Hello to all thank you for all your support and encouragement, it has been wonderful having such a warm welcoming and such a great support group. You all eased the process. Now I would like to give you all an update to my situation…
October 30th was my coming out party, now it’s November 9th and after coming out and having a couple of intense arguments with my family about my new identity and respective life choices, my wife took back her ultimatum to take her and my children out of my life if I started dressing like a woman in public, and is now saying if it is what I want to do she is fine with it so long as I keep it a secret from my children and her family and she doesn’t have to see me that way and she doesn’t hear talk of it around town, “for my sake and the sake of my family”, since we are moving from Accepting California to Old fashion Missouri in 3 days time and moving in with her family’s house they are not exactly the most accepting of people (a little racist and very homophobic, anti trans and very strongly opinionated). I feel very distraught because all my efforts to become brave enough to come out was all for not now that I have to put my new found self back in a box in the closet to only see the light of day when no one is home and won’t be for hours, or in public far far away from the house so long as I change after leaving the house and before I get back and with no one they know so it doesn’t get back to her family. That whole concept strips the legitimacy of my decision to be who I really am and my sexual and gender identity. I would appreciate feedback, and thanks again in advance for your time, comments and support.
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