Crossdressing is still a big taboo, and it raises fears even in those who don’t practice it. One of a crossdresser’s biggest fears is that of being “caught” doing it. It starts with the risk that the boy who is trying on his mother’s or sister’...
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Wendie passed away Tuesday evening, November 14th before she could approve and have her article published. I’ve posted it here as a tribute to her. 6:13 am: crawling out of bed a few minutes ago, I couldn’t help but think that it seems like getting out of bed k...
I used to go to my aunt’s house every Thanksgiving. Those days have passed as she, my mother, and their brother have all moved on to the fabulous banquets above. I went as a kid, an adult, with my children, and then as a grandfather. As my parents aged, we used to go to Village...
I recently looked through a dictionary for a word to help me solve a clue in a crossword puzzle and came across the word “odyssey,” which was defined as “a long wandering usually marked by many changes of fortune.” It struck me that this definition was also a good descrip...
Dear Friends, With the rise of online shopping, many of us would be relieved to no longer have to subject ourselves to the “in-person purchase.” But nothing can really replace assessing the size, fit, colors, fabrics, and contours in person before splurging hard-earned money....
Nothing scares us more than the erratic pattern of our crossdressing lives; sometimes forced by situations such as vacations or extended guests staying at the house, or even the Pandemic. The most worrisome is the break that happens when I can but don’t dress, even more so than...
I’m going to share with you my story about my day at a TJ Maxx store. Just keep in mind I’m no writer and I’m just a man telling his story. On August 31, 2023, I blew 10 bucks at a TJ Maxx store. I was there looking for a birthday gift for my granddaughter-in-la...
In Shakespeare’s time, men played all the female roles. Wouldn’t that have been fun? Not only was it acceptable, but it was also mainstream, and what wonderful clothing we could wear. If we can learn anything from history, it is that varying notions can change—for either be...
I’ve written one other article on this site but posted on several forums. Many of you know that I go to work En femme on a fairly regular basis. I teach in a very open department and so coming into the office in a skirt and heels hardly causes a stir. People asked a few questio...
Well, July was quite a month! On July 8th, as mentioned in my previous article, the Tokyo Closet Ball held our tenth anniversary show. The audience was relatively small but wildly enthusiastic. Tributes came from former members in Canada and Belgium. We had our version of the ...
I am tall, standing well over 6 feet. I have a mustache that I’ve had since my freshman year in college, and I’m very reluctant to shave it off, and probably never will. I also have big feet and have never found women’s shoes that fit comfortably or are even bearable. The q...
I promise to keep this installment light. I had a week of fishing and two of fierce golf outings, which left all the work I’d been trying to do on balancing out my tan out the window. Not long ago, my torso had distinct layers, but decent. At my age, I’m not heading to a pool...
In continuing from the last article… So, the next step in coming out was to tell a female friend who was just that. She was single, and we were kindred spirits who had been friends for many decades. She was okay with knowing but didn’t really want to see me dressed, although ...
The Life and Tribulations of living with a Crossdresser

Hi everyone. Life with a crossdresser is like climbing a mountain. You climb that mountain and you get to the top and there’s a cliff. Do you turn around and walk back down? Do you sit there and ponder and worry, or do you jump into that world with them? Walking back down c...
I suppose there are many of us who feel a need to tell someone, but the repercussions can be disastrous to relationships, friendships, and even work. We live in a more tolerant society now, where acceptance is better. However, there is still a stigma attached with some media cove...
Crossdressing in teenage: discoveries, doubts and insecurities

Most people who practice crossdressing discovered themselves in their teens. Crossdressing is the practice of wearing clothes and accessories belonging to the opposite sex. In this article, we’ll be talking specifically about guys who like to dress like girls. Although some...
Time to lighten up the load… so to speak. My recent blogs have been more somber. I believe we should embark on a cruise of lightheartedness. To borrow the opening from Dr. Seuss: Oh, the Places You’ll Go! Congratulations! Today is your day. You’re off to Great Places! You�...
At the recent Keystone Conference, it was my pleasure to take several of their wonderful workshops, including the one entitled “Telling Your Children and Family Members” moderated by Dr. Michele Angello. More of a discussion than a “how to” workshop, I found it fascinatin...
So… My father passed peacefully at home. I knew it was getting close as he was sleeping more and not wanting to eat solids. His mind was there, but I knew he was processing the coming end. When he gave up wanting to drink his nourishment and told me he didn’t want his daily b...
I have noted a number of fellow dressers who keep facial hair, and the mixed feelings they have about it. I thought I would add an article about my own experiences and feelings in hope that it might be of some interest. Growing up in the 60’s it isn’t surprising I developed...
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