- This topic has 15 replies, 11 voices, and was last updated 1 year ago by Terri Anne.
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- July 24, 2022 at 2:27 pm #665085
I am CC
I am a mature crossdresser who has recently come out to my wife. She has been so supportive and has been trying so hard to understand. Even though she knows we don’t really talk it about it much , but we are trying. In the mean while I thought I would join this site to see if I could find others who have been are currently are in the same situation.
Hope to talk soon
Thank you
CC
- July 24, 2022 at 2:35 pm #665086
Hi CC,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
- July 24, 2022 at 2:39 pm #665088
CC
welcome, it’s so nice you have joined us. I too held my feelings for many years and this year opened to my wife after 39 years of marriage. She went through all the questions, the emotional feelings and in time was accepting but with caution. I would have liked a more welcoming acceptance but was happy for what was offer and relieved that I didn’t have to hid it any more. Since then things have gotten much better as she is seeing a likeable and more sensitive husband one who understands her and her needs and things important to her. Now we’re moving forward as she now to allowing Stephanie more into our lives. All I can say is follow her lead, set guidelines and never move on anything until your both ready to do so. And most important talk, talk and more talk. These to me helped but like everything different strokes for different folks.
Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums, read about stories of others learn more on as they journey through their experiences. Many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you
Stephanie 🌹
- This reply was modified 1 year ago by Stephanie Flowers.
- July 24, 2022 at 2:45 pm #665090
Thank you Stephanie for welcoming me and sharing some of your experiences. We are moving forward in baby steps and that is fine with me as she has been so amazing i do not want to rush her.
I am really looking forward to checking out the site.
Thanks again
CC
- July 24, 2022 at 2:48 pm #665091Anonymous
There are girls 👧 here at different stages. I am full time since I was 9 till now 62. You can get with everyone else and see what they can add to things. Welcome to the site
- July 24, 2022 at 3:13 pm #665096
Oh, yes.
- July 24, 2022 at 4:03 pm #665104
Hi CC and welcome to CDH. An accepting spouse is awesome.
Give it time and give her time to grow with it all at her pace and hopefully in the end you will both be even closer.
Take Care
Susan
- July 24, 2022 at 4:06 pm #665106
Thank you Susan. She is an amazing woman so i know everything will work out for the best.
- July 24, 2022 at 4:15 pm #665113
How mature are you dear? I’m in my 70s and I feel free, coming and going dress 24/7, welcome Sisters (your wife as well is now one of us)
- July 24, 2022 at 7:11 pm #665131
Hi Michelle, I too am in my 70s and I think it is our duty to show these sweet young things just how classy we senior girls can be! 😆
- July 24, 2022 at 6:19 pm #665125
Hi CC Nice meeting you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As for being a new sister and family member here you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Congrats girlfriend on having support at home as myself here also have been married 39 years and came out to wife just after marrige with support and acceptance She Met Stephanie withen a couple of weeks and been great ever since have never went out of home dressed till this past march at the Keystone conferance in PA.. spent the week there with wife and met many wonderful CDH girlfriends among many other ladies what a wonderful time .. Well girlfriend again nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..
Stephanie Bass
- July 24, 2022 at 7:09 pm #665130
Welcome C C! To have an accepting spouse is perhaps the greatest giftvwe can be given as crossdressers. So many girls I know are not that fortunate. When I resumed crossdressing after a long absence I decided to tell my wife and family right up front. My wife was at first very upset, but thanks in large oart to the intervention of my sister she has come to accept Paulette. I try not to overdo it, but the times my wife and I have gone to parties and had photos taken as ‘girlfriends’ have been priceless. I have learned to be Paulette in moderation which is OK with me because I realize just how much effort it would be to get into “Paulette Mode” every day. I look forward to hearing more about your adventures. Hugs Paulette
- July 24, 2022 at 10:39 pm #665154
Hi C C,
Welcome, it is lovely to meet you. I hope you get the advice and support you want and make lots of new friends.
I came out to my wife in the early stages of our relationship and we have now been married for 28 years. She has been wonderfully supportive and we have always communicated and compromised.
I happy to chat anytime and share advice and friendship, please feel free to message me..
Tara.
- July 25, 2022 at 9:50 am #665243
Hello C C,
Welcome to our amazing CrossDresserHeaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.
At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages. You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.
Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.
Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.
Regards,
Terri Anne, Ambassador
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