Good for you Charlotte, that’s what I found out when I finally went fully out. No one cares. Today I returned an item to Torrid and Macy’s. At Torrid the girl waiting on my told me she loved wearing seersucker clothing too. I engaged her in conversation about how I love their shoes and I don’t for a minute sound like a female. She told me I look wonderful and enjoy the day. So enjoy expanding your boundaries outside your home and you will enjoy each time you go out.
I love this!
Sometimes it feels like a brag, that women (almost always women) compliment me on my appearance – it’s meant to be encouragement from real life, and I am so glad you have reported the same kind of experience!
I think more people get what we do – and love it – than don’t get it and hate it.
There is a minority of the latter, for sure, but as long as there are plenty of the former, if you want to go out, then do so, and love the experience! Haters gonna hate. Their loss.