Great point and thank you for sharing! I think it is probably easy to use the generic arguments “women can do whatever they want” or “it’s just clothes” when feeling frustrated. It’s so much more than clothes and flipping a switch to understand and embrace these changes. Coming out after a long time raises so many thoughts and feelings that have little to nothing to do with the desire to wear women’s clothing. Do I know this person? Did I ever know this person? What does all this mean and what will the future bring? It also forces us to take a hard look at ourselves which can be difficult as well.