As Vecca said acceptance is the most important. While my wife is accepting of my dressing she does have her limits and I am fine with.
Outfits she no longer wears.
Purchasing make u and showing me how to use it.
There are many other things she has done that I consider gifts as they are unexpected and appreciated. She surprises me quite a bit with what she does or says especially when I am not expecting it. I guess that is a gift that keeps on giving.