply

    Al i want i makes me a feel like a woman which is so amazing .today was my first time had short hair but wud lv to hv long hair which i olys wntd to hv but cud nt keep them .. My problm is i m nt able to tell my parents…pls suggest something

  12. Pavana bhatal 18 January, 2012 at 11:52 Reply

    I am 21 yr old .today was d frst time put on lipstick nd maskara and wore a bra which wanted to wear.i always want to dress like a girl it makes me feel grt….i am having a short hair as all boys have but i wud lv to have very long hair like model andrej pejic i admire him a lot

  13. michael dickey 12 January, 2012 at 17:01 Reply

    I just love being feminine in every way. I shave my legs and body–wear panties and bras–wear makeup–paint my nails–use girls soaps and lotions/perfumes–wear girls tops and skirts–I even sit when i pee.I love being a sissy! I mean really–I get on my back and spread my legs for cock–im supposed to be girly!

  14. michell 5 January, 2012 at 19:11 Reply

    hi,i have just started crosdressing at this moment i have all ladies underwear on also a long black dress and wig. my wife is ok with me when i dress up she says i look pretty good for a first timer but i must stay indoors. i would love to walk out in the morning and meet the world hed on,but iam not sure what to doe. why can i not be who i want to be (iam 56 years)

  15. Tammy 21 December, 2011 at 14:02 Reply

    I’ve been dressing all my life. I’m 62 now and I don’t think my looks would turn me on. I’m the ugly duckling. I think the feeling when I dress up is my satisfaction.

  16. Samantha Silling 30 October, 2011 at 10:47 Reply

    Hi! I keep my toenails painted, and sometimes like to go out in flip-flops or sandals just to see the reactions I get. I also sometimes put on mascara even if I’m otherwise in guy mode.

  17. LuciaJustus 28 October, 2011 at 16:40 Reply

    I like wearing pantyhose, bras, panties, skirts, tank tops etc. I feel sexy when i look at myself in the mirror and mostly dance around or fiddle with my hair a bit.

  18. Chloe 26 October, 2011 at 22:53 Reply

    My favourite sexy gear is garter belt and nylons with a slinky pair of undies, something small and satiny or a G string. That makes me feel really sexy, especially if I get to show it off to someone appreciative.

  19. Paul /Paula 20 October, 2011 at 16:49 Reply

    ive been crossdressing for many many years im totally hetrosexual i was happily married for 23 years to a very accepting lady my fav article of wear is nylons #1 lace top thigh highs #2nylon stockings and garterbelt #3 only as a last resort phose every day all day i have to be wearing id love to chat with a lady who enjoys nylons as much as i do

    • Vanessa L 22 October, 2011 at 05:49 Reply

      Hey Paula, I’ve heard many crossdressers mention nylons as their favorite article of woman’s clothing. Perhaps you’ll find a like minded lady at a local support group?

  20. Brandycd56 19 September, 2011 at 09:09 Reply

    The feeling of sliding on a brand new pair of panties and my GF telling me she thinks they are sexy. I spray on just  a bit of perfume and throw on my man cloths and head to work

  21. Warren 25 May, 2010 at 23:55 Reply

    I LOVE putting on my skimpy bike shorts and a sports bra and go out riding on my bike to show off my body. It feels so exciting to be sexually desirable. When I stop at red lights I can feel people checking me out and look at my erection through my spandex hot pants. Wrapping my legs around the bike seat makes me almost come while riding; I wouldn't mind getting raped either.

  22. Alissa 13 May, 2010 at 02:13 Reply

    Just feeling more at home in my body, wearing a skirt with a nice top, the feeling of walking in heels. I feel sexy when I'm able to be the me that stays inside so often. I walked down the sidewalk of a closed strip mall, tights, denim skirt, a red and white top, long hair wig with a nice pair of clip on hoops. Just felt SO sexy and free, I wish it was more often or for life.

  23. Jipat40@aol.com 12 May, 2010 at 13:21 Reply

    There are certainly lot's of comments regarding this subject…so much so, that I'm going to leave another. I would put myself into the class of a very conservative female where dressing is concerned. I adore going the full yard as one would say, and begin with my warm scented bath, do my nails, hair, and make-up, then take my time in selecting lingerie that I feel will go along with what I have chosen for my outer wear. To me, if one is going to truly enjoy her femininity, it is important to have all the correct combinations going with each other. I love women's dress and business suits..with a dark blue suit, I would choose perhaps a cream colored nylon blouse, either white, yellow, or pale blue nylon panties (prefer Vanity Fair nylon full brief style) matching bra, or plan white, more for support and comfort then anything else. Half slip of matching color, or white, stockings with a garter girdle, two inch pumps in either blue or black. When dressed as the above, I feel quite prepared in going out to the mall shopping, of just taking a ride somewhere. My sexuality will become quite enhanced, just knowing that I look very much like a well groomed buiness women.____Jillian

  24. Connie 12 May, 2010 at 01:55 Reply

    My sexy turn on is lace top nylons with peek toe pumps. Even my wife has to smile when she sees that! All the other dressing is just cake…shoes are the frosting!!

  25. sherib 11 May, 2010 at 22:33 Reply

    All the above except for dance and and a longing look from someone. I don't need anyone else to feel sexy.

  26. nickiee 11 May, 2010 at 21:04 Reply

    after my bath I allways wear my high waisted,black tummy control corsetts.its when I am
    brushing my hair, which is very long,down to just above my nipples,and see two nicely formed breasts under my hair, I have been on hormones 16 mths now,and its when I see my own reflection in the mirror,I cant stop feeling so pleased with myself,and spend the
    next hour grinning

  27. Vanessa L 11 May, 2010 at 18:58 Reply

    Thanks for all your comments ladies – it's wonderful to hear the different things that make you feel feminine and sexy.

    For me nothing can quite compare with wearing perfume, or being "reverse read" as a woman when in male mode.

  28. Susan 11 May, 2010 at 09:29 Reply

    Sexy for me, is a warm scented bath, followed by fresh nylon panties and bra, under my very best nightie. Relaxing with my favorite glass of wine in front of my TV. Perhaps not very exciting to some, but very sexy and relaxing for me.


  29. Jillian 11 May, 2010 at 05:24 Reply

    Actually all of the above contribute to my sexuality, but being absolutly honest, wearing my panties will always be the center of feeling sexy for me. Unfortunately, I must at times wear the hated male attire, but I find if I am wearing panties, I have a strong reminder of my true self thru out the entire day. They make me feel complete as a female, even while wearing male outer wear.

  30. Stephenie 10 May, 2010 at 22:35 Reply

    Ok this might sound funny but shaving my underarms and painting my toenails kinda does it for me. By the time I am doing these things I am almost done and I know it :) Also it is not something common to men as well. Anyhow it has always been something feminine to me since I was very young :)

    Stephenie :)

  31. Jackie 10 May, 2010 at 21:37 Reply

    Nothing makes me feel more feminine and lovely than panties and lingerie. When I go shopping for bras and panties I get so excited I can hardly speak, especially when I hand the tiny frilly things to a salesgirl. I’ve only dressed fully and gone out once, but I love to dress in lingerie at home and imagine myself as a gorgeous, long-legged woman.

    • Susan 13 May, 2010 at 13:44 Reply

      Hi Jackie, I think we all go through something like that. I know when I was a teenager, I'd walk through the lingerie section of a department store and my heart would beat like a drum!! I'd want so much to stop and just touch…or even better BUY!! Now as I have aged, (36 now) I've become use to going and selecting what I want, take the time to make sure, then walk up and pay, just like any other female. I must tell you though, lingerie still makes the heart beat faster!!


  32. Leslee 10 May, 2010 at 20:49 Reply

    Where do I start? There is really no one thing that is sexier than another as they all make me feel fabulous. I also love to go shopping and finding that special outfit that looks sexy also. What I dislike most is taking everything off at the end of an evening and looking at whats in the mirror. Now that is not sexy!!

  33. Sharon 10 May, 2010 at 17:35 Reply

    I just love to dress fully as a woman it makes me feel wonderful.
    Even wearing female underwear under my male clothes feels
    wonderful and so natural.

  34. Sally Conning 10 May, 2010 at 14:46 Reply

    Being at my fav pub dressed in a pair of high heel boots , black tights and the LBD (Little Black Dress) showing plenty of cleavage… and being asked if im on HRT by T/S Girls and G/G’s.. xxx

  35. Ssrah Rose Lamont 10 May, 2010 at 14:11 Reply

    Getting dressed in sexy underwear and a beautiful dress and going out
    to dinner a nightclub or to Church. Going out in public is always an occasion when I dress up, put on makeup and perfume and heels.
    Makes me feel confident, attractive and sexy.

    Sarah Rose

  36. Terri 10 May, 2010 at 12:41 Reply


    Having a dream of some coming to me and say that I am a beautiful lady, but there is no chance in that even happening, for I cannot even get ut of my house.


  37. Jasie 10 May, 2010 at 10:19 Reply

    I just love my panties and they make me feel so sexy. But all the other things especially heels and make up make me feel so feminine

  38. Eugene/Erlene 10 May, 2010 at 09:11 Reply

    Hello Everyone: I feel my Sexiest when I’m all dressed up and walking down the street and people look, not because I’m passable but because I’m my ULTIMATE SELF. I love feeling and looking my best. I also feel my Sexiest is when I’m out with the other ladies like myself and guys ask me to dance, buy me beverages and ask me to dine with them. These are my Sexiest moments besides the attire and make-up I’m wearing which is also an unexplainable turn on. Thank You…..Eugene/Erlene

  39. BRENDA 10 May, 2010 at 08:19 Reply

    i feel sexy for all of the above, in addition, i want to have sex with me cross dressed and in the female role, while my wife dresses as a man and makes love to me as if she were the husband.

  40. MELONY 10 May, 2010 at 08:05 Reply

    Ilove the feel of womans lingerie on me, and walking in a silk blouse, or a pretty dress, or skirt, with high heels on, with a good makeup job and a beautiful wig,,, this is what makes me feel sexy… wish i was a girl..

  41. Debbie 10 May, 2010 at 08:02 Reply

    everything makes me feel sexy from shaving body hair to wearing a skirt and blouse i just love it all

  42. womanwannabe 10 May, 2010 at 00:52 Reply

    I mean, honestly, the most feminine I feel is when I’m wearing women’s clothing, with makeup, totally shaved body, and perfume. There’s something so incredibly delightful about walking in front of a mirror and seeing myself for who I really am…

    I hate my real body.

  43. manikia 25 August, 2011 at 22:23 Reply

    please don’t mention raped as a turn on….it is not a sexual issue, but one of power over more vulnerable people….if this is a fantasy, you are still in control of it, if it were real, i am sure you would feel different….please consider all the people who have had to undergo such a powerless and unpleasant encounter.

  44. Margaret stewart 10 April, 2012 at 19:07 Reply

    Hi, gurls, well not much reply, so I will continue n other subject, in femme now, full makeup- earrings , blouse ,bra, black hose, very stylish though. Vsecrets, heels, and pleated skirt, not to mention dash of burberry. M.S.

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