Hi Linda you make some very interesting and thought provoking points. While your thoughts may not fit each and every situation, since no two relationships are exactly the same. I believe what we should all take away from this is, our first priority is our relationship with our SO. We are together because of mutual love and respect. My SOs feelings and happiness are considered before I make any decision that would effect the both of us. We are a team and as such, not baring forgetfulness or an occasional oopsy we discuss all matters of any importance which would naturally include my crossdressing.
But as far as your point 3.
“3. Your SO thought she had the man of her dreams, the man she truly loved. In reality, she got you and your “girl friend”. So instead of the two you, there is the three of you.”
I know for a fact my wife most certainly only sees two of us as a married couple (who have now been happily married for many years). There is no third person in our relationship. For anyone who has not read my posts, and maybe my situation may be somewhat unique, my wife was the one who introduced me to crossdressing before we were married. The idea of crossdressing had never really entered my mind one way or another before meeting my wife. She picked out my first panties, women’s jeans, yoga pants, heels shape ware etc. I own no male marketed clothing below the waist save for one suit one pair of boxer briefs and a tux for formal occasions. My wife prefers me dressed at least to some degree 24/7. She very cutely pouts and pretends to be sad if I’m not. Even though I primarily underdress outside the home, I also proudly carry a handbag, with my wife’s blessing, wherever I go.
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