no one cares about what you wear

[Kelly Lee]

I have no interest/plans on going full time dressed but for reasons I wrote in another post about coping with my wife’s sickness I have been dressing a lot and I’m now out to just about everyone, at least I’m not hiding it from anyone.

At first I did “warn” some people before meeting them but now I don’t even do that. It is coming health care workers, delivery people, internet repair support and so on and I just meet them dressed. No one ever said anything or even looked like they felt uncomfy seeing me, they at most take a second look, maybe more because even when casual I’m way over jeans and t-shirt.

I guess it all depends on where you live and who you socialise with but I guess what I want to say is that you don’t need to be afraid, the risk that you get beaten up is less than the risk that you enjoy it.

/kt

[Kelly Lee]

[quote quote=665316]If you’re in a place that has no LBGTG legal protections you can be fired from your job.[/quote]
Sounds like a bad place to live in, but then I know that in lots of places in US you can be fired for any or no reason at all, some “at will” employment.

/kt

• This reply was modified 1 year ago by Kelly Lee.

[Cassie Jayson]

Kelly, you are right most people don’t care, so you be you. I don’t think most of us have to be worried about being beat up, UNLESS we go to certain areas and some places at night.
. Cassie

[Michelle Byee]

It is sad that there are communities that allow something like that to happen.
If you live in a community like that, I feel really sad for you and pray that something will change.

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