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    • #545288

      Morning ladies,

      Im am aware I’ve not been very active here the last few months. This is because I’ve been spending my CDH time on dating apps. During this time I’ve spoken to 7 guys seriously 3 just want one thing, 1 stood me up and 3 I had failed for other reasons.

      This leads me to today. I have a date, with a man, this evening and it looks line this one is going to happen. Im all prepared. Had a bath to shave last night, got my outfit ready, a gorgeous black and gold playsuit and my 4″ suade boots . Will upload pics of it it later. All thats is left is a short shift at work and a tram ride. Will let you all know how it goes tonight. Im hoping it’ll end in a kiss.

      This will be my first date as Trisha and my first date with a man. Im slightly teary right now as loneliness is the main thing that made me change. I’m hoping my lonely days are over.

      Update; I would love to say i had a fabulous time and that we kissed and had chemistry, but I can’t. He was a no show. Im royally p****d off and upset. I’ll survive as I’ve been though worse. All this effort for nothing.

      Love Trisha

    • #545295

      Go for it Trisha!

      Details girl, details!

      I am so happy foe you. Also, maybe a bit jealous.

      Diane

      • #545323

        Okay Trisha, come clean.

        I am so rooting for you.

        Diane

        • #545547

          He was a no show honey. No more details needed. I wish it wasn’t the case.

          • #545577

            A no show? That’s awful.

            Trisha, was there a phone call or even a text? Just to not show up is gross rudeness.

            I know you are disappointed and maybe even hurt. You need to just go on. Tisha, I don’t know you but live your life and be you.

            With the warmest of support,

            Diane

             

             

             

             

             

          • #545582
            Leonara
            Ambassador

            So sorry Trisha, I hope he had the decency to call or text as Diane asked… you have friends and support here at CDH…
            Regards, Leonara

    • #545299
      Stevie Steiner
      Managing Ambassador

      Trisha, loneliness can really suck.

      Have fun!  Be your lovely self!  Most importantly, be happy!

      Stevie ❤

    • #545305
      Kathleen
      Duchess

      Good luck Trisha.Please be careful

    • #545325

      Congrats, Trisha, I hope all goes/went well.
      Just please be careful, and have fun
      Hugs, Regi💕👸

    • #545328

      It makes me happy and slightly envious to read about your date night this morning. Really hope it went went well for you. XOXO

    • #545371
      Anonymous

      Tisha,

      I hope you had a great time.  I hope their is a second date.

    • #545374

      Well I surely hope it goes well, we all deserve some happiness in life.

      Bridgette

    • #545382

      Congrats girl on taking this next big step on your journey. It is only a date so if it doesnt work out dont be discouraged. Many more will follow

    • #545389

      Congrats Trisha cant test to the loneloiness as been married for 38 years now to a wonderful supportive wife  but we all deserve some love and pampering .. You go girl and have fun just be your self and it will go great ..

      P.S.  forgot the loneliness from no girlfriends before i joined here will never be lonely again ..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #545391
      Anonymous

      Trisha…

      I just hope it’s everything that you want it to be…. loneliness is a terrible thing. it can really effect us especially….. simply because of the way we live our lives….

      dry those eyes….it’s killing your mascara!!!!.

      have a blast honey….but stay safe…. Grace xxx

    • #545399

      Hi Ladies im just on my way to meet him. Thank you for all you messages of support. Will post pictures of how I look forward now.

    • #545412
      Anonymous

      Congrats Trisha on  doing  your first date.  Hope all is good with it. Remember mine once it was like the 4th of July. Wonderful and had so much fun.

      Hugs

      Donna

    • #545552

      Hi Trisha,

      So sorry things didn’t work out.

      Alice

    • #545599
      Anonymous

      Sorry Trisha was a no show did he leave a number or something would leave a rude text for not showing up or even a clue on why he couldn’t make it.  Well learned his true colors faster then normal let him go be plenty others. That will be more then happy to go out with you. Believe me been there done that.

      Be strong Trisha

      Big Hugs

      Donna

      • #545932

        Had his number text him a few times, rang him twice no response.

        • #545969
          Anonymous

          avoiding you I see. Would forget him trisha  he a total loser.

          Hugs
          Donna

    • #545603

      Sorry for you Trisha his sad fortune as plenty mor fish in the sea if you like fish ha ha hugs girlfriend ..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #545652
      Anonymous

      Trisha, I am so sorry this guy was an ass.  Don’t let in bum you out.  Their are nice guys out there.  You will find one.  I have been very lucky with my picks.  They are both great guys.

    • #545658
      Amy Myers
      Baroness

      I’m so sorry for you! Hopefully you will find a better guy sooner rather than later.

      Amy

    • #545730

      “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” An oldie but a goodie.

      Hugs and kisses,
      Fredrika

      • #545935

        I’ve decided to refine any future searches on aps to bi/pan/ gay. Hopefully this will help.

    • #545753
      Anonymous

      Keep your chin up, Trisha. I’ve never used a dating app, so I can’t say I know what you’re going through. I’m assuming you to dress and go out en femme, so maybe there’s the positive. 🥲

    • #545954

      Hang in there honey it will happen. Took me a while to get it going . But the real one is out there. Love Debra

    • #546102

      Sorry to hear of the no-show Trisha. So difficult to get any sort of date it seems, I have been ghosted so many times that I just assume that is normal. With any luck you’ll find someone soon.

    • #547043

      Don’t give up hon.  The odds against on-line dating actually working are pretty high.  Go to a CD friendly club and meet real people, mingle and let yourself be seen.  Be patient and believe that the person you are looking for IS out there, and he is looking for you also.  But you have to be there.

      Technology is good for some things, but not everything.

      PaulaF

    • #545934

      I might need to fill the near by pond. These frogs are becoming a nuisance.

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