This question deserves more of a thoughtful response than I can muster at the moment, but I, too have had similar questions. I think in all honesty, the 2 “selves” can co-exist. Wendy can discuss riding and working on track-day motorcycles easily, as long as other girls are also keenly interested. After all, there are plenty of GG’s at the track as well.
I’m interested in any and all thoughts on this!