Has your SO ever raided your closet

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    Brianna Lynch
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    This is the other side of borrowing things . Do you have something that your SO needs to borrow to complete their outfit

    My SO borrows my stuff all the time and never returns them , I have to hunt them down and when she is asked about this she says” I just needed it ” and walks away lol . Have fun girls .

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     Emily 
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    She has asked a few times to borrow things, but we are vastly different sizes. Also, different tastes. She did ask for a dragonfly necklace that I had because she loves dragonflies. I gave it to her, but I don’t think she’s ever worn it

    She does however, periodically go through my closet and drawers. What she’s looking for, I don’t know. I don’t hide anything anymore. It’s all put away as it should be, but not hidden. I only know she’s been looking because I have a bit of an OCD issues about neatness and my closet and drawers are always tidy. Not so much when she’s done snooping.

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     MarthaLouise 
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    I am single and have not had that problem!

     

    But it might be fun to see!

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     Gina Sinclair 
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    I wish I had a SO that would raid my closet of girly things , so I would not have to hide all of it

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     Tiffanee Thomas 
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    My SO and I are forever on the hunt for clothes together. But if she gets a particular item for herself it’s off limits till shes worn it once.we compliment each other like peanut butter and jelly.i wouldn’t have it any other way..only downside is we have 3 huge closets and a full bedroom turned into another boutique like setting with dual vanities..I know, what’s the downside? Laundry and stuff getting put back.looks like a tornado hit…lol

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     Toni Marx 
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    Because I sort of go for the quasi goth rock chick look, my S O is forever borrowing my stuff as she’s into the same genres of music. Thank God my shoes are two sizes too big otherwise there would be war!!😂😂 But tops are generally offered when she can’t make up her mind as to what she wants to wear and they’re always returned. Funny thing is, I regard her clothes as untouchable and would never ask to wear anything of hers.

    BUT…….stepdaughter and her friends were major pillagers of my stuff. Fair do’s in a way, because they did influence Toni in looking more real, ooooh, jeggings were a BIG style choice for me once I discovered them!

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       Donna James 
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      Jeggings Toni love them and goth stuff Siouxsie, the mission etc sorry probably before your time.

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     *skippy1965(Cynthia) 
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    Not my SO but my sis borrows all the time!
    Cyn

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     sarasue olson 
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    Great question. Many years ago when my wife and I were about the same size she asked to borrow my blue Pendelton skirt and blazer also A white satin blouse for A business trip to Washington D C. She did return them pressed and cleaned, also included A very nice full slip as A thank you  for their use.

    Sarasue

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     Caty Ryan 
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    No!

     

    1/. We are totally different sizes and 2/ altho she knows about Caty she definitely does not approve of her man being a CD.

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     rebekka moore 
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    I’m always concerned that I will come home some day, and all my gurl clothes will have been taken out and thrown on the bed or floor.

    I “hide” things, the more gurly things, panties, bras, hose but not thoroughly.  I leave things “in plain sight”, as it were.  If she were to open a drawer or two, she would see them.

    I hope that never happens however.

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     Imogen Mann 
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    No, my SO’s are always large ladies although not so tall as me, so our clothing is incompatible, and to be honest.. Our styles were different anyway.

     

    Imogen

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Imogen , thank you for your reply . I think it is good to have a variety in style and one type compliments the other .Please have a safe and happy Easter Holiday sister

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Olivia Livin 
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    My gf and I share quite a bit. I have a significantly larger selection of bras to choose from. What fits toyt on me fits her loosely and vice versa, just the way we each prefer it. Our style choices are different too, so if we’re going out somewhere nice, my closet is the one of choice for tops and some dresses, my skirts are way too risque for her too wear lol. I do borrow some of her nicer leggings and other than a few fav pairs of panties we each have its just one large drawer to choose from.

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Olivia , thank you for your response , sounds like you two have a great balance working . I wish my relationship was like yours .

      Embrace and enjoy sister and I wish you two sunny days and happiness

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Gwenn Liefde 
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    Being a GG and a supportive wife, I’ve never borrowed my hubbie’s Fem clothes without first asking, and Visa Versa. I let her borrow some of my things from time to time. Offer up things and also given her things too.  Ironically enough, we are close to the same size.  We have clear boundaries and try to stick with them, this way it eliminates any fighting or frustration.  Life is hard enough without having to worry about “where is that teal dress with the leaf print on it?” only to find that you’re SO wore it on you and it’s in the laundry.  We don’t share makeup, but do have some things that aren’t hers or mine, it’s ours. For example: we use the same shampoo, shaving gel, body moisturizer, but have our own razor, facial wash, etc. We have learned to find a happy middle.

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       Gwenn Liefde 
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      No specific written list. We both have our own sides of the closet, drawers in the bathroom cabinet, etc.  Just verbal communication and a respect for each other and each others things.

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         Michelle Liefde 
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        Gwenn and I both work to communicate with each other and to respect boundaries.

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         Brianna Lynch 
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        Hey Gwenn , thank you again for your reply . I agree with you , repect for self and other is a must , and communication is very key to a relationship , even in the tougher of times . Please have a safe and happy Easter Holliday

        Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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           Gwenn Liefde 
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          Thanks! Happy Easter to you too.

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Gwenn , thank you for your reply . Looks like you two have most of the logistics worked out. Is ther a list of general guidlines that you two could share so  others might use as a starting point to refine their own. Not trying to get too personal , but in some cases all advice is apreceated .

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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    Ha, yes, but unfortunately perhaps in a sort-of passive-aggressive way. After I came out to her last year she poked around and found all my stuff and stole my favorite make-up. Then, one day, I noticed she was wearing my bra. We’re mostly the same size, but she obviously has a larger cup size, so I still don’t quite understand why she took it.

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Kristen , thank you for your reply . Two things come to mind , 1 – maybe she was looking for a response from you ? , 2 – maybe you are expanding her fashion senses ? . Either way sister it sounds like you have a great thing developing between you both , embrace and enjoy sister :-))

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Laura Lovett 
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    She’s had pairs of tights from me many times, but apart from those, my stuff won’t fit her as we’re very different shapes.

    She’s put her stuff on me a very few times though, which was fun!

    Love Laura

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Laura , thank you for your reply . Sounds like you and your wife understand the true meaning of “ours” instead of “yours”  & “mine” , it is great that you both share with best intentions involved , enjoy and embrace this sister

      Huggs. , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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         Laura Lovett 
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        We do have an understanding, but it’s quite hard to balance the needs.

        She doesn’t want a husband who cross dresses, but she’s got one and doesn’t want to get rid of him.

        I don’t want to deny my own freedom of expression, as I’ve found it’s not just my style that’s cramped, it’s my entire being.

        There are many things that I might want to change about her, but she’s the woman I promised to stay with for better or worse, etc, and I keep my promises.

        You never know where the journey will take you, but if you feel you’re going through Hell, then keep going!

        Love Laura

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           Brianna Lynch 
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          Hey Laura , thank you for your reply . Your relationship rings home at multipl places . Hang in there sister , there is always a solution

          Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Ellie87 Pinsk 
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    Shes taken panties leggings, jewelry, shirts, Dont mind though.

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Ellie thank you for your reply. Wish you a happy sunny day

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Falecia McGuire 
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    OMG!  Would I ever love it if my wife would wear anything of mine!  We are much different in size, but things like tights, leggings, pantyhose, some tops, and accessories would work for either of us.  The thrill of her acknowledgement of my feminine selection would be overwhelming.  We were going on a trip recently, and she needed pantyhose in a particular shade.  For years, I have been hoarding on-sale PH that I’ve found in both our sizes.  But, I didn’t offer this option because it was not the right moment for her to accept wearing hose she knew I purchased as part of my CD inclinations.  We are now downsizing and I know that I have many outfits she might like, but I have the same dilemma.  Can she handle wearing MY girl clothes?  If I could just figure out the best way to get her on board, we could have so much fun.  Wish us luck!

    FAM

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Felicia , only you know when the moment is wright , and that moment will happen . Be patient and stay strong sister

      And thank you for your reply

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Ashley Elizabeth 
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    My so prefers to raid my drab / male clothes… it is those I can never find or when I do they are usually  hanging in her closet.   My Fem clothing – well those had to leave the house a while back 🙁    Sounds like my wife is very similar to Gaby’s wife… Cd’ing is something she refuses to accept.

    Ashley

     

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Ashley, thank you for your reply . Idea for you , if you fit her sizes then you raid her closet . If she remarks then tell her ” well I got to ware something ” , but don’t let me get you into trouble

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Paula1 
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    My wife will use my makeup and anything in the bathroom, I also have a great selection of tights that are in packets that she will always go for, as to my cloths she is a size 8 and I am  much larger so they are safe

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Paula1 , thank you for your reply , this might be an opportunity to see what style of hose or tights that your wife likes and don’t like , then you can stock up on yours or help her expand her fashion desires lol

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Carolyne Sherman 
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    My wifey has only swiped a scarf or 2. We are drastically different sizes and nothing else compatible. She doesn’t wear makeup or jewelry unless its a very special occasion so no worries there. In a way kind of sad as maybe if we had things to share she would accept it a bit more. Way back yonder before we married we did each others makeup and went out a couple of times and even shared some clothes. Big sigh…. those days are gone!

    🍷C

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Carolyne , thank you for your reply . An idea for .you , if your wife likes light sweters or shawls b this might help . The answer you are seeking will come to you , watch for small details signals from her

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Davina Evans 
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    Not yet, but my wardrobe is getting bigger, so…….

    Davina

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Davina , an apollogy to you , disregard the privios response , the translator did not spell correctly , I am retyping to you .

      Thank you for your reply . you will know when you are in a hurry and looking for that perfect piece to complete your outfit but can’t find it , only to turn and see her warring it

      Again my appologies for the miss spell earlier

      Huggs , your sister Brianna A Lynch

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Davina thank you for your reply , you will defiantly know if you two are simmilr size , when you are in a bit of a hurry and just can’t find that one perv is price for your outfit only to turn around and see her with it , lol

      Huggs , your sister Brianna A Lynch

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    My wife has borrowed a top or cami when she needs to and we actually buy guys razors that she uses she like them better. Thankfully she doesn’t wear make up I wish she would though, so I don’t worry about her using mine. I’m somewhat taller and skinnier so she can’t wear much.

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Ivy thank you for your reply . An idea for you , when the timing is wright a complimenting suggestion of a touch to high lite may your wife’s featurs might be accepted by your wife .

      Huggs , your sister , Brianna A Lynch

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     Marianne 
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    No, my wife won’t touch my things with a pair of pliers. Not that she could fit into them anyway. I, on the other hand can still eear her prom and wedding dresses. She doesn’t use makeup either, so mine is out of danger.

    Marianne

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Marianne , thank you for your response , most of the makeup is yours and her closet fits you = you are a lucky girl lol . hope your day was well , and thank you for your reply

      Huggs , your sister Brianna A Lynch

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     Gabriela 
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    Nope. Different sizes, and she would rather die than asking to borrow anything of mine.

    She is an amazing woman, and a wonderful wife. But CDing is just not something that she can accept.

    Gaby ♥

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Hey Gabriela , thank you for your reply , on the bright side , you don’t have to look for that perfect part of your atire only to find her warring it lol , and it probably let’s you get ready alot quicker then me . Have a blessed day sister

      Huggs Bri

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    My SO has never ‘raided’ my clothes—-too big—and not her style….BUT SHE IS ALWAYS raiding my make-up !!!   The real good stuff or stuff I’m low on, I have to HIDE it !!!  She also uses my shaving gel, my moisturizer, my primer, anything under the bathroom sink she considers fair game………along with the pink shavers !!!  When I complain……………”oh so sorry baby, you should share with me”……….and I melt like a coward !!!

    Mikki

     

     

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       Brianna Lynch 
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      Thank you for your reply Nikki , I know exactly what you are saying sister. I have even been in some frustration trying to find ” that perfic set of earrings ” that I’ve misplced somewhere only to have her enter the house with them on lol . Wish you luck and hang in there sister :-))

      Huggs , your sister Brianna A Lynch

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