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  • #345533
    Seraphina
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    Registered On: March 2, 2020
    Topics: 21
    Replies: 200

    So I’m at the point where my wife is aware and I’ve said I’m dressing for my zoom therapy sessions. But so far she’s still not keen on seeing me dressed.
    This morning I’m sitting waiting for the therapist to log on, dressed in a lace grilled mini, black merino hold ups, Gossard bralette with chicken fillets, Ultimo shorts and a v neck blouse with kittens and cherries on it. The doorbell goes. My wife is on the phone so asks me to go downstairs 🤣 I can’t atm… ok, have you got 10€ for the courier? Oh really? You want me to come out??
    I walk to the kitchen, get my wallet, give her €10, she looks at my chest, smiles, carries on with her conversation and takes the money to the courier.

    to be continued….

    Seraphina xx

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    • #346040
      Julie Green
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      Registered On: April 21, 2020
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 11

      That’s lovely. A great reply from you – measured! Something you can now work through together and in your own time.
      I think like @iarmstrong Isabel that there is a benevolent force at work and these things are destined to happen – they don’t always seem like the best thing at the time, but often turn out to be so.
      Take it easy.

      Hugs,
      Julie

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    • #346032
      Seraphina
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      Registered On: March 2, 2020
      Topics: 21
      Replies: 200

      Hey Isabel, thanks for your thoughts!

      Latest update… ‘do you need a wardrobe?’
      ‘Mmmm, maybe, let’s see how it goes….’ (internally I’m crying with joy obvs…!)

      💕

    • #345924
      Isabel
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      Registered On: February 4, 2020
      Topics: 11
      Replies: 26

      Hey Seraphina,

      I’m sure it was a tad awkward in the moment, but as the others have said, a step forward.  If your wife is aware that you dress for your sessions (I’m not going to call it therapy, that makes it sound like you have something wrong with you, you don’t) as you say, maybe it was a coincidence (though I don’t believe in such a thing).  Perhaps your wife forgot in the moment, or my theory, an unknown force (fate/destiny/God whatever you prefer) had a hand in putting such a situation in place that made you wife see you dress. The fact that she smiled suggests the beginning of her accepting you. Had she been like many women I know through work, she’d have put the phone down for a minute, looked for your wallet, paid the courier and told you about it if and only if you asked about being a few pounds short.

      Hope things continue to progress for you.

      Hugs,

      Isabel

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    • #345804
      Amanda Anderson
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      Registered On: August 18, 2019
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 294

      Nice.

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    • #345800
      Seraphina
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      Registered On: March 2, 2020
      Topics: 21
      Replies: 200

      Thanks all for the support, I couldn’t have done it without you all 💕

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    • #345798
      Autumn Valiant
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      Registered On: July 14, 2019
      Topics: 24
      Replies: 947

      Seraphina that sounds so encouraging.

      Very hopeful

      Hugs

       

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    • #345795
      Suzanne Martin
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      Registered On: January 8, 2020
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 49

      Good for you dear.  It could be the start of her accepting a bit more.

      My wife saw me dressed after I came out to her and said she didn’t want to see me dressed but will help with fittings if needed.

      I also have done therapy sessions via video chat dressed and was glad that I did.  I could never do it face to face as I don’t dress outside the house.  I did tell my wife before I did it and she didn’t object to it.  My therapist knows of my cross dressing as that is why I started going to her.  It felt good to expose that side of me to her, and she complimented me on my outfit.

      Hope things continue to move along in  a positive way for you.

       

      XOXO

       

      Suzanne

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    • #345745
      Stephanie Bass
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      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 215

      You go Girlfriend and a great deal with the smile that’s a step forward and good luck on therapy hope it goes well Hugs .

      Stephanie

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    • #345738
      Liv Smart
      Participant
      Registered On: May 19, 2020
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 12

      This seems like a big move forward in your relationship.

      I can feel the love you have for each other.

      I am so happy for you.

      Hugs

      Liv xx

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    • #345587
      Julie Green
      Participant
      Registered On: April 21, 2020
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 11

      Hi Sera,

      sometimes we just have to let what happens happens and can’t always be in control of the situation.
      It’s lovely to hear that your wife “smiled”.
      Look forward to you having growing acceptance and you are able to make free choices.
      Julie
      xo

    • #345535
      Stephanie Kennedy
      Participant
      Registered On: March 15, 2019
      Topics: 8
      Replies: 364

      Hi Seraphina  Great moment. I LOVE IT. I can picture it

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