Reply To: What prompts you to dress?

[Vecca Senn]

I can’t remember if I’d replied earlier or not so if I have, this is an update.
I dress when it’s finally time to let go of the day. I have a new job that requires office time so I do some discrete under dressing, but that doesn’t count for this discussion. When I get home I don’t automatically dress. I need to make sure everything, all responsibilities besides those that might be considered “womanly” are taken care of, then I relax. In this context, I dress every day. For special occasions I pick the appropriate venue for dressing. If I have a day off and nobody is home, I’m in a flowing dress trying to de-stress while getting some housework done. If I’m away with my wife, I gauge her thought process to figure out if where we are going is a dressing opportunity. I might dress in “stealth”, if she wants to go out but doesn’t want attention. If I’m away where nobody has a chance of knowing me, I might just go full Vecca and try to draw attention. The urge to dress is situational for me.