Reply To: Ever Been Confronted In The Ladies Room..? What Did You Do?

[Barb Encourt]

As stated a few times above it’s important to be confident in one’s presentation, even if there’s a good chance someone will see through you.
Own your femininity.
Also need to be careful when there are children in the restroom in some states or towns.
I have been out for a few years and I regularly use female restrooms with only one problem so far.
Recently at a regular upmarket restaurant bar I went into ladies room when all of a sudden a guy started shouting loudly that there is a man in the ladies restroom.
He was also holding the door open and calling out to his daughter to get out of the restroom.
Daughter was totally confused and shouted back that there was no problem.
I was in a stall but I decided to abort my mission and get out to face whatever was going on outside.
All this happened within a minute or two but by the time I had my panties back in place etc,the guy and his daughter were disappearing from view.
A manager apologized profusely as I am a regular customer and they know me well at the restaurant.
All ended well and the furore quickly died down.
I assured them there was no problem from my side but that episode made me more aware and careful when using the ladies restroom.
It also reminded me that we are still dealing with people out there who are either ignorant or bigoted or both.
The guy had obviously been watching me all along as we ate.

• This reply was modified 1 year ago by Barb Encourt.