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So I am exactly 7 days from an overnight trip to Cincinnati and I am a complete bundle of nerves. Yes it is my 1st trip solely as Trisha. No not my 1st time in public as Trisha. Yes I will be accompanied by my GGF.
I have decided to go without a safety net. No drab clothes at all. I’m afraid I will lose the battle and revert to drab if they are available.
Not sure why I decided to do this post. I suppose I am just airing it out a bit so I can process it differently.
Wish me luck ladies.
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Trisha
Trisha
Hope all goes well and the drab stays in the closet.
Full story on return.Wilma x
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you go girl. Wish I could do that.
hugs TashaEnjoy your trip Trisha…
Going with a friend is a great idea… company to chat to will kill those nerves and i love the idea of ” no drab”….have a wonderful time….and let us know all about it when you get back.
Huggs, grace xx
I know those feelings so well, Trisha!
I believe it’s adrenaline kicking in – a bit of stage fright, if you will.
Feeling that is a good sign – first night nerves often mean that the performance will go much better than expected – the adrenaline takes you to a special, spontaneous, creative space. It’s scary when it first appears, like a huge wave looming – but then you ride it like a surfer.
Biggest difference is you won’t drown if you wipe out!
I hardly dare think about what I am about to do when I go out, just the events ahead, and how I want to present myself and represent my sisters.
To me, the fear and anxiety is normal and goes away after just a few minutes walking around, observing and mingling. Even if that mingling is limited to ordering a coffee.
Have fun, and tell us all about it!
Love Laura
Good Luck Trish. Sounds exciting. I hope its everything you are expecting and more!!
Chelly
Stay strong Trisha. Hugs 💕💋 Katie
Good luck and stay strong Trisha. You are giving me the courage to take a trip en femme. Please let us know how your trip went and how it felt.
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Tonya-
Good luck Trisha and have a great time. You look great! You have someone with you so just try to relax and be yourself, everything will go just fine. You are an inspiration to all of us here and to all CD’s everywhere. The more we get out and the more the public sees us the more we will be accepted across the board. What a great confidence building trip this will be.
Hi Trisha,
That is also the next hurdle that I want to overcome, to go on an overnight trip as Aurora without a safety net as you so nicely put it. I only go on days out as Aurora now and, seeing as I live alone, I always wear skirt outfits at home. The idea of spending a night away though is really enthralling.
All the best for your trip, Trisha.
Hugs,
Aurora Eden
How are you traveling? While I’m currently on a long weekend getaway 100% en femme (no pants or flats at all) I’m driving and that through mostly deserted areas so it’s not that bad. If I would have to fly I wouldn’t do it, at least not on the airplane part.
Assuming you don’t risk bumping in to good friends there it’s nothing to worry about. Yes, they may see that you are a guy in women’s clothes but so what, it’s not like you get arrested or so so just enjoy your Trisha time.
/kt
Hi Trish, I am glad you posted this. I am building up confidence to take Alicia on a trip somewhere, no ideas yet as to where but want the same for her. The thought of driving from my house as a woman and all of the rest, fueling up, check in, meals activities and all of the rest excites me so much. I hope you have a wonderful time.
Alicia
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