My journey to a complete and fulfilling life has decidedly run through Crossdresser Heaven and Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Who knew? The power and promise of an event like Keystone is perhaps unmatched. It has offered many of us an opportunity to embrace our true and authentic selv...
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My story is probably like many of you that have gone before me. I have been cross dressing off and on since I was 12. I got married and had a son doing what is normal for a guy, but even though I suppressed my feelings for dressing, they were always there. I would dress when I wa...
Last night I was sitting in a gay downtown bar, which was close to empty but there were a few guys there. I was the only crossdresser in the place and I was done-up pretty well – black pantyhose and tall black boots, a silvery spandex short skirt, nice pink blouse with a ...
I’m writing this post with a degree of trepidation, knowing that what I’m sharing will not be popular with some of you, but I’m compelled to post this article, nonetheless, for a couple of reasons. Our site’s founder, Vanessa Law, sent me an email asking me to “Make my ...
I am co-writing this article with my wife, Tiffany Kaytee, who has recently joined CDH. The idea for the topic came from a recent conversation between the two of us. Tiffany has been fully accepting and supportive of my cross-dressing since the earliest days of our 28 years of ma...
Bdump, bdump, bdump!! You entered her life. Your SO became part of yours. Smitten, wooed and heralded, impressed and protected, you fulfilled her every dream. You became her knight in shining armour. You picked her up each time she’d fall, you gathered flowers constantly, you c...
Running a Club for Cross-dressers Nobody really knows what percentage of Western men like to cross-dress as women. Some estimates are as low as 1%, but range up to 10%. In my reasonably cosmopolitan city of 850,000, that could mean say 8,500 to 85,000 men cross-dressing. O...
Life for a covert dresser can, without doubt, be somewhat challenging. Not necessarily because of the constant fear that your secret persuasion might be discovered, but because of the harm, the upset or confusion you might unleash on those closest to you. Or even those in you...
The one thing many introverts have in common is their need to observe. We are in constant surveillance mode, watching, analyzing, and preparing our “What ifs.” The strategy is more important than the outcome… although a successful ending is greatly accepted. I didn’t know...
Like some of us here, I often struggle with just who I am, where do I actually fit into this world. Am I a man, am I a woman, am I something in between? How do I manage my relationships? How do I manage my desires and how do those desires impact the rest of my life? Pretty deep q...
It’s ever likely that your journey started in stealth, absolute secrecy. Only you were becoming aware of your curiosity. Which became your inner desires, which became your secret endeavours, which became your closeted journey; it didn’t take long to realise that this jour...
My Journey to Gender-Affirming Surgery. Nearly six months have passed since I underwent gender reassignment surgery (GRS) in Bangkok, Thailand. Reflecting on my journey, I see a path paved with immense struggles, deep despair, but ultimately, resilience and renewal. This is my st...
“Who Did I Dress For?” I can’t remember a time in my life when I was not drawn to femininity. One of my first fascinations with women was seeing them dressed up and, in particular, when they would wear pretty red lipstick. My very first experience with actually putti...
Skirts or Dresses and Purses If you are like me, then you agonize over what to wear to the next outing; I do it all the time. I try to plan what to wear a week in advance, but each successive day gets me thinking anew. Funny, it doesn’t really matter between the outf...
The girl was walking along a narrow lane. It was by its nature a secret lane, yet you may have walked it yourself. The girl was young, and she knew very little about the world. She didn’t know why the way that she had chosen to take seemed so exciting. Neither did she know quit...
It occurred to me as I viewed the contest photos for this year’s contest that we all tend to be drawn to… something. Whether it is what we view and decide is appealing to what we desire in our mannerisms and dressing. Some of us have had the same sports team our entire life w...
As much as my father loved me, I was always the apple of my mother’s eye. She called me her miracle baby because she didn’t think she could have me—my sister is 11 years older than me and my brother 10. Then, at the tender age of 44, my mother decided she wanted a th...
Dressing Age-Appropriate A wise, cross-dressing psychiatrist once wrote (with apologies to Oscar Wilde): “The only thing worse than being viewed as a sex object, is NOT being viewed as a sex object.” Amen to that, Sisters. I understand that most of us dr...
This is my take on Crossdresser basic necessities … some of what I’ve learned over my years of cross-dressing. Let’s start at the floor 🙂 1 – High heels (whatever height you are comfortable walking in). Black, one pair shiny, and another pair matte or faux sued...
Hiya Girls. In case you did not notice, Fatima Abrams loves long hair on girls; nothing says ‘Girl’ like shoulder length long hair does. I have over 60 wigs now, excessive? Not for me, but I do have favorites amongst them; mainly shoulder length and blonde. I h...
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