Reply To: Guidance for my wife

[Dawn Judson]

My wife reluctantly attended one therapy session with me. She thought that we would “gang up” on her. She was pleasantly surprised. However, she has no interest in going again. Likewise, she has no interest in talking with other SOs. She says, “I don’t need other people telling me how I should feel.” Referring to me, she says, “I hate that bitch. I wish she would die.” This is all very hard. My desire to transition grows with each day, but my wife says that she would leave. If I could, at least, have the freedom to present, en femme, that might be enough to satisfy me.