My next mission?

[Deanna Lund]

Girls,

It was a week ago tomorrow that I had my first outing by most of your standards it was a disaster but for me it was magical. I have decided to try to do an outing esch week. My plan for tomorrow is to have breakfast at a restaurant.

I have been looking at women out and about and most of them, at least in ordinary places, are not feminine at all. T-shirts, shorts, flip-flops, scowls are the order of the day. I want to look like a girl not a man with long hair.

[Amy Myers]

Good for you going out every week. Just make sure that the area you plan to be in is accepting, likely you won’t have any problems, even if you do get the odd look.

I too am looking at women differently, I mean as a hetro guy, I find most women attractive, but just what is it that makes me make that almost instant judgement that the person in front of me is female? Usually its’ the shape of the thighs, but not always. Interesting study for those of us with a desire to pass as female.

I wish you well with your outings. Wish I had the courage to do the same.

Amy

[Deanna Lund]

In her book Baby StepsIn Sky High HeelsCiCi agrees with Stephanie P, in fact CiCi goes further stating that CDs will NEVER pass as women. That is a bold, and I think incorrect statement. I have seen a number of girls on CDH who imho are beautiful women. I don’t know how close an inspection they could survive and i certainly would not survive more than a cursory glance. I suppose that somewhere in my personality may be a latent ‘exhibitionist’. But, it seems to me that girls get noticed for several reasons: 1-a natural beauty-I have seen a few girls who have a natural beauty. Without makeup they draw my attention. I will never be that girl. 2-women who when made up draw my attention. It almost feels like a hunger. The model in a breastform ad on CDH, the one with the woman reclining on her stomach is an example. I might get my eyes madeup well enough to look like hers. But likely i won’t.I note that i have known women who are unreconizable without makeup. 3-some women seem to go out of their way to not appear as women. Normally they do not get noticed though i have been noticing them for their unwomanly appearance. Wrapping this up, I do mybest to be pretty when i am out, pretty in the context of where I am and where i am going. My first time out was too soon. I rushed it, but in doing so, I learned a lot and am improving. I sincerely doubt i will ever pass and suspect i will get a second look and get noticed but isn’t that what the girls in the second category above want?

Maybe someone will see me and think, ”that’s a guy, but SHE doesn’t look bad!” OK,a girl can dream can’t she?

Live the best life you can while you can!
If that means dressing in your home and you enjoy that – great! If you don’t dress but just post on CDH fantastic! You want to dance in the moonlight dressed in panties and a bra?-that’s beautuful.
Just be you and love it!

Luv
D

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