Welcome to the site Helena!
I can’t answer that question because I’ve only been doing this a couple years and single. I don’t have experience in trying this as a non-single.
For me, I guess the question then reads… “Do I WANT it to go away?”… and right now, while I’m single, the answer is a resounding NO WAY! LOL. So much fun as a single person! The attention isn’t even comparable to my boy life… and my boy life was pretty active in that area of attention, and still, Carmen generates a million times the amount I can ever achieve as a man.