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- September 19, 2021 at 1:30 am #545288
Morning ladies,
Im am aware I’ve not been very active here the last few months. This is because I’ve been spending my CDH time on dating apps. During this time I’ve spoken to 7 guys seriously 3 just want one thing, 1 stood me up and 3 I had failed for other reasons.
This leads me to today. I have a date, with a man, this evening and it looks line this one is going to happen. Im all prepared. Had a bath to shave last night, got my outfit ready, a gorgeous black and gold playsuit and my 4″ suade boots . Will upload pics of it it later. All thats is left is a short shift at work and a tram ride. Will let you all know how it goes tonight. Im hoping it’ll end in a kiss.
This will be my first date as Trisha and my first date with a man. Im slightly teary right now as loneliness is the main thing that made me change. I’m hoping my lonely days are over.
Update; I would love to say i had a fabulous time and that we kissed and had chemistry, but I can’t. He was a no show. Im royally p****d off and upset. I’ll survive as I’ve been though worse. All this effort for nothing.
Love Trisha
- This topic was modified 2 years ago by Trisha Lilly Hibbert.
- September 19, 2021 at 2:09 am #545295
Go for it Trisha!
Details girl, details!
I am so happy foe you. Also, maybe a bit jealous.
Diane
- September 19, 2021 at 3:41 am #545323
Okay Trisha, come clean.
I am so rooting for you.
Diane
- September 19, 2021 at 3:23 pm #545547
He was a no show honey. No more details needed. I wish it wasn’t the case.
- September 19, 2021 at 4:41 pm #545577
A no show? That’s awful.
Trisha, was there a phone call or even a text? Just to not show up is gross rudeness.
I know you are disappointed and maybe even hurt. You need to just go on. Tisha, I don’t know you but live your life and be you.
With the warmest of support,
Diane
- September 19, 2021 at 5:09 pm #545582
So sorry Trisha, I hope he had the decency to call or text as Diane asked… you have friends and support here at CDH…
Regards, Leonara
- September 19, 2021 at 2:33 am #545299
Trisha, loneliness can really suck.
Have fun! Be your lovely self! Most importantly, be happy!
Stevie ❤
- September 19, 2021 at 3:09 am #545305
Good luck Trisha.Please be careful
- September 19, 2021 at 3:53 am #545325
Congrats, Trisha, I hope all goes/went well.
Just please be careful, and have fun
Hugs, Regi💕👸 - September 19, 2021 at 4:26 am #545328
It makes me happy and slightly envious to read about your date night this morning. Really hope it went went well for you. XOXO
- September 19, 2021 at 6:55 am #545371Anonymous
Tisha,
I hope you had a great time. I hope their is a second date.
- September 19, 2021 at 7:03 am #545374
Well I surely hope it goes well, we all deserve some happiness in life.
Bridgette
- September 19, 2021 at 7:37 am #545382
Congrats girl on taking this next big step on your journey. It is only a date so if it doesnt work out dont be discouraged. Many more will follow
- September 19, 2021 at 8:01 am #545389
Congrats Trisha cant test to the loneloiness as been married for 38 years now to a wonderful supportive wife but we all deserve some love and pampering .. You go girl and have fun just be your self and it will go great ..
P.S. forgot the loneliness from no girlfriends before i joined here will never be lonely again ..
Stephanie Bass
- September 19, 2021 at 8:05 am #545391Anonymous
Trisha…
I just hope it’s everything that you want it to be…. loneliness is a terrible thing. it can really effect us especially….. simply because of the way we live our lives….
dry those eyes….it’s killing your mascara!!!!.
have a blast honey….but stay safe…. Grace xxx
- September 19, 2021 at 9:03 am #545399
Hi Ladies im just on my way to meet him. Thank you for all you messages of support. Will post pictures of how I look forward now.
- September 19, 2021 at 9:20 am #545412Anonymous
Congrats Trisha on doing your first date. Hope all is good with it. Remember mine once it was like the 4th of July. Wonderful and had so much fun.
Hugs
Donna
- September 19, 2021 at 3:30 pm #545552
Hi Trisha,
So sorry things didn’t work out.
Alice
- September 19, 2021 at 5:49 pm #545599Anonymous
Sorry Trisha was a no show did he leave a number or something would leave a rude text for not showing up or even a clue on why he couldn’t make it. Well learned his true colors faster then normal let him go be plenty others. That will be more then happy to go out with you. Believe me been there done that.
Be strong Trisha
Big Hugs
Donna
- September 19, 2021 at 6:13 pm #545603
Sorry for you Trisha his sad fortune as plenty mor fish in the sea if you like fish ha ha hugs girlfriend ..
Stephanie Bass
- September 19, 2021 at 7:36 pm #545652Anonymous
Trisha, I am so sorry this guy was an ass. Don’t let in bum you out. Their are nice guys out there. You will find one. I have been very lucky with my picks. They are both great guys.
- September 19, 2021 at 8:04 pm #545658
I’m so sorry for you! Hopefully you will find a better guy sooner rather than later.
Amy
- September 20, 2021 at 1:56 am #545730
“If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” An oldie but a goodie.
Hugs and kisses,
Fredrika- September 20, 2021 at 2:26 pm #545935
I’ve decided to refine any future searches on aps to bi/pan/ gay. Hopefully this will help.
- September 20, 2021 at 3:47 am #545753Anonymous
Keep your chin up, Trisha. I’ve never used a dating app, so I can’t say I know what you’re going through. I’m assuming you to dress and go out en femme, so maybe there’s the positive. 🥲
- September 20, 2021 at 3:55 pm #545954
Hang in there honey it will happen. Took me a while to get it going . But the real one is out there. Love Debra
- September 21, 2021 at 5:14 am #546102
Sorry to hear of the no-show Trisha. So difficult to get any sort of date it seems, I have been ghosted so many times that I just assume that is normal. With any luck you’ll find someone soon.
- September 23, 2021 at 4:38 am #547043
Don’t give up hon. The odds against on-line dating actually working are pretty high. Go to a CD friendly club and meet real people, mingle and let yourself be seen. Be patient and believe that the person you are looking for IS out there, and he is looking for you also. But you have to be there.
Technology is good for some things, but not everything.
PaulaF
- September 20, 2021 at 2:24 pm #545934
I might need to fill the near by pond. These frogs are becoming a nuisance.
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