Crossdresser Shop - Lingerie

The stores below offer great variety, whether you’re looking for everyday cotton panties, lacy bras or silk slips you’ll find what you’re looking for.

Highly Recommended – Bare Necessities: Bras, panties, slips and camis in a variety of styles – from everyday to seductive goddess. Great prices and wide range of sizes.

Hanes: Comfortable bras and panties in a wide variety of sizes, styles and colors.

Fredericks of Hollywood: Sexy bras, teddies and lacy nightgowns. Drive your woman (or man) wild in bed!
Highly Recommended – Her Room: High quality lingerie at affordable prices. Great selection of styles and sizes, including plus size lingerie.

Just My Size: Specializes in plus size lingerie that is comfortable and flattering for the larger woman.

Silkies: A selection of everyday bras, panties and comfortable camis.

Victoria’s Secret: I’m sure you’ve heard of them – buy online to avoid the teenage girls at the mall

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  1. emily lynn smith 2 years ago

    thank you Vanessa for sharing these tips on hells and clothes and lingerie for us girls and for allowing us girls to be girls and now I know what to look for when I go shopping for clothes and heels and lingerie thanks for the tips

  2. Kelsie Hutchins 2 years ago

    Where can we shop that uses discreet delivery? Where I live has a community mailbox, so when a package shows up that says on the label that it contains women’s clothing, what size etc., with a man’s name on it, it tends to raise eyebrows. Any tips on where I might shop to avoid this and unwanted catalogs, etc.?

    • JackieOhNo 2 years ago

      Try using your initial ,or
      Try to miss Smith. % your name
      (I think. % means in care of)

      • JackieOhNo 2 years ago

        thatnamer hat was for kelsey

    • sissywife 2 years ago

      The breast form store is very discret but limited selection most of the cross dressing stores are very discreet but why not enjoy your self and shop at Macy’s Dillards etc it is exciting and most of the sales people are very understanding and do not want to offend you also excellent selection

  3. helloulla 2 years ago

    thank you

  4. joan59 2 years ago

    Am new to cross dressing more. Have been wearing panties on a regular basis. Wearing lingerie nighties evening gowns to bed. Expanding my horizons. Looking forward to your help and support in this area. Looking forward to hearing from u.

  5. Vanessa, I can’t thank you enough for all the information you have compiled here. I’ve learned a ton in the last couple hours, met a lot of lovely ladies, and treated myself to some new outfits!

  6. george mcvicker 2 years ago

    Dec 4 2015——Hi there i love your website very much.//

  7. stephanie 2 years ago

    I live in England and we have lots of Charity shops….I find a lot of my female clothes very reasonable prices…..No-one thinks anything less of me when I talk about wearing female clothes. In fact one shop locally has a lady who tells me how to mix and match tops and skirts…..So do not be shy …go with the flow

  8. Michelle Brown 2 years ago

    I also have shopped fully dressed as a woman and I must say its great.I know I will never completely pass as a woman but99% of the sa’s out there are great to deal with.Should you encounter a problem ,thank them for their time,pick up your purse and walk out of the store.

  9. JENNIFER 2 years ago


  10. carla may 2 years ago

    I’m new to sharing my cd secret to other people so would like to get advice and chat to other cd xx

  11. Madeline 2 years ago

    I prefer silky lacey lingerie stockings suspenders myself. On occasions a corset to give me a slim figure. I purchase them mail order or from the local lingerie stores. Thanks for the tips and advice every one

  12. JENNIFER 2 years ago

    Recently, I heard that Fredrick’s of Hollywood is “Going Out of Business”, is it true??

  13. JENNIFER 2 years ago

    I love going shopping at our local mall, Town East Mall, east of Dallas, Texas, checking out the lingerie department in each store. I always check their nylon panties, Classic, high waist briefs, in pink, white, pastel yellows & blues, in size 10-12( I like panties with a bit more room, just like the first time I tried on a pair of my mothers, plus, when I get aroused, I’ll remain ‘contained’) I always check out the ‘Sales & Clearance Racks’ for great deals. Sometimes, I get a saleslady who knows that I’m shopping for myself, I’m hoping to find one that’s “Mature” & excited to help me find the perfect fitting lace bra, panties, etc. (at her home??) I will often find some really feminine lingerie in my size & I can’t wait to get them home & change into them.
    I also like shopping at Marshall’s, Dress Barn, & others.

  14. Regan 2 years ago

    I’ve shopped at a lot of local stores here in northern Colorado , and have found that dressed as a man looking in women’s department sections, 99% of the women there are eager to go that extra mile to help especially when they learn you’re shopping for yourself. I’ve even had other female customers join in. I have 4 stores that are major chains, CATO, Payless shoes , Macy’s and JC Penny they all have clerks there who recognize me and rush to come over to help, my wife gets jealous because of how eager they are to help. It’s amazing how the female clerks are more excepting . Kisses. Regan

  15. Jonelle 2 years ago

    Great info, Thank You so much… New to this site and am so grateful…

  16. Monika Sweet 2 years ago

    I shop almost everywhere I see lingerie…lol sucker at it.

    My Favorites:
    1. Victoria’s Secrets: Very luxurious, expensive but seriously best stuff. The materials are fine, silky and staf is always helpful. They have got Double Push Up bra now and these fit so well and does the trick for most CDs without the need of a Breastform.

    2. La Senza: Great styles, good price, sexy and stylish… They got Double Push-up Bras as well. Tip: Just go one band size up and a cup size low while buying from La Senza Double Push up. For example: If you usually buy 36c with Breastforms… Buy a 38B instead in Double Push-up. This will give you the comfort around the band and the match the cup size for the 36C… No need to stuff anything in it anymore

    3. Nayomi: Probably a regional Brand but they have the best fitting Double Push Up Bra. The bra comes with 3 different straps that allows you to wear the same bra as Standard Push Up with straps on either sides, Cross Straps, Halter neck and the clear transparent straps for the off-shoulder dresses…. The above tip for a Band size higher and a Cup size lower is true for them

    4. Tchibo: they have the most reasonably priced Panties that are stylish, fashionable and comfortable… Downside… You have to dig through stacks of stuff to get what you really need

    • Monika Sweet 2 years ago

      Other Stores that I frequent are:

      H&M: Everywhere, decent stuff at decent price.. Most of my Panties, leggings come from there

      BHS: Another store that sells decent quality stuff… I like their Soft Shine Stockings and High waist panties..

      Debenhams: Little Expensive and less variety in terms of Double Push Up Bra… But their Lace BRas and Panties are good.

      • Jane Borden 1 year ago

        Fully agree with these stores-also Peacocks, where the bras fit really well and are very reasonably priced. Primark can be good-though bras only go to 38 and I need 40

  17. Stephanie 2 years ago

    Thanks for the suggestions. I have also shopped on Amazon, they are discreet and I find my billing is only to Amazon so covered the CC bill. I also have shopped at Yandy.Com

  18. Veronica 1 year ago

    I like Yandy, too, and love PantyhoseHQ and NY Lingerie for Palatino pantyhose! If you type in “lingerie” or “plus size lingerie” in Ebay, a whole slew of great choices pop up. You can use the left task bar to refine your choices. The hard part is not buying everything you see! Lingerie Diva is great, too! Can you tell that I am addicted to lingerie?!?

    • Kim Cummings 1 year ago

      You and me both! Lingerie and high heels are so addictive. The sensuous feeling of our sexy lingerie, silky smooth pantyhose against the skin. It is quite a hot and sexy feel, isn’t it?

    • Kim Cummings 1 year ago

      PantyhoseHQ is a excellent source for the higher cost pantyhose. Bare essentials is also good.

  19. Joanne Maes 1 year ago

    Thank you so much As a middle aged now woman i so glad to have your help.

  20. Jamies time 1 year ago

    I love to shop at Maurices the girls at store are so helpful and also Catherine’s plus size clothing store last time I went lady helped me find correct bra size to wear with my breast forms and tried on several clothes to fit best

  21. Dani Ferrell 1 year ago

    Thank you to all of you ladies, all of your input is very comforting for me to build up some courage to actually go into one of the many stores listed. I am very closeted and I live in Tempe AZ, I have been cross dressing since the age of 7, I was the youngest and the only boy with 4 sisters. It was fun until they all moved out after high school, then my wardrobe diminished drastically. I live with straight roommates and I am only able to dress a couple of times a month, so I would love to meet some girls in AZ to build a friendship with and explore my femininity!

    • rob 1 year ago

      Me too Dani!!!

      • Wembii Smith 10 months ago

        Yes me two I love this talk I love sissy thoughts of panties and heels

  22. rob 1 year ago

    I haven,t dressed in about 10 years and it,s been driving me crazy!!!! God, how I would love to dress!!!

    • rob 1 year ago

      The trouble is, my waist size is over 50 inches and nobody carries anything that big. I,d love to start off with about 5 or 6 nice garter belts but with a big waist it,s impossible!!!

  23. Chrissy5462 1 year ago

    When it comes to buying lingerie it’s become so much easier as the internet was at our fingertips per say. In the beginning we had to actually go into the store the majority of us solo not having a female decoy suggestion if you use a decoy she should be your size or you can pretend that she’s your girlfriend’s sister or friend who’s helping you buy a anniversary gift , birthday gift etc.

    If your solo you can easily be believable during a holiday like Valentine’s day a precall can help like asking what sizes you need to know and tell them you know basic sizes like pants ,etc

    Always make a fake call to her sister’s asking questions so the clerk can hear you struggling on buying the right sizes they find this cute and are more willing to go the extra efforts for a guy who’s trying hard for a girl.

    Ask about gift boxes and receipts that say gift hiding prices because she would get mad at you if you spent to much but say she’s Worth every penny and more.

    Fredricks of Hollywood is my favorite store so is hustler adult book stores they have a large selection in their big stores and the female staff will love your story

    So go get them girlfriend

    • Kim Cummings 1 year ago

      I o tall slid the Internet is the best possible way to get the pantyhose, high heels and the smooth lingerie and things like wigs and other hot looking items. I have a extreme fetish for my pantyhose and high heels. I enjoy the shaving of my legs and applying lotion on them. I paint my toenails hot pink then slowly and sensuously slide the pantyhose up my smooth and silky legs.

  24. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    I started with my mother’s pantyhose and panties. Naughty me. I have a nice little fetish for pantyhose and high heels. Fetishes are very important. I have worn my own pantyhose and high heels for years. I enjoy the look and feel of silk and satiny lingerie.

  25. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    No problem with the sizes. I am very tall and large. 6′-7″ tall and 235 Lbs. Of course one must look around. I have found that the thrift stores are full of over sized items.

  26. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    Lingerie HAS TO BE THE most intimate apparel and often the most expensive. Online one can find real silk kimonos and various other sexy pretty lingerie and European pantyhose. The European countries aren’t cheap and the bank won’t let the transactions go through without prior notice.

  27. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    It can be a bit iffy. The internet is so well suited to purchase these items. Going into Victorias Secret is chancy if someone recognizes you. I was in a Lane Bryant for 5 minutes and while in my car a police woman asked what I was doing in their. I told her I was in the store for 5 minutes and she saw my police badge and left me alone.

  28. Kim Cummings 1 year ago


  29. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    I’m such a little bit of a bitch in my attire! I love the way they look and feel on my shaven legs. I like to be a good little Bitch for myself and my significant other.

  30. Sarah Daniels 1 year ago

    I love the feeling of new lingerie. The excitement when you get it home from the shop and try to hold off even opening the package until you have showered and shaved. Then you slide the pack open and finally get to actually appreciate the material and lace feeling.

    For me my dressing is about the feelings or sensations. I love the feeling of the cool silky stockings sliding on smooth legs. To then clip the suspenders onto the top of the stockings. Sliding the briefs on over the stockings and feeling the snug and smooth silky material. Then clipping on a matching bra, before sliding on a full slip and then a snug fitting dress and finally a pair of heels.

    Love that feeling. Oh and I love the red matching set in the picture, but alas Im sure the front of the briefs wont be quite as comfortable as Id like.

  31. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    Lingerie is so very expensive. The only kind of lingerie one will ever be truly appreciatIve of is the best. We are looking for the most sensuously beautiful and pretty attire. The fact is that the quality of your lingerie and the price is very much related. I have found that the most beautiful and pretty thing’s such as hosiery, and silk kimonos are not cheap. Cashmere, the beautiful and pretty fabric we so much love to have is priced at least +275.00 per item. Tailored feminine attire is a good idea. It will take a few months to get a seamstress to accommodate your request.

  32. Lois Lane 11 months ago

    Where do you guys get your high heels size 12 and 13 for a crossdresser for a guy

  33. Katie Leggs 10 months ago

    Hope to find a local “friend” who enjoys the same…and wants to explore our mutual hidden passion.

    • RUBYDE 10 months ago

      yes lets rock

      • RUBYDE 10 months ago

        i been afaid to long ill go up to any counter and buy my fem stuff khols sears target..all have inexpensive lingerie…i love girdles.myself good luck 2 all

    • Paige Turner 10 months ago

      Katie, this is not a hookup site. Please take that elsewhere. It can get you banned here.

  34. Michael Fletcher 10 months ago

    Have found this site disappointing as it’s all catered for the USA when I checked clubs & bars it only shows places in USA & nothing for UK??

    • Paige Turner 10 months ago

      The places page is fueled by the Users. If you find a place, please submit it for approval. It’s not intentionally American, only. We need your feedback, please.

  35. Paige Turner 10 months ago

    The places page is fueled by the Users. If you find a place, please submit it for approval. It’s not intentionally American, only. We need your feedback, please.

  36. Emeline Linehan 9 months ago

    This true I feel more feminine in lingerie under my cloths than dressed as a man in life .i feel more emotion when I am dressed up as a woman

  37. Lisbeth Lacy 9 months ago

    Using Amazon to find and purchase lingerie is a great experience especially if you use prime membership. Using prime your purchase is delivered in two days and if your lingerie is not satisfactory or doesn’t fit you can return it with no questions asked for a fun refund.
    The down side to Amazon prime is that selections are limited for prime and may be at a higher price. The pros: quick delivery, good alternative to shopping stores, wide selection to styles and sizes, privacy, easy returns and refunds . I use Amazon exclusively for my dresses, heels, undergarments such as girdles, bras, garter belt, corsets,and stockings & pantyhose. Amazon has a extensive collection of make up and wigs.

  38. billie sissy 9 months ago

    I simply love your site. I feel so welcome. I’m trying to get my g- friend Regan to join so we can chat all the time.

  39. Lisbeth Lacy 8 months ago

    I love lingerie as much as the next girl. Whenever I purchase lingerie I take into consideration three things.. what purpose will the lingerie be used for, everyday wearing or senual or both, quality, style, fabric, and costs. Will that’s more than three things. I usually try to purchase lingerie that can be both practical as well as sexy. For example, high cut control panties that look shiny and silky can be practical because they provide support and slimming. and the silky shiny fabric looks sexy.
    But what looks senual & sexy depends on your personal preference. When I find a piece of lingerie that meets my expectations for practical, senual, style, and cost then I just hit a home run.

  40. Dawn Star 7 months ago

    Just really shy but I love the feel of lingerie too and I don’t mind I just go in a store and buy then I don’t care what people think or look at me I could care less I just go in and buy what I feel is pretty for myself look up with my head held high

  41. Rani Begum 6 months ago

    Thanks for your great ideas and efforts so for.I always obliged you for these tips to promote our inner women

  42. June Darling 6 months ago

    Some of the best are the local Boutiques around your area. I find all kinds of good things at several here. You can even find Highend stuff for extremely reasonable prices and if yur out its exciting to try them on to see if they fit and the look is you! Happy hunting ladies.

  43. Sahi saheli 5 months ago

    The article is fine and it occurs to everybody who wants to become crossdresser but we on our part support our section of individuals .We are also undergoing the trials and tribulations and we expect sympathy and understanding .We hope someday we will be accepted as we are and respect

  44. shaay wels 4 months ago

    I’m here

  45. Kacy-Jo Logan 3 months ago

    I have been really scared to go out in full fem but i do wear panties everyday. I like the feel of a low cut lacy thong

  46. Jess Brown 3 months ago

    Thank u for this site love it

  47. Rose Smith 3 months ago

    I have grown to love shopping in drab at Victoria’s Secret they treat me with honor and dignity the whole time. They even made getting fitted for a bra enjoyable

    • Stephanie 2 months ago

      You are so pretty in those pretty girl panties. I Don’t know if you are attracted but I wish I could be there in person and I have a feeling that you can teach me to be dressed up like that

  48. Dean 3 months ago

    For me the lingerie doesn’t need be high end. If I see something cute/sexy I buy it. For me the fun is in trying it on and feeling a little naughty. I buy things for wife so I can wear it too, if it makes my junk tingle I’m all in.

  49. Elana Germaine 2 months ago

    I love to shop at JCPenney, there is a woman that works there that is so nice to me, I know she has seen some of my underdressings. She always wears stockings with her outfits. She likes pencil skirts, and so do I.

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