I’m big (230lb) and LOVE Bali’s “Skimp Scamp” briefs. Plenty of room for my junk because the have a wide gusset and they are stretch microfibers. They’re wonderful.
So if you want to get back into some actual women’s wear, I can guarantee you’ll fit into these. I wear them everywhere. I don’t get any satisfaction wearing “panties” made for men. Might just as well wear mens’ stuff.