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- April 2, 2023 at 7:00 am #729141
Hi I am Shannon. 61 Mtf. Secretly dressing on and off for years. It comes in waves. Feel need to be feminine. Wife doesn’t know
- April 2, 2023 at 7:46 am #729153
Welcome to CDH , know how you feel only difference is my wife knows and understands , I can go weeks with out the need to c/d then its every night till the feeling goes .
- April 2, 2023 at 7:53 am #729155
I’m Gwyneth. I’m in the same situation as you. The likely divorce would be much too costly for me, so I’m deep in the closet. So you aren’t alone.
- April 2, 2023 at 7:54 am #729157Anonymous
Welcome! No need to be nervous. All of us have been in the same place and felt the same things as you are feeling right now. Learn to relax and enjoy this part of yourself.
- April 2, 2023 at 8:07 am #729160
Welcome to CDH Shannon, it’s understandable for you to be nervous but there’s no need for that here, come on in and make yourself at home.
- April 2, 2023 at 8:16 am #729167
Good Sunday Shannon!
You advanced in your MTF experience by joining CDH; good for you! You’ll receive here support, understanding, empathy (already seen in comments) and public pictures to enjoy and learn from. Chat and chat for CD and Trans conversations. When you’re ready, could you add to your Profile? Your wife most likely won’t find out and you’ll give ladies additional info about Shannon. Nervousness understood. Welcome and enjoy! 🌹Connie
- April 2, 2023 at 8:17 am #729169
Thank you all so much for the kind words and support. It is comforting to know that I am not alone and can start to express how I feel. I do find this strange and difficult but I am trying. The secrecy sometimes guilt.
I do feel like the feminine me when dressed. I am feeling a deep strong pull in this phase. Scary and exciting
Thanks for the support
- April 2, 2023 at 8:36 am #729173
Shannon welcome, never feel afraid or nervous about who you feel you’ll wanted to be here with us all. Many here are in the same way and have in time learned that there’s nothing to be worry about. The girls here are wonderful in making one feel most comfortable and welcome. The support is always felt and help to better understand and deal with this amazing time. Chat with and with some make beautiful friendships . Your not alone and here express yourself with pride and confinance to explore further in this wonderful world. Happy to meet you and hope to see you around here soon. Hugs!
Stephanie 🌹
- April 2, 2023 at 10:48 am #729215
Hi Shannon, and welcome to a place where you can make new friends and share in your experiences. It has been that for me. I am a bit older than you, and have only been back crossdressing for about six years after a long absence. But I can say when I returned it was with a new-found resolve that I did not care who knows about my ‘past-time’ unless it causes serious harm in our relationship. I told my wife right up front and after some awkward moments she is now on-board to the point where she is very aware of my activities, and even occasionally takes part in them. I hope to hear more from you. Hugs, Paulette
- April 2, 2023 at 12:05 pm #729227
Shannon my situation is similar to yours I also have not told my dear wife about my desire to wear women’s clothing. This forum is incredible the information you will get from the lovely ladies here is incredibly helpful.
- April 2, 2023 at 1:31 pm #729253
Hello Shannon,
Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.
At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM). You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.
Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.
Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.
****** https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/
Regards,
Terri Anne, Ambassador
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- April 2, 2023 at 2:08 pm #729282
To all have given me support and warm feelings today my first day here I thank you. It may sound corny but it has been one of my most uplifting days in quite some time. Hopefully this is the start of some real growth for me. I do I some things to work out but today went so much better than I could have imagined. Only regret I didn’t find you all sooner.
Much love Shannon
- April 2, 2023 at 3:11 pm #729291
Hi Shannon,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
- April 2, 2023 at 4:31 pm #729303
Hi Shannon,
There’s no need to be nervous, you’re in a welcoming and safe place. We’ve all been where you are, so we know how it feels. I believe you’re going to love it here!
Hugs, Jill
- April 2, 2023 at 6:55 pm #729330
I’m in a similar situation. 49. Secret dresser. Started as a kid with moms and it was dormant for a long time. Came back strong once I hit 40. Been a challenge keeping her under wraps
- April 2, 2023 at 7:34 pm #729336
Hi Shannon nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Shannon as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks .. So once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
- April 2, 2023 at 7:43 pm #729337
Shannon:
You have made a very important next step in joining in here. It takes no small amount of nerve to even tell others online about what you are feeling and to express what you may wish to do in the future. Many, any of us are in situations similar to yours: that we enjoy things that we are not able to share with our wives. You are not alone!
Let me also encourage you to join the chat group when oy have time. My own personal experience is testimony to how meaningful the support expressed can be. There is much we all share and you will, I am certain, gain from the visits.
I – like all the others here – will do anything to help.
Victoria
- April 3, 2023 at 1:35 am #729363
Ride the wild surf, Shannon! Glad you’re here!
Hugs & kisses,
W. - April 3, 2023 at 2:02 am #729374
Hi Shannon welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m still in the closet to my wife too, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
- April 5, 2023 at 10:55 pm #730036
Hello Shannon welcome to CDH I am glad you found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!
Hugs April
- April 5, 2023 at 11:06 pm #730037
Hi Shannon nice to meet you! I am very much in the same boat as you, only found the courage to join this site yesterday. Very nervous too. Maybe we can share our journey together.
Im mid 60s, been dressing in secret off and on since I was 11. Married for 22 years, wife most definitely does not know and never will if I can help it as I’d then be an ex husband!
But welcome to this great site, I’ve already nade a few friends. Looking forward to getting to know you.
Much love
Helen xx
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