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Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "To Pass or not to pass, that is the question!" – 4 months ago
Passing is highly overrated. When you are successful in passing you’re running the risk of being discovered and the consequences that come from people who don’t like to be deceived. Particularly men. It’s far better that you don’t pass…. Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "To Pass or not to pass, that is the question!" – 4 months ago
Passing is highly overrated. When you are successful in passing you’re running the risk of being discovered and the consequences that come from people who don’t like to be deceived. Particularly men. It’s far better that you don’t pass…. Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Are you Proud to be a Crossdresser?" – 4 months ago
Ashamed? Proud? Not really either. I guess you could say that I was indifferent. My feelings about being a cross-dresser or trans, are about the same as my having hazel eyes or brown (ash blonde) hair. It just is… that… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Are you Proud to be a Crossdresser?" – 4 months ago
Ashamed? Proud? Not really either. I guess you could say that I was indifferent. My feelings about being a cross-dresser or trans, are about the same as my having hazel eyes or brown (ash blonde) hair. It just is… that… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife" – 4 months ago
Hi, I understand your reasoning, but I’m not sure I agree with it. I wish I had told my fiancée, but I was somehow under the delusion that once I was married, my wife would provide all the feminine needed… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife" – 4 months ago
Hi, I understand your reasoning, but I’m not sure I agree with it. I wish I had told my fiancée, but I was somehow under the delusion that once I was married, my wife would provide all the feminine needed… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Cross Dressing Deep In A Closet. (Trying to find the light switch)" – 4 months ago
Hi, Cross-dressing has never cost me a relationship, but only because my wife lacked the confidence to be a single mother when she caught me dressed in her clothes. (BTW that’s not a good way to come out to your… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "Cross Dressing Deep In A Closet. (Trying to find the light switch)" – 4 months ago
Hi, Cross-dressing has never cost me a relationship, but only because my wife lacked the confidence to be a single mother when she caught me dressed in her clothes. (BTW that’s not a good way to come out to your… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "What Drives Our Need To Be Out In Public?" – 4 months ago
Speaking for myself, I think what drives me is the need for acceptance. The need to know that others see me as just another person and not a freak. To that end, I’ve decided that passing is not the goal…. Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "What Drives Our Need To Be Out In Public?" – 4 months ago
Speaking for myself, I think what drives me is the need for acceptance. The need to know that others see me as just another person and not a freak. To that end, I’ve decided that passing is not the goal…. Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "New year, New job, and New direction" – 4 months ago
Amen to that sister. My wife of 51 years has know about me for the last 46. It was quite a shock to her, but she hung in and now accepts that I’m trans, even if she isn’t enthusiastic about… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "New year, New job, and New direction" – 4 months ago
Amen to that sister. My wife of 51 years has know about me for the last 46. It was quite a shock to her, but she hung in and now accepts that I’m trans, even if she isn’t enthusiastic about… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "A Magical Day" – 4 months ago
Hi, I’m sure most of us have longed for a friend that we could just be ourselves around and do the things women do together, like lunch and shopping. I love your story. Many times I’ve pondered just how to… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "A Magical Day" – 4 months ago
Hi, I’m sure most of us have longed for a friend that we could just be ourselves around and do the things women do together, like lunch and shopping. I love your story. Many times I’ve pondered just how to… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Clothes From Chinese Companies Online" – 4 months ago
I do most of my shopping in person. We live near a large metropolitan city and I just go to Penneys or Sears. Both store have no trouble with me trying on before I buy. Sometimes, I’ll buy online from… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Clothes From Chinese Companies Online" – 4 months ago
I do most of my shopping in person. We live near a large metropolitan city and I just go to Penneys or Sears. Both store have no trouble with me trying on before I buy. Sometimes, I’ll buy online from… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "A Memorable Visit to the Doctor’s Office" – 4 months ago
Hi, I’ve been under-dressing (bra with small forms and panties) for years. I used to worry what my doctor would think about my transgender expression and kept that one pair of men’s underwear for doctor visits. Then I ended up… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "A Memorable Visit to the Doctor’s Office" – 4 months ago
Hi, I’ve been under-dressing (bra with small forms and panties) for years. I used to worry what my doctor would think about my transgender expression and kept that one pair of men’s underwear for doctor visits. Then I ended up… Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen replied to the topic "My 1st time in public" – 4 months ago
OK, I’ll admit it, I’m jealous. While my wife tries, she has a hard time with anyone, even strangers know she’s married to a cross-dresser. I’ll have to write about my first time out sometime. Looking back, it was funny…. Read more»
Patricia Marie Allen posted a new topic "Silence is Golden" – 4 months ago
Silence is Golden Patricia Marie Allen’s Story My oldest sibling is my sister, ten years my senior. Next in line is my brother, eight years older. Then my next sister, five years older. Finally me. You might notice two gaps… Read more»
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