Suma you certainly found the right place to explore and learn. Meet many of our gals just like yourself who are experiencing their love for dressing. Making friends is so much fun and having them to talk to, share advice and most importantly a respect of what you mean to us and yourself. Keeping this hidden is actually one many are experiencing. A secret kept deep inside for the world not to see. Wanted to open up the true spirit of one’s self but to be afraid to distance further the people around you. It does draw tears not being able to enjoy true satisfaction in having others look at you as you feel inside. I do see this. It is very difficult to separate our desires from our lives with family. Finding opportunities can be far and few when hiding from everyone close not knowing how they will react to this. For our children Toddler’s are one thing but it certainly becomes more complicated when dealing with much older kids and we must be careful and understand that this could work or it can be troublesome to any household. I hope you’ll be able to find information to start in helping you. Ask your questions in our forums and get some of the answers to make things a little bit clearer. Everyone finds their ways but in time it would be wise to talk to your wife when a better understanding begins to show. The shock of opening up to her can be difficult and very emotional but for her to suddenly discover your passion would be devastating. We’re here to help and support you, to offer advice and just here to listen. Here at cdh were a help and support site. With many like yourself were here to learn from one other with questions and inquiries to better our feelings for dressing . True to our values and never to be ment for other activities. There’s other places to satisfy ones appetite. Cdh is a understanding and caring place for all to experience a passion to express our femininity ,a inner love with no judgments and free of guilt . This is the perfect place to be yourself with same mined souls only wanting a friend to lean on or talks to comfort and support one another.
So relax and enjoy the peace and love that only a community like this can offer . Very happy to meet you and hope your stay with us is most comforting. Hugs. ..