Improving relationship with mom

[cdheaven]

I really want to improve my mum she has being very disappointed in my cross dressing since she caught me she’s saying how she has lost her son.

how I I reconcile with her and mend our relationship?

[ANDREA RAVEN]

Hi Lilley, this is a difficult one, and something I have not had to confront. I dressed in secret for years (and still do), I was always confident that my Mum didn’t know, but looking back, I feel sure she did know or at least suspect, I was a crossdresser. Sadly Mum passed away before I ever had the chance to talk to her about it. I know she wouldn’t have been too happy, but I believe she would have been supportive. If you can, I would suggest you try to talk to your Mum, try and explain you’re still the same person you always was, it’s just that there is a side to you she didn’t know about. The fact that she caught you, has not helped but I’m sure your Mum loves you, as you clearly love her, so there must be a way.

Andrea xx

[Edie Majeski]

Like some wives, some mothers will never approve of their son crossdressing. My mother never approved of my crossdressing no matter how hard I tried to explain my need to look feminine. Now that I’m 65, I just know that she will still not approve.  All I can suggest is try to be a good son to her because that’s what she most likely want from you.

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