Hey, you are NOT a dual gender freak, nor are you perverted or depraved! We need to drop those words from your vocabulary. In my case, I have personally met both you and your lovely bride, in person, face-to-face, and I know you are both great people!
Sometimes I can’t help but wonder if some or most of these therapists and/or clinical psychologists have the proper training and experience to be of any use to us CDs? If you are familiar with Rhonda’s story, a counselor made the situation even worse.
Nevertheless, the feelings of guilt you are describing I can recall having them myself many years ago. They are difficult to handle, but the female part of our personality is part of us and is not going away. I tried suppressing the female part of my personality for many years, and it led to alcoholism.
One thing I always do too is I refer to my female self and my male self. They are NOT two separate personalities. We are one, and we are a happy ONE, when each part gets a chance to express itself.
Hey Geena, you and I are blessed with supportive spouses. For this, I am grateful!
We’re all here to share our experience, strength, and hope with each other in this wonderful self-help forum provided by CDH. I look forward to reading the valued opinions of others.
Hugs from Peggy Sue!
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