I’ve had real love in my life more than once during my childhood and since being a child. As infants we don’t have a concept of love and learn through our parents in the way they care, protect and cherish us from birth until we fly the nest. Even then a parent’s love never ...
Dear friends I am writing to let you that my mom passed away recently. She had been stricken with cancer and I put her in hospice on January 6th. Â I wanted to share with all of my friends, especially Vanessa, that before she passed away I told her I was her daughter. And althoug...
Allow your head and heart to help you be yourself Through the centuries the heart has been regarded in literature, poetry, art, song and society as a symbol of love, faith, courage and more. It has been used to describe emotional connection with another, nature, your true self an...
Who am I? Am I a guilty pleasure that just resonates in this male shell? Am I a prisoner just left to rot in a cell and never be broken out of? Am I an imaginary friend he needs when no one else is around? Am I a substitution for a desire that has not yet been fulfilled? Am I som...
We have some auto responses that when triggered can create very negative effects within our minds by creating distorted feelings and emotions. Things that can grow into quite serious issues affecting our mental health and way we interact with others. One such part of our brain...
This article was inspired by a conversation I had with another one of the girls here at CDH. There is so much which makes this an interesting and special place for crossdressers on the internet, however, so much of it is not apparent to most users. If you love this place like I d...
 This simple act can provide such power to your thinking, improve your life and world beyond your imagination! This may not come to you easily, as most worthwhile things in life rarely do, but believe me it is worth every second of your time to accomplish this. The principal is ...
They say that good things come in threes When I created the theme for an episode of Live Sessions*, I hadn’t realised quite what I had stumbled upon! ‘There’s power in numbers. Numbers are everywhere in our lives. If you’ve ever noticed that you keep seeing the same num...
If you wish to bring about changes in your life, you must first learn do things differently Consider the possibility that we come into this world with an amount of pre-programming built into our core being. That new born children appear to automatically know more than the previo...
At times in our community we come across those who are different from us. I encourage you, as I encourage myself, to find love and compassion.
Many times in my life I’ve had a case of the “I shoulds”. This was never truer than when it came to being transgendered and crossdressing. “I should” have a separate male and female persona. “I should” not wear that, it’s not me. &#...
When I wrote this article, I was totally unaware of the imminent release of the excellent documentary Disclosure, directed by Sam Feder and produced by Laverne Cox and Amy Scholder. I most strongly recommend that you watch this important and powerful film. The timing of this is a...
Life, a series of events and obstacles from the moment that we are conceived until the day we die Naturally, we are aware of the stages we go through from birth to old age, with fuzzy invisible divides that sit between each period of our life; blending them into one seamless exis...
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and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear: Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our lives and how we behave. It could sit quietly in the background until the switch is flipped by a visual, a...
I stumbled upon an article this week that took me by surprise and has sparked off the idea to write this. What it mentioned linked strangely well with my own perception of things, reinforcing them in the process. It’s always good to feel that you’re not alone in this world ...
The purity and cuteness of babies makes people talk in quite funny ways, turning them into blubbering adults – coochie-coo! Terms such as cherub, angel and many others are used with love and affection when referring to babies. Being a child has such innocence attached to ...
As I wrote this, the government had closed the borders from the outside world and schools have shut down completely. Everyone is to stay 6ft away from each other. Bars and clubs had shut down, restaurants are to go only and fast food is drive through. All this leaves us in a plac...
I saw two pictures the other day in chat; one of a fire with roaring flames and the other glowing embers. It struck me that those images are representative of the lives many of us lead. For many, the kindling had always been there inside us, early in our lives—it just neede...
It is Saturday, early evening, and I sit at home wondering what to do with myself during this unsure and stressful time. With a warmer than usual night and a somewhat quiet and subdued world outside my door, the thought crossed my mind that maybe just maybe it was time for Michel...
We find ourselves in the middle of a Medical crisis with everyone running scared, as if the world is about to end. We’ve tended to have the thought that we are somehow above the fray. We are just human beings and not gods. We can get sick and die from an invisible bacteria,...
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My Story March 4, 2021 Here is my story. My name is Jenna. I’m in my 40’s and grew up and lived most of my life in Northern CA. I’ve been living in Honolulu for the last 3 years. I was raised in a large, close, loving, yet conservative family. I didn’t know a single person in my circle of frien...
- Bra Hooks March 1, 2021
If there is anything as controversial as the bra itself, it is the bra hooks! I’m talking about the traditional bra hooks, which are on the back with one, two, three or more hooks and have one, two or three “lines”. Even men who never thought about wearing a bra...
- Great Expectations February 28, 2021
GREAT EXPECTATIONS This is just my opinion based on my own experience. Genetically, I’m a man. But why do I feel so calm and peaceful inside my heart and mind when I slip on women’s lingerie, a woman’s dress, makeup, and high heels?  This glorious feeling is why I want t...
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