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Have we reached a tipping point for transgender acceptance?

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Bruce Jenner, Olympic gold medal winner, celebrity and TV star recently came out as a transgender woman, and according to CNN the overwhelming reaction has been love. If a true man's man like Bruce Jenner can announce he is transitioning with such positive reaction, have we reached the tipping point for transgender acceptance?

At first blush it would seem that Bruce Jenner has helped shift the public perception another tick in the direction of acceptance. The reactions from his [Ed: Bruce has asked that we use male pronouns until transitions fully, so we are honoring his wishes] family members was love, and support.

Khloe, his stepdaughter says she is 'soooo proud of you! Dads really are heros', his ex-wife says 'Not only was I able to call him my husband for 25 years and father of my children, I am now able to call him my hero'. Kourtney, his step daughter says 'Couldn't be a more proud daughter. With courage and bravery, let's change the world. I am honored to stand by Bruce's sideand support him'.

Before I pontificate more, a few words are in order:

Welcome to the Community

Bruce, welcome to our community! It is a wonderful, diverse, loving and supportive group of people from around the world. We welcome you with open arms, and are grateful for the positive light in which you've shown the transgender community. We all know intimately how long and how hard your struggle has been. You have displayed great courage to take your first steps in the public limelight.

I am sure that any in the transgender community will be here for you if you ever need support in your journey!

Does this change the transgender experience?

[caption id="attachment_2950" align="alignnone" width="640"]Bruce Jenner transitions to a woman Bruce Jenner transitions to a woman[/caption]

Stepping back to view the past and future by decades and generations we will doubtless see Bruce's revelation as a strong step forward in transgender rights. However, as @TheTaskForce notes on Twitter - "Beyond Bruce Jenner, Transgender people are twice as likely to be unemployed, 1 in 5 experience homelessness and 29% have been denied medical care."

Those in the transgender community are more likely than any other group to be in crisis mode. Transgender people attempt suicide at a rate 10x that of the overall population, and twice that of lesbian, gay or bisexual people. Loss of income, loss of family, loss of friends, even loss of life - transgender people have a difficult road to travel. For every success story there are hundreds, maybe even thousands more who aren't so lucky.

We need to keep working to help those in our community - share your gifts with those who need it most. Whether it's a helping hand, a kind word or a smile when you see someone stepping out for the first time. We are strong when we stand together. When we stand together the world will stand with us.

Hope peaks over the horizon

Of all the quotes about Bruce Jenner, I think this one from Jimmy Fallon so fittingly captures the zeitgeist of the moment, and the historical impact his coming out will have on future generations of transgender women (and men):

Bruce said it best himself, “I would like to think that we can save some lives here,” said Jenner, who admitted he once considered suicide at a low point when seen by paparazzi heading to a surgery to have his Adam’s apple shaved back. “I have a feeling this is my cause in life. This is why God put me on this Earth, to deal with this issue.”

May we all grow stronger from your courage. Thank you Bruce!

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It is all good! People are talking....This will over ride the push back we have had as of late from the haters trying to halt our progress that we made over the last couple of years. The timing was perfect!

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Hi Vanessa,
It's nice hearing from you again. I've missed you.

I think his public declaration is a very good thing. True, he does have the advantage of already being a role model. But, declarations like his do help. Perhaps not immediately. Basically anything positive helps.

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Thanks Alicia - it's good to be back 🙂

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Bruce did beautifully as did Diane Sawyer. . . Refreshing and very encouraging. . .

ABC Television then showed yesterday the CNN special about Renee Richards . . . Wonderfully similar and sooo enlightening. . . The stories are both revealing of the true person who lives within their bodies . . . I'm pleased that I saw both. . .

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I think the simple daily fact of our existence, as it's more and more prevalent and common, will eventually desensitize people to our phenomena, reaching a status of "normal". People simply need to see us enough to get used to us. *Any* transgender specimen contributes to this end, whether she-male prostitutes, drag queens on tv, or transsexual women co-workers. We don't need to express only a specific formula approved by the latest political agenda and powers that be, but rather all individuals in our full diverse splendor. We're too small a community to exclude whole groups of members that may make some uncomfortable. Too-highly specialized and homogenous lifeforms can suffer uncertainty or extinction; Nature loves variety.

I'm not sure about "tipping point", but I do think we're rapidly progressing closer to "background", and then we can relax and live our lives in relative safety. 🙂

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Relax and live our lives in safety - it's such a simple wish, but would be transformative for our community!

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I forgot to mention I think the "pushback" is almost entirely from groups with a political or religious agenda, on matter of principle (theirs). I haven't found this in everyday people I meet in the ordinary avenue of my life-experience.

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I would say a long flat tipping point. Here in the south the prejudice is incredible. People get fired all the time. It may be the start of the tipping point, but we are not there yet. It is going to take a couple more decades, as I think we are that far behind the Gay issue.

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Hi Teresa, I've never been to the south, so only have second hand accounts to go from. To paraphrase the words of a great man, - I hope that one day even the south, sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

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Yes we are a long way from being free, Bruce is just a start here. We need to stand up for who we are. Thank you Bruce Jenner for the start. Maybe the south will someday open its eyes

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It starts with each of us, in our own small way standing up. Some stand where more can see them, but we all stand where someone can see us. Bruce has shown grace and courage - if we all could garner the courage I believe the country would change!

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Watching Bruce Jenner on TV was like letting my breath out. It was so good to see Bruce coming out as he did with the full support of his family. I also saw a man who was very nervous and really scared stiff! Poor guy! I contemplated transgender (MTF), but never could find the courage to take the long lonely trip. Go Bruce!!

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I can only add to that - Go Bruce!!

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Bruce Jenner typifies the saying *Grace under pressure*. What he did for any reason what reason is to my way of thinking bravery. Doing this quietly under the radar is NOT even an option for him. He is meeting this head on. Good luck Bruce and may your dream come to fruition.

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Very brave of her to come out. This will give corouge to others. Un Undia, upper house has voted on transgender rights, which is a major step

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I think Bruce Jenner has had alot of publicity/hype because he(she?) is a celebrity and doesnt truly reflect the average transgender person transitioning .I havent seen any really femme pics of him and he doesnt act very femme !Personally I feel envious of those whom begin the transitioning very young as the male body is more easily transformed than when one gets older . its even more difficult for a male athlete with all those muscles .i wish him the best of luck and hope to see a fully fledged trans emerge !!

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Hey Jenifer - Bruce's journey is definitely not yours or mine. He will experience more scrutiny, but have other advantages in the quality of care he can receive. I hope that his journey is able to captivate the public mind a year from now, so we can see the wonderful woman he has become. When his true soul is shown on the outside I believe it's radiance will melt away the fear and hate of many.

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Because he is such a public figure and feels the burden of his effect on so many more people than the average person i am sure that his coming out has been incredibly painful to him for such a terribly long time. He is a hero, once again, to put a public face to the situation so many people face and garner public understanding and sympathy for all transgenders. What the public does not understand it fears or ridicules.

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I think you touched on an aspect that makes me really excited Linda - that fear and ridicule comes from lack of understanding. The more celebrities out there sharing their transgender journeys, the more familiar the public will become with our experience. Not everyone has a friend or loved one who is transgender, but now all can say they know someone who is.

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I read a comment by a woman who identified as a Lesbian on a Fox News program who attempted to make a point about those who are transgender and who said that as a child she might have identified as a cocker spaniel or as one who could fly, but that did not change the fact that it was simply a fantasy as there was nothing physically different about a transgender person that would make it so. I wondered at her ignorance, especially coming from someone who should know that differences from the sexual norm, not to mention the gender norm, are not ever physically identifiable, rather they are of the soul. Ms. Jenner has captivated us all with her journey into that reality. I am so happy for Ms. Jenner and I look forward to her evolution. It would be great if she becomes a leader and a role model for us all, but no matter what, I hope she achieves what she desires.

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That is truly disappointing to hear Marcia. Thankfully those opinions are getting fewer and further between. Being out there, with love, living who we are - that courage and acceptance of self shine brightly. Many will see and be drawn to it.

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It will be difficult. Conservatives will want to push us back into the dark ages as they lose the fight against gay marriage. Here in Texas they want to pass a law making it a felony sex offense for anyone with a Y chromosome to go into the women's restroom. Right wing bloggers say in capital letters things like "stay out of my daughters bathroom you criminal perverts!" I have read blogs from natural-born women who have been harassed trying to enter a public restroom because they aren't all pretty faced and were not wearing feminine clothing. I heard of one woman who was arrested by a mall security guard and now is suing them. It will probably take some arrests and court challenges to secure our rights. I just hope that some lecher somewhere does not try to take advantage of new freedoms to sneak in with a camera. There is always someone somewhere who ruins it for everyone else.

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Yikes Susan! I hadn't heard about what was going on in Texas. Sheesh! I hope that the reaction is swift and impactful. I sometimes have to shake my head at the intolerance many display towards others.

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