Meet Your Crossdresser Heaven Ambassadors

Meet Your Crossdresser Heaven Ambassadors

The mission of Crossdresser Heaven is to provide a safe, welcoming and supportive environment for everyone in the transgender community.

In the last few months Crossdresser Heaven has grown from a blog, to a full fledged community with forums, groups, photos, chat and a complete social network. This transformation is exciting and has required us to rethink how we support the transgender community.

The Crossdresser Heaven Ambassadors were born out of this transformation. Each of the ladies who serve as Ambassador has demonstrated a caring spirit, loving heart and willingness to help others on their journey. I’m honored to have them as part of the Crossdresser Heaven Community.

The Ambassadors are the first place to start your journey on Crossdresser Heaven. You’ll find them active in the forums, the community and on chat. Please reach out to them if you need anything – a helping hand, shoulder to cry on or someone to guide you along your path. If they have helped you in any way, please also share a word of appreciation. A kind word of thanks keeps us going through the many stories of loss and heart ache.

Meet Your Crossdresser Heaven Ambassadors

Your Ambassadors come from all over the world!

Team Red, White and Blue

Crossdressing in the USAApril – Aka Showers lives in Seattle. She’s crossdressed since about the age of 7, but took a 30+ year hiatus from dressing when first married and while her kids were around. She started again when the nest was empty and has been out an about dressed half a dozen times, and finally likes who she is. Only dresses once or twice a week, but she’s a bit of a perfectionist and loves going “all out” when she does. April sees herself as a late bloomer, and she doesn’t know where her journey is going, but she plans on enjoying the ride!

Codille – From just outside Baltimore, Maryland, Codille (aka CB) has been crossdressing since she was 13 with no sights on transitioning.  Married for 20+ years, she plans to be outfitting herself and her wife forever. She is a friend to all in the CDH community. Since joining Crossdresser Heaven, she has grown more comfortable with who she is as a person and where her place in the world may be than any previous time in her life. In the three years since finding Crossdresser Heaven, she has gone from hidden deep in the closet with only a few knowing to now being out to her kids, other family members, and friends by the dozens. These days, she has the confidence to live in her own skin and help anyone that reaches out to her for friendship and support like never before. She feels that the members and friends she has met and made on CDH changed her world forever and is eternally thankful God has allowed her to find and help be a part of building this amazing site to what it is today.  She was our very first Managing Ambassador.  Now, having passed that torch along, she now holds the lofty title of Managing Ambassador Emeritus and is head of our Ambassador recruitment effort.

Cynthia – The Original Cyn, or OC for short. Cynthia is from Richmond Virginia who crossdresses every day (lucky gal!) and has a knack for tracking down niggling technical issues so we can fix them’ . She is also on a journey of self-examination to figure out where her feminine journey will lead her, and is always willing to talk with others about their feelings and questions or her own.


Thoughtful and compassionate
Helping others
Inquisitive and getting others involved
Name – Claudia, nickname ThinNkerbelle
Kick ass skirt and legging collection
Everyone has a voice
RE: CDH – Welcome home!
Born male
Everyone should accept CD/TS
Loving husband and dad
Lady from the Tri state area in PA
Everyday to dress/underdress

Gina Angelo currently lives in the San Francisco Bay area and has for the last 19 years, where she works as a physician amongst other things. She has only been fully dressing publically for the last year but several years prior in private. Single, she found the Crossdresser Heaven community, making friends in the virtual and real worlds. Gina dresses about 1-2 times a week and enjoys going out and meeting people, but is here to support all members of the community, whether they are fully transitioned, transitioning, dressing in public or private, and everyone else. She has a quick wit and enjoys banter, but behind that is a truly caring and compassionate gal who hopes to help others on their journey of femininity. She has not figured out the end to her journey, but like Gina says, ”don’t overanalyze it and just enjoy.”

Jackie Wild K so coming straight out of Idaho (spud and stud) land comes Jackie “Wild Child” Wild. Been at this dressing thing since 10 with no thoughts of quitting anytime soon. Love the outdoors, being a drag queen on top of being a cross dresser, life in general, helping others and adore my family. Came to CDH out of curiosity, decided to stick around awhile and here is where I remain

Jasmine Marie – From Southern California deserts, shines a light in the dark starry night, if you seek her out she’ll take you by the hand and guide you to the chat room, or feed you to the wolves. She is a bit shy but very helpful, don’t be afraid to ask her for help, just don’t cross her she can be a she-devil and she’ll stick you on a blazing train to a far worse place than the heaven you seek.

JenH – I live in Ct. I am married to an amazing husband who is a cross dresser. We have been married for 9 years. I have known about his cross dressing for about a year and a half. It has been an interesting and sometimes fun journey. I love representing the amazing ladies on The Wives and Significant Others group. We are all here to try to figure out how to support and love our SO the best way possible and how to deal with the flow of different feelings that can sometimes over whelm us. I was so happy when I joined this group and found all the love and understanding that was there. It really has helped me and my marriage a lot.

Katie Jean (Wicked Girl from Boston) Katie jean is in limbo somewhere between cd and tg who does not like labels. She started experimenting with her femme side when she was 5. She has lived at least part time en femme since her 20’s. She has 4 children and a loving wife who is sometimes on board with her femme life.
She currently resides in Beverly MA just north of Boston. When she is not online chatting with the girls she is a full time EMT and emergency dispatcher. She enjoys spending time with her family, shopping, reading, going to the beach, shopping, coffee and shopping.”

Kayla C  Kayla is a genetic girl (GG) from Kansas City with two awesome grown sons and a beautiful baby granddaughter! She is in a relationship with a CD whom she loves very much.  After spending some time here, she found lots of support and when the opportunity arose to become an ambassador she dove in with both feet. Offering friendship, support, and a listening ear, she helps other SOs to learn more about their relationships while at the same time offering the rest of the members who are CD/TG/TS a perspective on how to help their SOs to understand them and maintain a good relationship!  

Kelsey Crawford – Is from the Atlanta area where she lives full time as a lady. She’s hard working and has principles. She’s sweet and loving for the most part ready to share a smile to anybody that needs one. Get on her good side and you will have a friend for life. Hurt her friend’s or family and she will feed you to the sharks. She didn’t earn that nickname for no reason. She can be a little flirtatious at times but don’t take it to far as she as she conducts herself as a lady.

Kensie – While surfing the internet for information on Cross-country Skiing, the irrepressible Kensie was delighted to find she’d stumbled upon Crossdresser Heaven.  Two years later she’s still reading everything she can find in the forums and articles.  Of an afternoon or evening, she can usually be spotted in the chatrooms bantering with members and guests and finding ways to help them discover their way through the complex website or adjust to the complications of their feminine roles as well as offering hints on walking safely in high heels.  Be sure to say hi!

MacKenzie Alexandra currently lives in Southern Maryland, but still considers Michigan home.  She has been dressing on and mostly off since her teens, but has recently decided to embrace all of who she is.  With the blessing and support of her loving wife, she is exploring the balance between her femininity and masculinity.  She may not know where this journey will take her, but she is going to enjoy the adventure.

Rachel K – Coming to us from the Great Lakes State of Michigan, Rachel admits to having been a crossdresser for more than 40 years.  Not long ago, she joined Crossdresser Heaven, hoping to learn more about herself and her femininity.  In good time, her growing understanding and confidence caused her to proclaim, “I found that Rachel is my balance in life, that I was not alone, and there were ladies here who cared.”  Known as “Special K’, she is a welcome and wonderfully helpful addition to the ambassador corps.

Rachel Rose – She resides in Massachusetts and has been dressing en femme since age 7, started dressing fully at age 27 and never looked back. She found CDH searching the internet and found a warm inviting place for the wide spectrum of the transgender community.

Rhonda Roe A lifetime Midwest Girl, Rhonda grew up in Iowa on a Farm.  She moved to Kansas City Missouri in 1980.  Coming to crossdressing rather late in life, she was in her late 40`s before taking that fateful step.  Of her style, she says, “I am an all or nothing dresser. When I dress it`s the works; makeup, clothes, shoes, wig, etc.”  When going out, she mostly sticks to known safe venues with others like herself.  She is quite happy on the CD/TG/TS spectrum in the “gender fluid” zone, comfortable in both male and female modes, and has no plans to go full time or transition.  An outdoors girl, she’s a short drive from the city to Lake of the Ozarks and the beautiful clear spring-fed rivers in Southern Missouri.

Captain Dionysus – Is a student of mythology and psychology. Taking from both, Cap sees gender as a frontier, rich with history and potential, from the ancient and more recent tribal shaman who identified as both sexes to where we are today and beyond. Cap is also the Managing Editor at CDH, who wants your writing, and who you can contact with any questions or concerns about articles.

Samantha – Hails from Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. She has been crossdressing since age 12 with off and on activity till she was age 27 when she first fully dressed. After that she knew it was going to be a lifelong obsession. Tries to dress several times a month but sometimes life gets in the way. No worries though, her sense of humor gets her through just about anything. Has the box set of all the Monty Python episodes too.

Stephanie Q – Is an electronics engineer from San Diego CA, She is a techie who crossdresses a few times a month. Stephanie was a DJ in her younger years. She likes hard science fiction novels, Star Wars and Star Trek. She has fun writing open source software and designing open source hardware. Stephanie is also very interested in how the universe works, and would like to know why it is fine-tuned for life.

Vanessa – Founder of Crossdresser Heaven and dubbed OB1 and Fearless Leader by the Ambassadors. Reluctant growing amateur tech guru. She is a transgender girl from Seattle, WA who lives every day as her true self.


New Zealand (Aotearoa)

Sarah Daniels  – Sarah is 47, an Electrical Fitter, a petrol head, a Wannabe writer and a husband. She’s a fantasy and sci-fi fiend and will read or watch almost anything from those genres. Sarah is a closeted CD, but slowly stepping out of that boundary (early days yet) but has been dressing for as long as she can recall (since 5 or 6) in one way or another. “I’m not sure the title CD fits or that of TG; I’m somewhere in the middle and tend to float back and forth as my mood dictates.” She lives in Canterbury, New Zealand with her wife (who knows about her CDing but not about Sarah – sadly it’s a long slow road to acceptance).



In Her Majesty’s Service

Crossdressing in the United KingdomSue Barnes – has been crossdressing on and off since the age of 8 or 9. Born in London, she now lives in Hertfordshire in the UK. She feels that she’s been helped enormously by being a member at CDH, and is very keen to help others in a similar way. If you see her in chat, please say hello and feel free to ask questions.

Deety (DT) – Currently residing in the beautiful English countryside Deety or DT stands for Dejah Thoris, Princess of Mars, and a Hitch-Hiker of the Galaxy.  Cross dressing in secret since time immemorial, she was very much the original Girl in the Closet until she found this site.  After more than seventy years the girl inside has now been seen outside much to her own astonishment.                                                                                                                           Representing that great swathe of hidden crossdressers who have little opportunity to dress and little hope of ever transitioning she is committed to bringing the fun and magic to those who have been trammelled and condemned by a judgemental society.                                                                                                                                                          Possessing no special skills or talents she is just happy to help anyone achieve self-acceptance and understanding of what it is to be a contented crossdresser today.


Oh Canada!!!

Crossdressers in Canada

Krista –   is from northern Alberta (near Mile 0 of the Alaska Highway). She loves being retired and crossdresses daily. Full-time Volunteer: CDH of course, Library Board Vice-Chair, President of ProBus Club, Chamber of Commerce member, and helps her wife with her international short film festival. Krista had a heart attack in May, 2016 so is now more physically fit (exercising three times a day) and cooking healthy meals. She loves her supportive wife, two kids, granddaughter, dog, Rocky Mountain hiking trips and her Corvette (wishing she could drive it more but it doesn’t do well in the six months of ice & snow).

Sherri King – Lives in a small resort town (Grand Bend) in SW Ont. , Canada and everyone here knows or knows of Sherri. She started dressing around 9-10 and going out in public when she was 18. She has been active in the T community all her life and have founded and ran a support site in London, Ont.  years ago.  She goes and does everything femme and like most have had her ups and downs, but is a survivor. She has always likes helping new girls out as she remembers how very hard it was for her. She has taken quite a few new girls out for their first time.

Stephanie Flowers – From the province of Ontario  , and only now discovering  crossdressing late in her 50’s . A lover of the outdoors , and enjoys photography. Family of 4 kids , 6 grandkids and a loving and supportive wife. Only started dressing most recently and now has reached  fully dressed with makeup and final touches still ahead . Still learning and exploring the journeys  that is laid before her with little hope for transitioning in these years of  life . A shy and quiet girl , A { Flower Child } in ways but always trying to help many looking for guidance and in turn searching for her feminine paths and ways . To understand her feelings and seek the answers as she continues forward. For all CDH has given her, all the more she wants  to give back, to welcome love ones to a community that loves and cares to all that passes. Being a CDer  is a wonderful state of  mine and balance  now and the future to hold these lifelong dreams and follow a passion she  loves.




When selecting Ambassadors we look for members who have demonstrated empathy, who are active in the community and who will provide a welcoming environment for everyone who joins the Crossdresser Heaven Community. We would also love to add more geographic diversity to our team of Ambassadors – here’s looking at you Ireland, New Zealand, Canada, South Africa, India and others! If you think you have what it takes please contact Codille.

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  1. Emily 1 year ago

    The ambassador concept is excellent.In the USA we had a former President who said that the greatest fear you face is fear itself. Several years ago a fellow TRI-ESS member went with me for my 1st journey in to a regular restaurant. Needed that boost & discovered that nobody else really noticed or cared about me. My fear was the greatest obstacle and now when I go out (a lot) I just consider myself to be a woman and conduct myself accordingly.
    Still needed that 1st boost and you are performing an essential service as TRI-ESS appears to be defunct .
    Keep up the good work!

  2. bizarresuzanne 1 year ago

    I was particularly struck by the profile of ambassador “Paige Turner” who had been a caregiver for two now deceased wives…as have I been.
    There is some empathy there…though my first was mentally ill (bipolar and suicidal) the second had been in show business, loved costumes and makeup…and would dress for pleasure (in the bedroom) with and for me.
    Given that I’m now “older than dirt” (sighs) I do not dress as often as used to…though the mind is willing, the body sometimes protests!
    Of course, like most of us here, I would love to find that mature female partner who is at minimum accepting of the idea of crossdressing – that “special someone” who would enjoy the fascinating world of dressing as lovely gurls together…
    I am the Very Erotic “Snow-Queen of Tarts” Suzanne LeBizarre – wicked grins, and NO, its NOT drugs!

  3. SusieQue 1 year ago

    Greetings, Ladies!! I am a 65 year old married crossdresser. I told my wife about my love of feminine clothing shortly after we started dating. She was very supportive until about 15 years ago. we have been married for 30+ years. I have been out a few times while dressed up. we had a girls day out on our honeymoon, but I was too self conscious to take full advantage of the day by going shopping which my wife wanted to do. because of her change of heart, I don’t dress up very often, but do wear pantyhose or thigh-hi’s every day. I have a weak heart so my doctor wrote me a perscription for compression hose. I wear them under shorts in the summer and keep my legs shaved at all times. I have not had any negative feedback from anyone, even in this small Arkansas town that we live in (small as in everyone knows everyone). i try to get a mani / pedi at least once a month. don’t you just love the way painted toenails look under sheer nylons? The last time I went out fully dressed was about 5 years ago in Biloxi, MS. I can still recall the feeling of my full chiffon skirt swirling around my nylon covered legs and heels clicking on the sidewalk as I walked to Hard Rock casino, the memory still gives me a little shiver when I think about it. I am glad that I found this website!!!

  4. Alice 1 year ago

    It is wonderful to have so many nice ladies reaching out to help. I have been hiding my desire for over 50 years. I would like to learn from your experience. My desire to be a woman increases with age. I am having my first appointment with a Psychiatrist in a few weeks. I am anxious, though not excessively. As a Chinese from a very conservative family and a wife who is a Psychiatric Nurse and who hates seeing me in female clothing. I am somewhat struggling. Thanks. Looking forward to learning from everyone. Is there any Chinese member too?

  5. anne 2 years ago

    i live mylife, the best i can.
    i struggel and help, my fello man.
    iam pushed and shoved.into dispare.
    yet still i live, with love and care.
    i choose to live, with pease in mind
    for i am a transgender, that will not hide.
    respect and love, is all i seek.
    i have serched too long, and now i am week.
    my mind confused,my though tall stured.
    i fought the fight, and i have been heard
    i leave the world, these wordsi write.
    to give you the courage, to fight the fight.

  6. Alyssa 2 years ago

    Is there anyone in georgia that wouldn’t mind meeting me and helping me dress up to go out my first time en femme? I work hard to support my wife and three beautiful children. We get by okay, but I feel guilty even thinking of buying “feminine” things for myself when sometimes buying new clothes for the kids puts a financial burden on us. I’m not asking for money, just for someone show me the ropes with their things, because I will not take money away from the needs/ wants of my family for my selfish desires. When I was young I could not wait to move out on my own so I could have a private place to dress as a woman and not have to worry about my brothers or parents catching me in the high heels and makeup I’d borrowed from my mother while everyone was gone. I could not wait to buy my own house and stock it with all the makeup, wig, shoes and clothes a girl could ever need. I thought of this often, while dressed en femme and even more when I wasn’t. I longed to have the chance to look in the mirror and have a girl looking back at me, but though out my youth and even until now, I never got to see that reflection. I met the mother of my children and instantly fell in love,and got her pregnant. We moved in together shortly afterward and have shared a home, bed, and closet for almost seven years now. I never got that crossdressing bachelors pad I’d dreamt of for so long. I never bought those heels I wanted so bad that actually fit me (unlike mothers). I have tried to share my passion for crossdressing with my wife, but she wants no part of it. It disgusts her, she “married a man, not a woman”. Granted, that on occasion she has put lipstick on me or painted my toes, and I love when she does, I am always left wanting more. Wishing she will one day want to see the girl I’d imagined myself , being in the mirror. I breaks my heart knowing that ! I, /may never get the chance to actually be completely dressed from heels and long brown curls to hose, a short dress and makeup. Im so grateful for my little family, and I wouldnt trade them for the world, but I have to hide this part of myself 99.9% of the time and it is killing me. I just want the chance to be a woman for a day be proud of it. I’m afraid it is just never going to happen, and deep down it is killing me

    • Missie 2 years ago

      Hello Alyssa
      Just ran across your message from a month ago.
      Contact is not possible but can direct you in the right way to go if you would like two.
      Understand how you don’t feel right using money for your CD when your family need the money more.
      Your children should not know about this right know.
      Its going to take showing your wife that you can be the guy she married who just enjoy Bing a girl on occasion.
      The author Peggy Rudd explains CD in her books. Avable on Think you can look at part of the book on line before you buy it.
      On You Tube. The movie Just Like a Woman is very good. You may ask you wife two view it with you some night after the kids have gown to bead.
      Your wife needs to keep an open mind about your dressing. At least she does help you. That real good. Its best to as your wife when you want to be Alyssa in some way.
      For the most part you can you can start wearing underwear. Panties or camies some time stockings. This will keep your CD under control. Only try make up when four family is out of the house. Just make Shure you get it all off before they come home. Baby oil is great for removing make up.
      how do you like CDH ? thinking of joining.
      Best For You and your family
      Mary Christmas

  7. Cynthia Elaine 2 years ago

    Sure is a good sized list of jobs here keeping this site functioning continueously.

  8. Marisa McGregor 2 years ago

    Hi ladies! Just joined cdh. Vanessa real encouraging. Am 59 years old and live in Arkansas.severe mental illness since childhood my not making a career for myself. Please don’t ask me about this as it depresses handwriting style is feminine and have volunteered in nonprofits where members were female. Have crossdressed once and went out. had my makeovers i enjoyed. I like women a whole lot more than men. I never had an early desire to dress nor am experienced. Love white gogo boots! Mark/Marisa.

  9. Maria Young 2 years ago

    Hi girls you all look great I feel like I look kinda ok I’m trying to improve I’ve dressed since I can remember really but just getting back to trying to go fulltime again I’ve had some rough patches but I’m sure a lot of you have too I need to color my hair again I’m still new to doing my make up right but I can’t hardly afford new make-up trying to build a wardrobe but it’s not going anywhere currently I think I’ve discovered my inner woman always knew finally convinced myself it was time after losing my wife to illness after a 6 year struggle caring for her that was almost 3 years ago now trying to keep moving forward well I’ve given a little history too much to tell but I Love to talk now doing my best to become the woman’s know I am truly am

  10. Angel 2 years ago

    Dear Ladies:

    My name is Glen but my Femme name is “Angel”. I like to thank you all who have welcomed me to this group.
    Also, I am happy to learn that 2 of the Ambassadors here are from Australia (Jane and Maxine) because my late Mother
    was from Perth, Western Australia as well as my maternal Grandmother and Uncle, I was born in Vallejo, California
    but live in Portland, Oregon. I have been a CD since a young child. I am 48 and hoping to transition fully
    but I am only just starting with “Gender counseling” as I got to go along with that (To make THEM sure that I am “Mentally Competent ”
    to make this choice BEFORE my insurance will pay for it. Anyway, I am very happy to be a part of Crossdresser Heaven.

  11. Renee T. 2 years ago

    Sounds like a interesting group.

  12. JaniceTRider 2 years ago

    Forums question…. How do I delete a reply I made in the forums? Help appreciated thnx

  13. Annie 2 years ago

    Website is not really working. Cant send a message I need girl talk ASAP

  14. Erica 3 years ago

    I just love being a girl!

  15. Louise 3 years ago

    Hi girls.I am a CD from a small town in french Canada near Montreal. I would so love to keep in touch and meet others like myself.
    I am 63 and have dressed in the closet since I was 8 or 9…….

  16. johngordon 3 years ago

    Want to meet all of you.

  17. Caren 3 years ago

    Ladies if I can help you in any way know that I will help

  18. Zoe Wood 3 years ago

    Hi Vanessa,its a great idea,t should help newcomers chose an Ambassador suitable for them. XX

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