Welcome Samantha –
So sorry to hear your story but you have found the right place for love and support! Hopefully you will get all the support you need on your journey to find the right thing for you.
i answered 6-10 but really more complicated than that. Only my significant other really knows about my dressing of my male friends but i do go out to CDTS parties and have a number of friends there who know i dress, of course! It is probably more than 10 but i certainly am still in the closet to most.
i think the most important thing in life is be happy and enjoy everyday.
hugs and kisses,