Hi Josephine, lovely ladies here, helpful, caring. With a loving partner and new born, a lot of great times ahead. Mixing and matching clothing styles, female and male is one way. A jumper or coat over a bra, blouse etc works well. Unisex jeans, or female jeans.
Foundation, face cream to give you a lift, lip balm, coloured if you like. These are some options.
But you can choose for yourself. I wish you well.