Dear Readers,
I’m excited to present a new voice on Crossdresser Heaven. Tabitha has kindly shared her insights on a subject near and dear to most of us.
One Crossdressers Perspective on Choosing the Perfect Panty
Whether you are transgender, a crossdresser, or simply have a fetish for wanting/needing to wear woman’s panties, you will want to choose the style that is the most comfortable for you to wear, as well as present you in the most attractive light should you choose to show someone what you are wearing under your outer clothes! Many lingerie experts will tell you that there are five basic panty styles: bikini, hipster, boyshort, modern brief, and high leg (or high cut) brief. Below is a brief (pun intended) description of each style, and my (perhaps) irreverent thoughts.
Bikini
Bikini style panties are just like the bikini swimwear that you can see at any beach, and on nearly every episode of the old television shows of Baywatch, Hawaii Five-0, etc. Perhaps a mere 1% of all women in the world look really attractive in a bikini panty; and most of those are under the age of 30. For the transgender or crossdresser, unless you have a hormonally enhanced body, it is going to be difficult to attain an attractive look with a bikini panty. Since a bikini panty contains such a small amount of material, your first concern will probably be how to hide or even cover up your male anatomy. Second, if you have even a small amount of tummy fat, your tummy will naturally try to drop over the top of the panty because a bikini panty is meant to be worn low, (similar to low-rise jeans), or below the natural waistline. So, for the 99% of the world’s population, (which definitely includes me), this panty style is probably not for you.
Hipster
Hipster style panties are similar to bikini panties, but do provide a bit more coverage. Hipsters are also meant to be worn low, but will provide a bit more coverage for your male anatomy. Low rise style seems to be all the rage these days, so this is a good panty choice if you are going to be wearing low-rise outer clothing such as low-rise jeans and shorts. However, those with even a small bit of extra tummy fat will face the same dilemma of a small portion of the tummy wanting to naturally migrate and rest in a place just slightly over the top of the panty. So, for this reason alone, I cannot recommend this style of panty for most of us.
Boyshort
Boyshort panties are aptly named, because they can appear and feel as if you are wearing a pair of shorts, (which means that you probably can’t wear these panties if your outerwear is going to consist of short shorts). Boyshorts offer the greatest coverage for your male anatomy and your legs, and for this reason, are sometimes derisively labeled as ‘granny panties” and/or “vintage panties.” Those who utilize these negative labels often overlook the fact that these panties can be very comfortable as the panty top is meant to sit on the natural waistline. Furthermore, they can contour to a wide variety of body styles providing an overall slimming and smooth look. Finally, if you want to shed the “granny panty” look of a boring white panty, know that today’s lingerie designers offer the boyshort in a number of different patterns and bold, vibrant colors. Boyshorts are not my favorite style of panty, but I do occasionally wear them when I am not wearing outer short shorts.
Modern
A modern panty is basically a good compromise between a boyshort and a high leg/high cut panty. It contains a little bit less material than a boyshort, (but still enough for full and comfortable coverage of the male anatomy), while still offering a sexy display of your panty and legs due to its slightly diminished curving side, high cut fit. A modern panty will not likely be mistaken for a granny panty, even though it too sits at the natural waistline, because of its side cut and fit. Modern panties are my second recommended choice to wear on a daily basis.
High Leg/High Cut
High leg/high cut panties offer the best of all worlds in my humble opinion. They offer more than adequate coverage for the male anatomy, while also offering a sexy and attractive high cut, side leg view, (hence the panty’s name). However, beware that not every store sales associate is familiar with the high leg style, (or else they are aware, but have been told to push some other panty style onto the unsuspecting customers). I have occasionally had sales associates steer me to the bikini and/or boyshort panties when I requested the location of the high leg panties; and one sales associate even told me that what I really meant was that I was searching for a boyshort panty)! I was a bit aggravated at basically being told that I, as the customer, was wrong; but I have since learned that a lot of sales associates working in lingerie stores/lingerie sections in department stores, have less knowledge of lingerie than me. So, I give my highest recommendation of this panty style to all; as I believe that you will feel comfortable wearing it all day under your outer clothes, and that you will be tempted at the end of the workday to rip off your outer clothes to display your sexy panty and legs to all the world!
In conclusion, it is important to remember that the above recommendations reflect my particular preferences and experiences. So, if you want to wear bikini panties, and feel good doing so, then by all means you should wear bikini panties. Also, my recommendations are largely based on every day and the all-day wearing of panties. While I don’t wear bikini panties daily to work, I have certainly been known to don a pair for a night out at the bar, or while being a “naughty” bedroom partner! So, please consider my comments in this article, but find out for yourself what works for you by not being afraid to try wearing a variety of styles until you find what style makes you feel the prettiest and most feminine!
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I think that was a great overall view of the panty world, Panties are more than likely the first feminine clothing a boy tries on or experiments with, so it’s a obsessive task to find the right one, I am in my mid 50’s now and through the years tried many and got rid of many that did not fit or feel like I thought they would, I think Tabitha is right that each of us has their own idea of the perfect brief, Mine goes by fit, feel and fabric, by fit to me would be having everything tucked… Read more »
I love the high leg cut myself and yes the fabric is important also. When I buy as sexy nighty or corset a lot of times they come with a thong. I usually shop for panties that match unless of coarse my BF likes it instead. The high cuts feel more natural for me and yes its easier to hide myself. Love the articles
Good article, have experienced all she describes here. Hi- cut is the way to go for me.
This article is very good for helping (especially new people) to the various styles of panties. I am a little confused about the reference Boyshorts being labeled “Granny panties". I was under he impression that full brief panties are what is being referred as granny panties because they are made for us older and slightly bigger in the butt women. If I’m wrong please let me know.
Hi Michelle!! I have to disagree with you concerning full brief panties only for older and larger women. I would refer you to Pinterest web site. You would be surprised of how many young women speak highly on the high-brief and full brief pantie. Lots of nice photo’s showing different young and older women wearing these panties. Also, I have read letters/comments from “Her Room" web site, from mothers saying that is the kind of pantie they buy for their young daughters, no thongs, no G-strings for young girls say from 10 to 15 years old. So happily full brief… Read more »
Hi love to wear bikini panties.
Wonderful article, very informative. I have found that the hipster or modern style work for me but that, as usual, there may be some variation in fit depending on manufacturer.
99 percent of the time I only wear panties. Men’s underwear is not for me to put it bluntly. Yuk!! Iwill wear anything that I like from a color, decorative or style point of view that fits within reason. Thank God for women!!!!!!!
Maureen
I love the pink high leg/highcut panties
Believe Michelle H is correct.
I actually enjoyed reading this list it gave me some ideas on what kind of panties out there I can wear but there also needs to be a list of what kinds of bras and styles are out there and what kinds of bras we cross dressers and sisters can wear for that really sexy look and fell
An interesting topic ! my personal preference are High Leg Panties, I buy mine from
M & S (UK) – the have a grest selection – most UK GG women but their Lingerie from Marks & Spencer,
Love + Hugzz
Lynne xxx