Trish – your comment made me also think about the man who got away from me and whom I often (!!) think about.
I’ve been with dozens of guys in my life, not even sure how many really. When dressed, there’s nothing more exciting than to take the woman’s role in bed with a man. It’s exhilarating.
About 10 years ago, one man in particular really knew how to make me his woman. He was much older, bigger, hairy chest (always had a big, big thing for hairy chested men). He was married of course – the guys who like CDs always are. I went to his apartment, dressed in lingerie for him, then did anything and everything with him all night long. He was an incredible lover. All my male lovers have been good, but he was amazing.
I’ll never forget how he first drew me in for that electric kiss – his arms around me, my hands on his hairy chest, on my tip toes to reach his lips, while able to feel how aroused he was. Well, I stupidly let him get away, wrongly thinking many more men like him would come along. I probably think about him nearly every day, wondering what might have been 🙁