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    Trish White
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    Registered On: December 2, 2021
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    I have been interested in silky, satiny things for as long as I can remember and a cross dresser since I was 10. I live in the interior of B.C. about a 4 hour drive from Vancouver.

    I’m married but unfortunately my wife is totally against my crossdressing and at this stage of my life, I’m 71, it is very difficult to have time to cross dress as I work from home and she works part time leaving fem time to a couple of hours in the morning. We raised 2 boys and with both being in sports my crossdressing was pretty much put on hold for a long time.

    I only recently started dressing totally en fem when I can but with out my wife’s understanding it makes both our lives not good but she is still with me. I did tell her about my dressing before we got married but in hind site we probably shouldn’t have.

    A lot of my work involved trips to Vancouver so I used to get totally dressed make the 4-5 hour trip and then park and get back into my boy clothes for the meetings and then get dressed again after. All in my car, lol, which wasn’t ideal and then the trip back home. On the occasions I was in Vancouver over night or longer I would go shopping en fem and sometimes go to the gay bars in the evening. Back then I had no problem passingΒ  but now I still look pretty good from the neck down but not so much from the neck up :(. I would love to get a face lift but the cost is prohibitive. Finding Crossdresser Heaven is nice, giving me a place to go that understands. I’m still working on my wife but not holding my breath.

    Wishing you all a Merry Christmas

    Trish

     

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    • #590948
      Abbie Normal
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      Registered On: June 13, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH from Vancouver Island Trish!

      β€” Abbie πŸ™‚

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      • #591573
        Trish White
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        Registered On: December 2, 2021
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        Thanks Abbie,

        Where on the Island are you from? I have a few friends and family over there.

        Cheers,

        Trish

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        • #592481
          Abbie Normal
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          Victoria is where I was born and raised though I lived for 10 years in Nanaimo and now my wife and I live on one of the southern gulf islands but Victoria is still our home base in many ways.

          β€” Abbie 🥰

           

    • #590760
      Amy Myers
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      Registered On: February 11, 2019
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      Trish, nice to see another Canadian girl here, only I’m a long way from you in Ontario. Hopefully your wife will mellow in her opinion, as you are the person she married and your femme side is part of it.

      I’ve changed in cars more than once too, but at least you have a nice long drive to enjoy being femme.

      Amy

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      • #590915
        Trish White
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        Registered On: December 2, 2021
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        Hi Amy, yes the long drives were very nice with lots of time to enjoy being Trish. The truckers and other drivers checking me out was exciting as well. Just hated having to change to boy clothes at the end of the trip though.

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    • #590750
      Julie (Jules) Anderson
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      Registered On: February 9, 2021
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      Merry Christmas, Trish! Thanks for sharing. And don’t give up on your wife. Wishing yo all the best!
      Hugs
      Jules

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      • #590916
        Trish White
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        Thanks Julie, it would be so nice if she did come around. I do love her.

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    • #590748
      Sylvia
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      Registered On: October 10, 2021
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      Dear Trish ,

      Welcome to CDH !
      I hope , in time , you will get the wife onboard.
      Untill then enjoy yourself here , and we hope we
      will get to know you a little bit better on the Forums ,

      Love Sylvia.

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    • #590473
      Ria Freichuk
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      Registered On: June 6, 2020
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      Hi Trish. I am in Saskatoon in a similar situation to you. Welcome toCDH, It has been a god send to me.

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    • #590441
      Fredrika Jones
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      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      I hope your wife grows in acceptance. Don’t give up!

      Fredrika

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      • #590702
        Trish White
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        Me too, it would really make both our lives so much better. Thanks Fredrika

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    • #590381
      Catherine Dickson
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      Registered On: January 22, 2020
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      Hi Trish, and Welcome,

      I too have a less than supportive wife. At least we can have this place to be our fem selves. I’ve found CDH to be absolutely terrific and a very needed form of therapy.

      Merry Christmas,
      Catherine

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      • #590704
        Trish White
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        You’re absolutely right Cathrine. It’s so nice to have people to talk to that understand.

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    • #590378
      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Trish,

      Welcome to CDH!

      Alice

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    • #590377
      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      TrishΒ  Welcome, get comfortable and start enjoying all that were about. Meet with many of our ladies here and talk about anything you like. Much to see and do . Nice to meet and look forward to seeing you around here soon.

       

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

       

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    • #590356
      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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      • #590705
        Trish White
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        Thank you Liara πŸ™‚

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    • #590271
      Paulette Parfois
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      Registered On: November 17, 2021
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      Hi Trish,
      Welcome from another ‘newbie’. I have only been here a few weeks but I have learned, in a very short time, this is the place to be for support and friendship. You are making me homesick. We moved here to Arizona about five years ago from the Seattle area where we lived for over forty years. I had an office on West Pender Street in Vancouver for years and crossed the border weekly with my NEXIS pass. I wish I would have known you then. We could have had so much fun and gotten into so much mischief together. Take care, Dear Lady, Hugs, Paulette By the way Kamloops (rivaled only by Kelowna) is one of my favorite places in the interior!

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      • #590706
        Trish White
        Lady
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        Oh, Paulette, that would have been so cool to have someone to enjoy shopping and the night life in Vancouver. We had some work in Seattle a few years back and you could have shown me around.

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        • #591031
          Paulette Parfois
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          I consider Vancouver to be the most beautiful city in North America. Who knows maybe when things return to a semblance of normalcy we can still get together there. It would be a fun experience!

    • #590248
      Barb Wire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2021
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      Hi Trish!

      A BIG Ontario Welcome! (That’s where I live. Shhh…).

      I’m currently at my little cottage in a very feminine state, but must return home today. Boo…

      Happy Holidays!

      Hugs, Barb πŸ™‚

       

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      • #590274
        Paulette Parfois
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        Registered On: November 17, 2021
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        You know Barb, we ‘senior’ ladies should probably consider heading over to Vancouver one of these days for a girl’s weekend with Trish! That’s if Canada ever returns to normal again! By the way, Superman may have had his ‘Fortress of Solitude’ but it sounds like you have your own sanctuary? Hugs, Paulette

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        • #590279
          Barb Wire
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          Oh, God yes, Paulette!! Even if we all just look warmly at each other over a coffee and have giggle!

          Oh, you dreaded bug! Release your grip!

          Yes, lucky me to have a “hide-out”. It’s not much, but it’s my little Heaven in the woods.

          Love, Barb πŸ™‚

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          • #590297
            Paulette Parfois
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            Merry Christmas, Dear Lady!

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          • #590341
            Barb Wire
            Duchess - Annual
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            And to you as well!
            Merry Christmas!!

            xxx ooo Barb

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    • #590233
      Tara Ryan
      Lady
      Registered On: April 20, 2021
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      Hi Trish,

      Welcome it is lovely to meet you. Β The girls here are friendly and supportive, I hope you make many friends. Β I am always happy to chat so please feel free to get in touch.

      A Merry Christmas to you as well.

      Tara.

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      • #590920
        Trish White
        Lady
        Registered On: December 2, 2021
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        Thanks Tara

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    • #590228
      Terri Anne Knoan
      Ambassador
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hello Trish,

       

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.Β  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

       

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

       

      =========== Link to our public Chat roomΒ  Β ==============

       

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/chat/

       

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    • #590225
      Requal Joanne
      Lady
      Registered On: December 15, 2020
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      Welcome Trish, to this Heavenly address, where resides some wonderful friendly and supportive persons you can communicate with.

      I too was in the same situation as Trish, however, given time, my wife has now accepted Requal; even though she still remains a little apprehensive.

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      • #590922
        Trish White
        Lady
        Registered On: December 2, 2021
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        You are a lucky Girl Requal.

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