Hi Jackie, I wear my plain gold band from our wedding in 1974. I also wear a Hawaiian Heirloom wedding band that has my bride’s Hawaiian name, “Kepola”, etched around the band. When Kathy has a chance to get all dolled up I remove the original wedding bands and wear a costume jewelry wedding set. They make my hands look more feminine, especially if I paint my nails. I cannot go out and about as Kathy, due to the dreaded facial hair that wifey insists I keep. I would , for sure wear the wedding set if I could share Kathy with the world. They would make a statement that I am not available, just in case I might draw an admirer’s attention.