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Hi everyone I am a 40 year old closet CD, perhaps identifying as pan-sexual or bisexual….I am really not sure as I feel I am only now this late in life starting to open up and admit to myself that the way I am that I have been since a young age is not wrong and in fact is who I am. I have never opened up to anyone about my desire to CD or my sexuality as I grew up in a close minded and abusive environment…but I am just tired of keeping it to myself.
I am here (finally) hoping to find like minded people who I can be open with and not worry about it. Anyway hope everyone is well and I look forward to chatting with you in the future.
BTW I am in GTA area, Ontario, Canada.
April – yes, not only does it feel great, it feels…You! Welcome to this world, our world. For some? Most? The sexuality is a part of it. I am not sure if it’s a total “catch up” or why so often it’s expressed with frantic hunger. But, let it be you. I would love to see an open discussion on this in one of the Forums?
We cannot change the past – it’s done. Not necessarily behind you as we are a composite of experiences.
My (unsolicited) advice is when it counts, be true to you.kate
Hi April, Welcome. 40 you say, you’re still a young’un. LOL. I’m glad you decided to open up. I was an off and on closet CD for many, many years finally coming out in my early 50s (I’m now 65, retired, and loving life). CDH is full of very supportive, friendly people, you’ve done well coming here. Before I tried this website I was on another CD site that was full of trolls and I was harassed by men wanting to date me notwithstanding I told them I was married and not interested (I quickly left that website and have been very happy to be a member here). I grew up in GTA moving to Alberta over 40 years ago. There are a lot of CD services in the Toronto area (much more than in my small rural community). It is pretty easy to find other members who are in the GTA by searching on CDH. If you need help, just let me know. All the Best April.
Hugs, KristaApril,
I too, as I’m sure many of us spent may years in denial of the person we truly are. I too grew up in a closed minded abusive home. So I pretty much thought that there was something wrong with me. But as I got older (and wiser) I did realize that there was nothing wrong with me, I’m just me. So I’m also pretty new to exploring who I as well. Joining CDH, was one of the best things I’ve done in my quest. You’ll find lots of wonderful ladies just like you, so you’re not alone in your journey.
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Cassandra
April
Wonderful having you and to welcome another Canadian girl from Ontario. Express yourself with complete confinance. Here our ladies are so understanding and very supportive. Meet with some of them and enjoy their help and most of all acceptance to make your time here such a wonderful experience. Making friendships is so much fun and know there’s always someone here to talk to and to listen when needed. Happy to meet you and hope to see you sometime here soon. Hugs
Stephanie 🌹
Hi April, Teralynn here. Welcome to CDH. Glad you found us! Here April can be as “open” as she wants to be. You will find the members of CDH are friendly, accepting and supportive. You can ask questions, get tips, share experiences, make a few friends and a whole lot more. So I do hope you will fully explore the site and take advantage of all it has to offer. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. Send me a private message or post something on my home profile page wall and I will respond to you. – Blessings
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