Reply To: I’m the GF of a CD man

[Michelle Pepper]

Kate, one thing I would suggest is to keep it real. It is that big of deal for a man to wear a dress? For us CD’s, it’s not. But we’re not you.
A lot of women try to be understanding at first. My ex wife was. She even went so far as to buy me clothes, help me learn how to put on make up and learn how to dress, walk and even act like a woman. I thought my dream had come true.
But, all of that was just her trying to be supportive. But in reality, if was selfish of me to allow her to try so hard. She married a man. She knew I was bi before we married, and it sort of morphed into CDing.
But in the end, she got tired of having to support all of this, and said enough was enough. She didn’t even give me the option to choose between her and the fem side of me. I could tell it was coming. So I stopped doing it in front of her. But seems every time she looked at me, regardless of how masculine I was, all she could see what a feminine man inside a masculine body.
For the record, I don’t blame her one bit. She married me as a man, because a man is what she wanted in life. Not a CD.
So if you find yourself having to force yourself to keep supporting you man, then chances are, a man is all you want.