You all know me as Rachel K and, a new ambassador at Crossdresser Heaven. I have been in Crossdresser Heaven for about a year now and in that little time I have learned so much; who I am and who you ladies are.
When I was asked to be an ambassador I was flattered and honored! You may ask why? Former Managing Ambassador Codille asked this question of me.
Why do you want to be an Ambassador, why the extra responsibility?
Here is my answer.
Crossdresser Heaven is about mind, heart, and soul… all of what makes a person. I know I have all of them, and to be able to share them is a very great thing. I also know sometimes my heart is too big. So I have to watch how involved I get with people (a long story). Soul is about your dreams and hopes of who you are. Mind (yep I have one..lol) I never use it to force my opinion on someone. Everyone is different and special in their own way. All you can to do is give some facts and go from there.
Because over the year I have learned so much, some of it was from chatting. Most, however, is from sitting back and watching the conversations. I had noticed how much an Ambassador works to help each of us. We come to them as newbies wanting to get out of the closet; scared and alone. Or we come as grown women needing a little help, maybe with a dress or style we like, and just want an opinion.
We chat and try very hard to have that good time that is needed by all. The friendships, the joking, the love, and smiles are great!
An Ambassador’s life is not simple. Outside of Crossdresser Heaven, she has her private life. That can, and will, get in the way.
Over the time some of the Ambassadors trusted me enough to chat private, I have had them be open with me, to go anywhere from a normal chat to having to vent or even have a shoulder to cry on!
And yes I have cried with them!!
They handle anything from a simple question, or to having a SO come in with questions, to someone thinking about taking their life.
And then there are the trolls that come in just to harass us as to who we are!
The Ambassadors come to “serve and protect us” and to them, I say thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
There is an old saying “to thine own self, be true” (from Shakespeare) and it is true!
Once we really understand who we are are, we can move forward. The Ambassadors have shown us that over and over.
So as a new Ambassador, I want to stand up with them and help others. I have a big heart and know it, again like stated above I have to learn more.
But I will work hard, to do what they have done already, and help to improve Crossdresser Heaven!
And to all the new Ambassadors…thank you for standing up also!!!
I am proud to be one with you!
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