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Hello Everyone, My name is Brandi and I am so excited to be part of a community that is so warm and welcoming. But to be totally honest, I am a little apprehensive to be putting myself out there so publicly for the first time EVER. Writing this public post is proving to be even harder than coming out recently to my wife of over 40 years.For years, I’ve wanted someone to share with and talk to about the urges and feelings that I never understood or could never shake. Having read so many posts before writing my own introduction, I feel like this will be a great place to share my deepest thoughts and insecurities and feel completely safe in doing so. So here goes…. While I am new to this community, I am certainly not new to CDing. My journey began 60 years ago due to an older brother and sister who liked to dress me up in Mom’s undergarments and clothing. Little did any of us know that the urges and impulses for dressing in women’s clothing that I developed would not only NOT go away but would only grow much much stronger over time.
Until recently, for all my life, my CDing has been restricted to the privacy and secrecy of my home. Only a few months ago, I was able to summon the courage to tell my beautiful wife of 43 years. Her reaction and support has been nothing short of amazing. And while she has been very supportive, she understandably has some reservations and questions that we are working through.
Neither of us want to jeopardize the beautiful marriage we have or the wonderful life we’ve built together – which includes three beautiful children and four wonderful grandchildren. We are deeply committed to one another and to making this work. However, we realize we have much work ahead of us. I Love my wife and the physicality we share. I have no interest in transitioning or even doing hair and make up at this time. The thrill and joy I get from CD ing comes from dressing completely as a woman from the neck down. It includes undergarments as well as lingerie and skirts, dresses, blouses, tops, pants, leggings, etc. With the help of my wife, I recently bought my first pair of women’s shoes. I can’t even begin to describe the thrill and excitement I experienced when putting them on for the first time. It may sound silly but for me it was the one item that kept me from feeling like I was totally dressed like the woman I always wanted to be.
While I have no plans to go any more public with my secret than with you ladies and my loving wife, I am really looking forward to sharing more with you and learning from you all as well. Hugs! Brandi
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