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[Teralynn Loving]

Hi Lexie, Teralynn here. Welcome to CDH. For someone who has only been into crossdressing for 4 years to fully embrace his feminine persona and come out at work about it is moving at “light speed” for a lot of crossdressing people! Apparently that was not the only challenge that has emerged in your life! Having a non supportive wife show up at your work place demanding a divorce must have been quite a spectacle! I wonder if every time you two got into arguments lately the fact that you are a crossdresser was brought up again and again! Divorce can be a crippling thing Luv, but if you are in an unhappy relationship it might be a blessing in disguise especially if there are no children involved. This might be an opportunity for you to find a significant other who will love and accept you exactly as you are! I do wish you the best. Now on to your difficulties in finding clothing that will fit just right. Buying on line can be tedious! I really hate returning things I buy on line(although that was how I started out to get some items to dress in initially) because it is time consuming. If you haven’t already, get a tape measure and make sure you know your body’s measurements.  You can’t go by just height and weight! Dress sizes can be deceiving! I am usually a 14, but one company’s 14 may be completely different from another company’s 14. Same thing applies for the letter sizes (S, M, L etc.). I am afraid the only surefire ways to know if an article of clothing is going to fit you perfectly is to have it made for you personally (expensive) or physically show up at a store, select a few items, go into a fitting room hopefully with a full length mirror) and try them on! {WHAT!} Hey if you can come out as a crossdressing person at work and show up en femme before all your friends and coworkers at your place of employment, then girl you go out to a store and face down any salesperson who might cast an inquisitive eye at you heading for a dressing room! Besides a lot of them may be working on commission and be glad for you to buy something. It ain’t easy Luv but it works! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. – Blessings