Getting overmyself

[Erika]

hi!

I stumbled upon this community, I have always been made to feel guilty about how I feel about the way I am think.

I want to adapt and not shame the other side of me.

 

Question one . I have mentioned how I feel to my partner a few times and they stand puzzled and unsure, I try to explain what I want or explore but they feel that I should be this struggling mess of who I am.

 

any support or help on that front

 

 

the other thing is I can rarely find clothing I like or is not so tight on the tummy area… I’ve tried tall and plus size stores and am being picky as nothing seems to catch my eye.

 

 

[Lucinda Hawkns]

Hello and welcome, glade you stumbled on this site, here at C.D.H we are very friendly and helpful . I am a closet cross dresser so to speak, wife knows of my dressing up and lets me as long as the 2 adult children are not home. She has seen me all dolled up and says nothing but that I put on too much perfume, but at times she does ask me why I dress up. I tell her y but does not want to hear it. But she is getting better at my dressing up.

[Dame Veronica Graunwolf]

Hi Erika!  Jest read your latest post. Your significant other keep suggesting you were better off before change????  Ask them once…why?   After that just say….I am what I am and that is all I am going to be…….now buzz off and accept it. Stop beating a dead horse!

Hope this helps….other solution is to move to your own digs.

Yes clothing can be tough. Find something you  like in a large size then take it to a seamstress for adjustments. Or get one custom made at a tailor/seamstress

Good Luck….lady Veronica

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