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What Do You Dread Most About Crossdressing?

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Many an experienced crossdresser will tell you that it's not all music and roses - being a woman takes hard work, courage and a lot of patience. Many of us endure almost any discomfort for even a fleeting feeling of femininity. But there are those days when being a woman can get so frustrating you just want to scream.

You've laddered your second pair of pantyhose and then spilled makeup on your best white blouse. You overtweezed one eyebrow and in an effort to even them out both eyebrows are in a race to extinction. Your heel broke, your nail polish smudged and you emerged from shaving looking like a wounded warrior.

*sigh* Sometimes you think it might just be easier being a guy. Now is your opportunity to vent a little - go to https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-dread-most-about-crossdressing / and let me know - what do you dread most about crossdressing?

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Shoot, I voted for Nothing it's all great, and then saw the going back to male mode option. Read it through first Vicki! LOL. I'm so blonde at times, especially in Vicki mode.
No it is all great, the minor irritations like snagged hose, dripping nail polish etc.. well that's all part of the package, outweighed by the wonderful feeling of being my true self. And don't get me wrong, I'm as rough and tumble a guy in male mode as you can find, love my Husky football and Seahawks and Mariners and all. Wouldn't it be nice if it was acceptable for me to do that in public in whatever style suited me at the time.
So there it is, after a particularly nice day being dressed or couple days, I dread having to undo all that nice stuff just so I can go to work, church, or a football game without pushing societies bounds.

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There is nothing i dread about crossdressing because i love it.I just hate going back to horrible male clothes after.

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Hi Sharon, I know how you feel it takes ages to get dolled up only to have to go back to boring old mens clothes. I love being dressed xx

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I do not worry too much about being out dressed. The one thing I do worry about is makeup meltdown, but that is part of being a women.

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Too true hon!

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Dear, I think this is something we all go through - the mirror is both my best and worst friend.
Do your best, keep learning and have fun. I've come to terms with the fact that I'll never pass 100% - even after I complete all the hormones, surgeries and voice training. Because 100% is too high a bar for anyone, even if you're blessed with a small feminine figure.

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What I dread most is doing my make up espscially eye liner, eye shadow (getting the right colour) and the right colour foundation for my skin tone. Apart from that I love being dressed as a woman the full works high heels, jewellery, just everything it feels so good

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Cleaning up the mess when I'm done. Everything has to be back to normal, if and when someone else walks in.

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ah well, although i seldom get the chance to wear makeup in my world, tis what i wear underneath that allows me to seldom if ever go back to boy mode! i always wear panties under my girly jeans,and usually a bra as well.mainly because i haven't owned any boys undies or jeans for a few decades. it all feels right to me and always has. so i guess i'll keep on keepin on! be well, no matter what!

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I am a 65 year old CD and out of my 65 years, I have had only8 years to enjoy being who I am inside. On one, including my wife of 23, around me understands how I am hurting inside to have the chance to be the person I am inside, if only for a few hours per week. I have hit the breaking point too many times and ended up throwing all of my material things away that made me feel like the woman inside. I have no one to talk to and it is killing me inside. I know I'm not alone, and I feel for all that are walking in the same shoes I am. Vickie

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Hi Vanessa

I have 2 dreads. The first is nicking myself when shaving and the second is getting a run in my pantyhose. The pleasure I get makes it worth while.

Regards
Aleesha

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I have one "dread" about being transgender/crossdressing. That is that I must live in a male body when I am a woman inside. To me I feel I am crossdressing when I have to dress as a male. I feel highly cheated that I wasn't born with the female body to match who I am inside. I fathered three children trying to make the best with the male body I was born into. I should have been mother to three children not their father. I am a woman and it is very painful to awake everyday with this horrible male body. I detest doing male things. I hate penises worse than the most radical feminist because I was born with one. Maybe that wouldn't be the case if I had been born with my female body. I hate dealing with all of this body hair. Probably the only pet peeve of mine that wouldn't change is I am unhappy with the size of my breasts. I think standing to pee is disgusting. The only way I can "preform" with a genetic woman is to close my eyes and imagine we are lesbians or she is a man and I am the one being penetrated. Sorry if I got too graphic provided too much info for some of you but you have a scene of the hell that curses me daily. SRS would not be far enough for me I feel I would feel the same and be out thousands of dollars.

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I feel highly cheated that I wasn’t born with the female body to match who I am inside - this rings so true to me.

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What I dread, is the moment I have to call it! The moment I have to look in the mirror and ry, and say goodbye for a while, if even only a few hours. I am Danielle, and I don't want to be David anymore. The reality is not so kind. My three children, my business, people that rely on me for thier lot in life, expect David. That is my prison but thankfully it is filled with loving people that love David, and make him feel special.

That moment, when I wipe off my face, and remove my hair, and take out my barets and bracelets. That moment is hell.

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Honestly, nothing. I love going grocery shopping in short shorts, a cami and sandels with my toe nails painted (they always are). I hate having to wear boring male clothes.

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Yep I think going back to male mode is the thing I dread the most.

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Runs in my pantyhose, getting rid of nasty body hair, and not finding the cute pair heels I just seen in my size. Then again these are the things that come with being a girl. Best I can figure is if your going to wear heels, and a dress to look like a girl you best learn to deal with it.

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