If I had to give my self a label I would say that I am probably a little bit bi. Back when I was in my 20’s I had a one night stand with a man. I did not go looking for him, I went to a gay bar in Vancouver one night because I felt safe there dressed as Trish I had been shopping early that evening and just wanted to relax and have a drink before I went back to my hotel. While I was there this guy bought me a drink and I smiled and thanked him. He later came over and started talking to me. In a bit he asked if I wanted to dance. He was a very good looking man and the idea of dancing with him did not repulse me so I said yes. As the night progressed he ran his hand up my leg and told what nice legs I had. Well, I don’t know if it was the drinks or him or both but we ended up in my hotel room making out. It was the one and only time I had sex with a man and at the end I was not ashamed nor repulsed with myself or him. I just had a man confirm my femininity and for the brief time I felt 100% female. If I had lived in Vancouver I could see a possible relationship forming. It was the only time that I made love to a man but I always look back fondly on this experience but I am happy with my SO and do love women much more than men.