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    Krista Sommers
    Registered On: October 22, 2022
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    Hello . I am newer to cross dressing, I did experiment when I was younger trying on some of my sisters clothes but I just did not understand why I enjoyed it so much. The next chance I had I was early 20s and my friends Girlfriend wanted to dress us up and go out to a club . I played not interested but she looked me in the eye and said you know you would love it, Unfortunately my GF at the time did not like the idea and it fell to the wayside,, Through the years I dabbled when I had a chance but did not really do much. A few months ago my wife went to visit family for a few weeks and while cleaning out the garage I found a bin of old dresses. Well I went from 0-100 pretty quick, What a wonderful online world made it easy to order whatever I needed and not having to worry about racing her to the mailbox or front door was a blessing. When it was time for her to return home I went through the house like a crime scene clean up crew to make sure to a wig strand or makeup powder could not be found. When she came home I was down because no more dressing up. One day I was looking at photos I took of me as Krista and did not Notice she entered the room. She saw the photo and thought I was on a dating website so I had to come clean. I got to say She was stunned but did her research and came away with a better understanding. We are trying to work things out but the big stumbling block lets say is Krista in the Bedroom. She is against it and I do not see a way around it. She says she supports me like any friend or family member but can not support the physical part of it. So That’s it . Hoping to make some friends ,get some good advice and enjoy my time here.

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      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Krista welcome to Cdh. Stephanie 🌷

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      Registered On: February 8, 2016
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      Wives are tough. She is part of the way my there pretty early. The next part may or may not ever arrive unfortunately. Good luck. Enjoy being a beautiful woman every chance you get.

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      Hi Krista, welcome to CDH.  It’s good that your wife tolerates your femme side but she just has no lesbian tendencies. You should talk to her and find out what she is comfortable with respect to your dressing.



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      J J
      Registered On: September 13, 2019
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      Hello Krista and welcome,

      You learned a lesson many here should heed, our spouse or SO will eventually find out, so it is best to comtrol the narrative. Keep the lines of communication open and ne patient. No dount it can be hard for them to process this side of you they may never have dreamed of. While she soumds great and seems supportive, the bedroom may just be too much to handle at this time. Patience and honesty may resolve be the issue in time.

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Krista,

      Welcome to CDH.  Sounds like your wife is somewhat open to your cross dressing.  Keep the communication lines open and listen to her limitations.


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      Christina Isme
      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      Some wife is understanding while others are so so and some not. When I met my wife I was full time girl 👧 since 9. So she knew and would by me dresses 👗 she wanted me to wear places till she passed away. Be patient and let her come around and maybe you will be able to open up  and live your true self. We are glad to have you welcome to the site

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      Tara D Sometimes
      Registered On: October 4, 2022
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      Hi Krista and welcome.  The good news is that you don’t have to hide anything, right? I can completely relate to the “in the bedroom” issue.  My wife is fine with me being Tara any time I want but I only bring Tara to the bedroom once in a while.  It seems to go more easily that way.

      Welcome sister!


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      Tina Riley
      Registered On: October 16, 2022
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      Hi Krista,

      Welcome,  I am new around here too. I have found this a wonderful place to be.


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      Wanda Ovahear
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
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      Hi Krista,

      It’s good to have you here. I’m still getting my feet wet here but I’m enjoying all the encouragement and support I’ve found and I’m sure you will, too!

      Hugs and Kisses,

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      Marlene Roberts
      Registered On: December 9, 2019
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      Hi, Krista. Welcome to CDH!

      You are lucky to have a SO you lets you dress in front of her as a great many will not. My SO is fully accepting (I am typing this dressed in bra, panties and a dress) but will not let me make out with her while dressed as she says she is not into women; bra and panties is OK because that is what I always wear, the dress is because it has gotten cooler otherwise no dress. I count my blessings and don’t push it because we are usually naked when making out so undressing out of my femme clothes is no big deal. Best, Marlene.

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      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Hi Krista welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, it’s ok that your wife as accepted in parts that your a crossdresser some women will put up with you dressing part time but they draw the line about dressing in the bedroom, I’m still in the closet to my wife she has no idea that I’m a crossdresser,

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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      April Sinclair
      Registered On: April 29, 2022
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      Hello Krista welcome to CDH glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place home or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. Glad you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself and you are sharing a part of your authentic self it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried what seems like a lifetime I am glad you have made the step. Welcome!

      Hugs April

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      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Krista nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here..  You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  With such a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from girl you have come to the right place as many ladies in the forums and posts tell how they started and are joining the ranks of woman hood .. So Sunshine State girlfriend when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Krista as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and guess what girl we all are just a simple click away from you ..  Again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon.. Say hello sometime as i was born and raised up about 50 miles away from you before moving to Montana About 15 years ago  hugs new sister ..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Autumn Gold
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
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      Hi Krista,

      Welcome to the website.

      I am new here too.


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