do you plan on going out en femme any time during the rest of the year?

just a fun inquiry...

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    • #564701
      Peggy Sue Williams
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      I go out en femme about about twice a week.  Sometimes I meet my wife for lunch or dinner, but most of the time I am out in public by myself at various public events or just doing everyday shopping and errands.  Occasionally, I will meet with a local girl or one passing through the area.

      I would greatly enjoy getting together with more of the girls here on CDH.  Age limits me to day time travel, and I am not into the bar and club scene.  However, if someone needs a drink to relax, I have no problem sitting in a bar.

      Feel free to contact me, if you live in the Atlanta, Cobb county, Marietta, Georgia area or you are passing through the area.

       

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    • #563805
      Robin Roxbury
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      My wife wants to plan a weekend for us to go away so she can get used to Robin, we are planning on attending Keystone in March of next year and she doesn’t want that to be her first extended experience with Robin.

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    • #563122
      Brittney Andrews
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      I belong to a CD/TG support group and we have meetings every 2nd and 4th Monday of the month; the second of the month is this coming Monday. I complete my en fem dressing at the meeting location.

      Since June of this year, I’ve been going to an LGBTQAI?+ bar dressed en fem by myself once or twice a month. Thankfully I’ve been taken in by the other patrons, so I don’t feel like I’m “by myself”. I’m hoping to go this next Thursday evening.

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      Coral Wentworth
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      I am going to a Gay/Trans club in the next town which is a college town and more accepting than the one I live in. Are there any girls from the NorCal area interested in meeting up for Halloween? I don’t much like going alone.  

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      Lynda Jones
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      Tonight, I am passing through Denver CO. Tonight I having a makeover and outing to Italian restaurant.

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      Lynda Jones
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      Tonight, I am passing through Denver CO. Tonight I having a makeover and outing to Italian restaurant.

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      Charlotte Walker
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      Going out on my own for a drive full Charlotte.

      XX

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      Mary Priscilla
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      I had to respond “Maybe” as it depends on where I might go and if I can rely on a male friend to act as my escort. I am not normally paranoid, but there are simply too many crazies out there who need to make a political or social statement with a gun or their fists. Regardless, my preference would be to stay local in the suburbs and avoid the downtown area (Portland, OR) for right now.

      Hugs,

      MP

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      • #561810
        Adeline J
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        Mary-

        Portland is having a rough go right now, with protests, the homeless, etc. I personally do not feel the need to go downtown or Lloyd District for anything. But going to outer SE, or pretty much anywhere in the suburbs I feel safe and welcomed. I go out completely dressed, including a mask, which helps in identifying as a woman. The ONLY good thing about Covid in my mind.

        I’m older, so less intimidated by people smirking and laughing. And it happens incredibly rarely. Some guys will look at you funny. Most folk won’t even think about you at all. Women will give you compliments.  It’s Portland, it’s weird. We like it that way.

        A couple of suggestions for places to go:

        Birdie Time Pub and Mini Golf
        https://birdietimepub.com/
        Wife and I had a gno there a few weeks ago. Nice cider list, huge beer list, be we aren’t beer drinkers. The golf was fun.

        The Pumpkin Patch on Sauvie Island
        https://www.thepumpkinpatch.com/
        Wife, daughter and I went there for adult daughter’s birthday. A couple of women commented on how nice I looked. No one else even noticed.

        Dave and Busters (Clackamas)
        https://www.daveandbusters.com/locations/happy-valley-clackamas
        They are pretty close, so we have been there a couple of times. No one noticed or if they did they didn’t care. Fun time.

        Every Goodwill store in the Portland Metro area.
        We go out to one every Wednesday evening. Why then? 25% off for seniors.

        One place we used to like to go was Ground Kontrol. But they are in old town, and I wouldn’t even go there in guy mode carrying a gun.

        I hope you can get out and enjoy your femme side.

        Adeline

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    • #561627
      Emily
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      I try to get out 2-3 times a week. Sometimes shopping, sometimes just for a walk. Sadly, I go alone as I have nobody close by to go out with. But, alone is better than not at all for me!
      Thanks for the question!

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    • #561622
      Rayna Carlian
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      Going to the Diva Las Vegas event at the end of October…

      Can’t wait to spend a few days in Vegas!! Not to mention Halloween in Vegas!!

      Let’s go girls!

      XOXO

      Rayna

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      • #563806
        BillieJay
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        we’re hoping to see you over the three days we’re there!

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          Rayna Carlian
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          Looking forward to it!!!

          XOXO

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    • #561464
      Barb Wire
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      Hi Billiejay:

      I went out yesterday night in my LBD, HUE 100 denier black tights (getting cold in Ontario), cute hiking boots, my granny’s pearls, a light windbreaker, plus enough make up to scare my mirror.

      Despite all the security cameras in my condo, I just walked right out like it was nothing, except my heart was going pretty good. Not one person looked at me. Kinda disappointing, really. After all that trouble!

      Just before I went out, I was having a nice private chat with one of our more well know ladies and I got much confidence to just go for it! What the hell.

      So, I walked for a bit along a park path feeling the gentle cool wind wrap around my legs. Even opened my coat to reveal granny’s pearls. Had a nice sit down on a bench and admired at the night sky. (Okay, maybe I was a bit bad and had a smoke too. Best smoke ever! Yeah, yeah, not good for me. Got it.)

      It was a very nice and liberating feeling! Going out again tomorrow night. Looks like the weather will be warmer and I may just wear my heels!

      FYI, my condo is attached to a tourist area and folks come and go all the time. I think this is an advantage for this clandestine crossdresser.

      Cheers,

      Barb :B

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    • #561444
      Paula F
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      I am going out on only days that end in ‘Y’.

      PaulaF

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    • #561200
      Micah Bauman
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      Oh yes! Starting with dinner nights out on Halloween weekend in Palm Springs- my first times out as true self. Can’t wait!

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        BillieJay
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        my first time was with Amanda, two years ago…

        I’ll show you the picture sometime…

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          Micah Bauman
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          Thanks- looking forward to it!

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      Abbie Normal
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      Would love to but the opportunities aren’t there yet. Also with the vaccine passports required for events and restaurants where I live I don’t know what kind of hassles I’d have looking like Abbie instead of my ID. I hope it’s soon though.

      Good luck to all the ladies who are getting out, I wish I was there too!

      — Abbie 🥰

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    • #561181
      Bianca Everdene
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      Maybe🥴

      Christmas night out with work colleagues. Told 3 about my plan so far, two are supportive saying YOLO, one quiet on the matter🥴 Only nineteen more to tell!!!

      Still not sure if I’m going but got a gorgeous dress anyway🤣

      Really want to do it but don’t want to make anybody feel uncomfortable.

      ❤️Bianca

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    • #561159
      Brielle Ross
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      We have two local CD/TG groups nearby – I already went Saturday to my first meetup GNO and had a great time (see my wall) and just joined another group in Butler, PA which is about a half hour away too.

      On Oct. 30, the meetup group has scheduled a stroll in Riverside Park in PGH with coffee/snack after. So, getting more active outside these four walls and LOVING the freedom!

      P.S. my wife said I looked cute this weekend, so got a nice bonus!

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      Dawn Wyvern
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      I often have days and nights out with my TG friends and occasionally on my own when traveling – I have a fab partner and we have lots of days out together … so I posted ‘other’ as its a regular occurrence.

      Dawn x

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        BillieJay
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        I’d think that would be “yes”

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    • #561113
      Debbie Lynn
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      Oh Yes! I go out regularly. Just last evening went to the market in heels, skinny jeans, tight mock turtleneck, all blingy with bracelets, necklace. Makeup of course! This is Me! Hugs, Debbie Lynn

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    • #561047
      JOJO
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      Yes, especially with Halloween coming up. I am getting  my French Maid costume ready for the big night.

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    • #561016
      Ambermaria Martinez
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      Absolutely yes on HOLLOWEEN and the. Whole week after that I’ll be on vacation and going shopping for my new dresses for upcoming holiday season so so excited for it to Can’t wait

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      Courtney Leshea
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      I generally go out alone, headed to publics in a little while.

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    • #560861
      Kara Sumtymes
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      Oh,,, yes!!! I am not really sure of all the details at this moment,,, but,,, it will include Kara,,, being out & about all,,, dolled up lol 👠💕🎀👍 if anyone who has read anything I have been writing here & there,, so to speak, they might know of a little bit of what I have been going through with my time of,,, being able to,,, well,,, being out & about as,,, Kara!! Anyone who’s reading this now,,, As soon as The time comes when I do,,,, get to take my so called Adventure to being OUT!!!! I will definitely start to write more of the details even my outfit I will be wearing & where I will be heading out to,, so stay tuned lol & if anyone is from the N.Y. / Long Island area,,, do send me a message,,, but,,,, please have a profile with at least a picture of yourself and,,, have your profile filled out,,, it does Help out,,, Kara 👠

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    • #560855
      Heather Jameson
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      Yes, finally. I have a group of friends and we get together a few times a year but with all the restrictions we haven’t been able to but I was talking to a few of them the other day and our annual Christmas get together is a go. Very excited about it and already trying to figure out what to wear.

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      Jin Crocker
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      My wife and I have a double-date with two cute guys from her work next weekend!

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    • #560750
      Stephaniewy
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      The down side of living in a small town.  Planning on going south in the camper for a while and hope to spend many days en femme.  Some trips with my SO and some solo.

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    • #560628
      Amy Myers
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      I certainly am! I am going to a Halloween party as Cleopatra, but with a dinner before hand. Then another dinner in a couple of weeks, and a weekend away at a hotel all en femme for a few days!

      So, you bet I’ll be out lots in the next few months.

      Amy

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      • #560642
        BillieJay
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        you can’t be the Queen in Denial!

        I am!

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        • #561046
          Amy Myers
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          Am I missing something? I don’t understand your post, I am certainly not in denial as to who I am. On Halloween I’m going to be Queen of the Nile!

          Just did a near full dress up. Still don’t have the right wig, and need to figure out the makeup.

          This is a GNO event, but the way.

          Amy

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    • #560608
      Cassie Jayson
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      Well of course yes. Already planning a night out for Halloween. Also have been trying to go out once a week or at least every other week, depending on if I can get out.
      . . . Cassie

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      karley delaware
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      Yes………….around Halloween, my cover being “going to a party”……………..

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    • #560459
      Raquel Smith
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      BillieJay,

      Been planning a solo night out for months since my wife announced a trip to visit a friend in New York. She leaves this coming Thursday.

      It’ll be my first real night out in my hometown. There is a gay bar that is purported to be accepting of all that I plan on going to.

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        Alice Black
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        Raquel,

        I am in same boat as you. I am waiting for wife to go away. She keeps planning trips with gfs that get aborted usually due to her lack of money. So I am a maybe.

        Alice Black

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        Raquel Smith
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        Looking for girls in the Birmingham, AL area who might be interested in meeting for cocktails this weekend.

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