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    • #708908
      Jess
      Lady

      Unsure of what I’m supposed to say, but new to cross dressing or as my family wants me to cease at once. Just wanted to talk to someone about it.

    • #708916

      Hi Jessica nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With so much to see and do here like reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jessica as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you ..  Just do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thankyou.. So once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #708919
      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual

      Jessica,

      Welcome to CDH. We are so happy to have you here! One thing you will find here are plenty of sisters willing to listen and support you on your journey. I recognize you are new to this world, and just figuring things out. Many of us either have asked or are asking the same questions. And the answer may not be the same for everyone. Just know you are welcome here, and we only want to offer support and to help you along your journey!

      Erika

    • #708921

      Hi Jessica, and welcome to a place where you can make friends and share your cares and concerns. I know I have! I understand how hard it can be to try to discover your feminine side when you are confronted by opposition, especially from family. When I returned to crossdressing after a very long absence I told my wife and family about it right up front. After some awkward moments, everyone came to realize that essentially nothing had changed I was still me, in fact I was even more caring and loving. In the final analysis, only you can decide if it is the right thing to do. If it is causing major issues in your family life you may want to try to find other outlets or perhaps be discrete (though I personally dislike hiding things from family). However, if you are doing it because you feel it is important to explore your feminine nature, (especially if it is more than just a sexual thing) then as the line from Shakespeare goes, “To thine own-self be true”. I will be anxious to hear how things go. Hugs, Paulette

      • #708931
        Jess
        Lady

        I really do want to push past the walls with my family, especially my wife in the spectrum of just wanting to express myself how I want, but she scares me emotionally. It doesn’t help that my childhood was full of a very difficult time since they either didn’t know or even just care to find out that I was autistic, and that trauma followed me. I feel the same thing with her when it comes to dressing up and just really hurts to not be able to do anything. Happier note, I really like your hair.

    • #708933

      Hi Jessica,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

    • #708937
      Anonymous

      You come to the right place. It’s not your parents to say how you live life you have to decide. When you try to live like others want it just tears into you and you regret it. Find yourself and bring it out and live your life. I have been full time since I was 9 till now at 62. I have never regretted it and love it. Come on in and get to know the girls

    • #708950

      Hello Jessica
      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you will be able to exchange opinions and information and find support to go forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I’m Greta, a 56-year-old CD/TG person (I’m taking my first steps in HRT); with a life a little complicated by having to hide my gender identity for too long ….. when I’m alone at home and I know I have no guests I’m Greta, if I’m at work or I have guests at home I’m Greta dressed in unisex clothing outwardly like Mr. Antonio but wearing my women’s underwear of course.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

      p. s.
      If it makes you feel good, continue.
      If you’re happy when you’re enfemme, continue your journey of self-discovery.
      A journey that is not always easy because not all the people around you will understand, find your balance and travel!

    • #708965

      Hey, I am in the same situation except I haven’t come out as a cross dresser to my adult daughter. My wife has said she never wants to know, so she doesnt.

    • #708982

      Hello Jessica welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

    • #709010
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      Jessica

      happy you found us. Browse our site and start enjoying all that we are about. The ladies here are wonderful and love to talk and offer help and advice if needed and always here just to listen if one wishes. In time make lasting friendships and know we’re always here to share each other’s experiences in our love for dressing. Very nice meeting and love to chat anytime.

       

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

       

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