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A Transgender Wife and a Transgender Husband in Love

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Published on: July 21, 2010

It’s such a wonderful blessing to hear stories from wives who love and accept their transgendered husband. This week’s crossdressing success story is unique journey of discovery for both partners – beautiful, moving and inspiring.

If you’re the partner of a crossdresser please take a moment and click here to share your crossdressing success story. Your joys and frustrations, acceptance and struggles will inspire and comfort other partners. Stories of the good times will provide light and hope, and stories of the bad times will let them know they’re not alone in their pain.

Andy and Natalie’s Transgender Success Story

I feel the need to share our story in the belief that it may help other wives understand and support their husband. I’ll get straight to the point, when my husband told me that he likes wearing feminine clothing & make up I honestly wasn’t that judgmental about it, because my mother taught me to be open minded to such things.

He informed me in a letter that he made me read in private in another room for fear I may react negatively; quite the opposite I can proudly say. I read the letter and thought about everything. It made me realize that I secretly desired to be a man. I told him my secret desire, and I will never forget the look on his face; surprise mixed with love and happiness.

Ever since our relationship has grown immensely. We encourage each other & refer to each other in the opposite sex more. Our spiritual connection was bursting with passion,
understanding, and deep love for each other; it made our relationship stronger. I sense the envy that people have when they see us and it honestly makes me thankful; I’ve found a bestfriend, lover, and soulmate all in one (a rarity in these current times I sadly believe).

I love to have girl nights with him. We practice & share makeup & some clothes. The only downfall we have come to learn is how & if we tell our friends and family about us, but we agree that this is a minute concern & don’t stress about outsiders. We see each other inside & out & share a deep connection & desire for each other.

I just hope that other wives will be as open & understanding because they may come to realize that it can strengthen & intensify the relationship. Just remember that he is opening his soul to you, he’s in a fragile state of self consciousness and any sense of negativity may hurt him. He’s looking for understanding, acceptance, and in my opinion, informing you that he loves you enough to reveal this to you.

It can be a spiritual revelation to the relationship & it has (and I can testify) lead us to act upon our fantasies in a way that I can only describe as ‘OMG, satisfaction.’
- Andy & Natalie from Houston, TX.

Mandy's Crossdressing Success Story – The Encouraging Crossdresser's Wife

Crossdressing Success Stories are real stories from crossdressers who have overcome fear and self-doubt to let their feminine beauty emerge. Their story of success may be one of triumph over adversity, or the blossoming of a special relationship of openness with those they love. Perhaps the crossdresser’s wife played an even more integral part of their success story.

Share Your Crossdressing Success Story

Please share your crossdressing success story, it only takes a moment and your crossdressing victory will encourage a sister who is just exploring her transgendered nature. I’ll post your story on Crossdresser Heaven within a few weeks.

Meet Mandy

I’m a 31 year old white male, heterosexual, and live in the Seattle area.  I’ve had the desire to crossdress for about as long as I can remember.

Mandy’s Crossdressing Success Story

I think it started when I was maybe 5 or 6?  My best friend, a girl, lived across the street from me.  She was really big into dance, and as such, had lots of different costumes.  I remember she had me try on one of her pink tutu’s one day (don’t know why…. she probably thought it’d be funny.)  I remember once I put it on, the embarassment went away and I felt oddly comfortable, and even satisfied.  For awhile, every time I went over to her house, I wanted to try on the tutu.  The humor in it wore off eventually, and I started to experiment on my own.  I remember taking naps in the afternoon when home, and while mom was at the other end of the house watching her soaps, I’d sneak into her room and steal a few things from her drawers.

Taking mom’s stuff, or stuff from female friends and cousins, was all I did up until I moved out and lived on my own.  Thank God for the JCPenney catalog, and the internet.  I ordered myself a decent amount of underwear (that actually FIT!), then sort of lost interest in it all for awhile.  Don’t know why.  A good few years went by where I still had the free time to do it, just never really did.  When the opportunity came to move across the country for a job, I took that as the chance to pitch everything (purge…  I know, “don’t do it!!!”)  as I thought I was done with all of it.  It wasn’t until I told my wife about it a few years later that I got back into it, through her encouragement.

I’m now married, have an amazing wife who loves and accepts everything about me, and is willing (sometimes pushing) me to explore the depths of my interest in it all.  I’ve learned a lot this last year, and am loving it more than ever!  Hopefully, with the wife’s help, I’ll work up to a night out or something fully dressed  :)


It warms my heart to hear stories where the crossdressers wife plays such a positive and affirming role. I know that many crossdressers agonize over their wife’s acceptance, often keeping their secret for many years beyond what they should bear. If you are struggling to tell your wife, please read how to tell your wife you crossdress. If you’ve told your wife with great success, please comment and share your advice with others.

Hugs and blessings,
Vanessa

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