Yeah, basically I am trying to understand the relative complexities by proposing only one of numerous ideas. Athenising is simply enhancing one’s femininity (appearance and behaviour as well as interactions) through a variety of means. ‘Fashion’ and what that implies is just part of it. It could just be the way you smile. The basic idea is that where ‘cross-dressing’ infers males trying to be females (a gross misconception), athenise just means being feminine. Whether you are male or female is not the issue. I have seen too many males being authentic women (and quite a few females lacking that fullness of authenticity) to believe that a male cannot be a lady.